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Hey, do you happen to know of any lacrosse camps/clinics in the central new jersey area (somerset county/princeton) that are relatively cheap? And for high schoolers? (9th grade) (link)
no i dont live there
you should google lacrosse summer camp new jerrsey and soething will come up


this storey is kinda hard to explain because you dont really know where i live or how my neighborhood is set up.
so i made this like diagram thing because its way to hard without it. and even its prob hard. and it would make a lot more sense if you could see where i live.

KEY:
house = house haha.
---- = road
| = road
" = peoples back yard property
> or ^ = the way the people's house were facing/ pointer to street




|----------|
house | |
| houses | houses....
|----------|
|houses | so there back yard was right next to there house. just the peoples backyard had like bushes and stuff so i hid behind them.
when i was behind the bushes just incase that guy passed me again i want to be hidden, i called my older brother (hes 16 im 13 turning 14 in june) and told him "come up and get me. i think somebodys following me." and i told him where i was and he was like okay okay. so he ran from my house to street 4 and i came out of the bushes and was like yessssss ah. haha.
so when we were walking down my street (street 1) i saw a silver car at the end of the street. and i sure if it was the same silver car that i had seen before since i have really bad eyesight, but it was just sitting there and then it just puled into someones dirve way. so i dont know. then we just ran home. haha.

my questions are.... do you think it was following me and do you think what i did was right. and yeah. thanksss. (link)
first off, i dont agree with holahayley56, how she said "B. he was lost, and was slowing down because he wanted to ask you something." because NOBODY would ask a kid. a normal person would NOT ask a kid and freak them out. he's a sick man (if it's a man). maybe he hasn't seen a girl in awhile, but this is just wrong.

you really should have gotten the liscense plate number. because the way this person was passing you over and over again, that's plain weird. he has no excuse to do that. and he probably just pulled into the persons driveway because he didnt want to get caught by your brother. yes i think what you did was right. but there's really nothing you can do, just tell your neighbors to be on a lookout for him/her, because that's just reaaaally creepy.


ok so one week i had my period. it ended, but came back only 2 weeks later. then the same thing happened again and im having my period now. i know that you're not supposed to have your period every two weeks, can anybody tell me if something is wrong? (link)
hey

look, it's totally normal if this is your first year. most girls don't regulate their cycle until around 1-2 years. if you've had your period a while, this is unusual and you should check out a gyno / doctor.

it's probably just regularizing. the average menstrual cycle should last 28-35 (at most) days.

seems you're just regularizing :] no worries.


I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods. (link)
hey

sushi.
chicken.
fish.
potato chips.
pizza.
hot dogs.
ANYTHING with cheese.
fried chicken :]
duck.
veal.
steak.


My best friend and I like the same guy. What do I do? I dont want to be a bad friend but I also really like the guy. She doesnt know that I like him but I think it is pretty obvious. (link)
hey

i strongly disagree with the girl below me. i think you shouldn't tell your friend, and especially not him (at this time) because you don't want it to affect your friendship with your best friend. plus, who knows? you may stop liking him in a couple weeks - it would be a wasted effort.

keep it to yourself until she stops liking him. then make a move on him.

the girl under me had good intentions, but i don't think it's a good idea.


i need help writing on the poem that describing my similarities/diffrences which is turtle because i could be slow,shy but i dont know what turtle's elses personality is, but i made a start:

slow like a turd
and shy like a turd
hides when shy


anyone got the idea? please help (it doesnt have to rhyme)
(link)
Turd? Hahah, is this a joke?!
You know turds are poo, right?
Okay.. well..
Slow like a turtle
And shy like a turtle
Hides when shy
Domestic yet lonely
Seeming as not
Decieving abilities
Forgotten easily
Due to lack of public personality
But remembered by the ones of love


hey- anyone know who got voted off of american idol tonight?
thank you so much! (link)
melinda doolittle. :( all that's left is jordin sparks & blake lewis... vote jordin! lol


Is today the anniversary of Michael Jackson's first moonwalk during billie jean? (link)
I believe it is. I hope i helped!

~.:*liviy*:.~


So, this is pretty long but I'd really be thankful if anyone could help me with this:

I'm 14/f and I am a strong non-comformist but at the same time, I want to do the best things I can so I can slap it down on a college application. The thing that I very, very much want to do is SODA but I didn't get in this year v.v The reason is because of me being me. Our school is very biased and judges everyone on how they look [surprise, surprise.] I love rock, metal, heavy music stuff and I wear clothing that doesn't exactly scream "Babysit my kids". I mean, I love wearing what I wear. It's comfortable and to me, it's very pretty. But my mom is trying to change me, yet again. She keeps on telling me to wear more colors and dress like a pretty girl and stuff so I can get into SODA next year. I really want to get into SODA but I don't like the idea that I have to change who I am to get into a program that now I know as a program ran by judgemental people. Ahg! I don't know what to do. I really, extremely, majorly want to get into SODA but that would mean that I would have to dress like a happy little good girl and I really don't want to do that. But a part of me think that I have to in order to get into SODA.

I don't know what to do. Should I change my appearance to get into SODA or not? What are your views on this? (link)
In my own opinion, don't change who you are to make others happy. Its your life and live it to the fullest, not the way people want you to be. If your happy just the way you are, find another club you want to join, yet again, if you really want to join, kep sending an application, if they only judge you on how you look, then in my own opinion it isn't worth it. I hope i really helped!!

~.:*liviy*:.~


i need help writing on the poem that describing my similarities/diffrences which is turtle because i could be slow,shy but i dont know what turtle's elses personality is, but i made a start:

slow like a turd
and shy like a turd
hides when shy


anyone got the idea? please help (it doesnt have to rhyme)
(link)
well, heres an idea::

Slow as a slug
but more gentle than a thug
i hide when im scared
im pretty much bare
I live in my shell
doesnt that ring a bell
i dont like to yell
cant you tell
im a shy critter
im not bitter
im sweet as can be
unless im a snapper


and i guess that could help you out a little bit?? sorry if i didnt help but i try!
hope i helped!!

~.:*liviy*:.~


ok me and my ex friend molly got into a huge fight today. she follows me and my best friend Tabbi EVERYWHERE!!!!!!! it gets so annoying. i asked her to quit following me and she just got mad. and then i told her thats why i dont like her is because she follows me everywhere. then i started to walk into the bathroom and she started running up to me and hitting me with a basketball then she ran off. i just ignored it cause it didnt hurt. then she started crying and running to Tabbi because of it and then today in lnguage she started moving te desk behind me up against mine and i just pretended that it didnt bother me. so should i just keep pretending that it dosent bother me( because it dosent) and then will she leave me alone? please help me! (link)
Well, it depends, wait a few more days while ignoring her to see what she does, if she stops then leave it be. But, if she still does it, sit her down and confront her, ask her why she keeps doing all of this and how it annoys you. If she still doesn't listen [ not to be weird or anything] talk to the guidance counselour.
Hope i helped!

~.:*liviy*:.~


I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods. (link)
After reading everybody elses answers..im not gong to repeat but..i would suggest something exotic like hawwian recipies like pineapple foods..or mango..or even papaya yumm!


whats the difference between"hook-up" and "going-out"? (link)
theyre the same thing, except for hook-ups doesnt have strings attach. like an open relationship
going out you can only see one person, but if you hook up with another person, it can't be considered cheating


ok mi friend texted me this, and i dont understand it:

Hey for my party is friday night good. (link)
your friend is throwing a party and they are asking if this friday works for you like if your free


this question is probably gonna sound stupid but does anyone know how to make a good aim profile? like some good stuff to put in it? can you help me please. thank you so much. (link)
hey

go to www.xanga.com and type in "quotes."

most girls just put cute quotes & make it look pretty with fades (www.boletrice.com/aimfader).

use that. it works really well.


me and my friends were talking to this guy on the phone. tina was like, "melissa and __(me) are making out!" and then the guy laughed and was like, "stop teasing me." what does that mean exactly? (link)
hey

it sounds like he just mean "stop messing with my head" - "stop joking around with me." something like that. so he was just telling you guys to not confuse him.

maybe he wasn't sure if tina was joking or not and was trying to act cool about it in case tina was serious. so he might have been a little confused when tina said that.


i want to cut my bangs. My side swept bangs are getting long and i want to trim them or whatever.I dont know where to start cutting and where to end. im sure other people here have cut their own, so help? (link)
hey

first off, make sure your scissors are super sharp. if they're dull or blunt, your bangs will look messed up.

second, do it at an angle. i've cut my own bangs before, and it turned out fine. use your middle and pointer fingers to hold your hair as you cut. place your fingers exactly where you want to cut (at an angle) and just cut from your forehead towards your ear (unless you're a lefty).

if they look a little crooked / messed up, it's NO big deal! just put your hair up in a quiff for a few days and let it grow out a bit. then, just trim them again and they will look fine.

honestly, i got my first side bangs in january, and the first time i trimmed them, everyone was like, "wow your bangs look GREAT!" so i strongly encocurage you to cut your bangs the way you want them to look.

i hope i helped a bit :]


Ok so my mom told me last night that this weekend we are painting my room. Ugh I really want to i think it will look nice but i dont have any idea what color i want it to be. I kinda want a nice Home kind of a room. like i want someone to walk in and adimaticly feel confortable. I don't know. a counrty nice look.
Uh i have no idea

Can you help? (link)
Light pink with white trim would be nice. Maybe a floral border at the top or something. Or a pale sky blue would be nice, calm, relaxing, and welcoming. No matter what people say, I think light pink/ light rose is the best. Pale yellow might be good, but it might be a little excititng. Tan would be the best bet if you don't like pink. Or you could do either all white walls or all tan walls and one wall a color. Like your main wall, where you bed is at, you could paint it pink. My favorite: Put a wooden trim (piece of wood) horizontally on the center of your wall, all the way around. Paint the top white and the bottom pink.
Like this, you can't really tell, but the bottom is orange and the top is pink:
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f78/erer2010/100_0147.jpg


I need a good file sharing program that will allow me to download videos and such and I will also need a File converter so I can convert my videos that I download onto my iPod video !


thank you so much !!! (link)
I am using Win AVI MP4 converter, and before that I had Agogo.
You can easily find them in torrents but only use them if you Already have the programs lol...
Then you can use other programms for back up...to transfer stuff from your Ipod to your PC such as Tansee.
I got them all


sayings like this?
Ex.i miss you like a child misses the blanket

i need the nice and creative one do you guys think or know any for a frend

i miss you like________________

thank you so much (link)
A fat chick on diet misses chocolates




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