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Long story but trying to put in a short story
I’ve been in love with my friend for nearly 8 years. She is my best friend and I told her how I felt 3 years ago. She didn’t say anything but shock. I ask her "why do you seem ok with my feelings toward you?” she didn’t reply back at the note. Last year it was still bugging me why she seem ok with it. I ask her in a chat room when she was online. She was fine with it but doesn’t feel the same way. She is unsure of her sexuality.
I try to get over her as my sisters friend was hooking me up with her brother. I met him but not my type. I told her about it and she was jealous. she said in the chat room "I don’t know if I should be happy for you or pissed" "I guess time will tell for the both of us"
after she said that I ask her what was her deal. She said she was jealous of my last two boyfriends and didn’t like the fact someone making someone hook with someone they don’t know. I wrote her a note and gave it to her and ask her "do you like me more than a friend?” she didn’t reply back for 3 weeks. I went up to her face to face (took me a while to do it) and ask her she didn’t say anything till I ask the third time. She shook her head no. and I said? "That’s all I want to know?"
I don’t know if she likes me or not. I mean when I met her she began to lean on me, lean her head on my shoulder when we sat together at the movies or whatever and holding my arm too. Now she hardly does it anymore right after I ask her that question "do u like me more than a friend?" she had a lot of crushes on some boys in high school
so I don’t think she will like me back.
We still hang out and have a good time but I still have feelings for her. I never thought she would like me back but I never thought she will be jealous. She said she was being over protective but in the email before the talk she said she was jealous!!??
What should I do?
I think I should wait for her to step up because I told her 3 times about my feelings to her. I didn’t mean to but she took so long to explain. I had to step up.
I feel lost and confused and I want to get over her. (link)
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first off, you need to stop asking her why shes ok with it, and if she likes you as more than a friend... i mean really, how many rejections do you need? shes ok with it because she still wants to be friends, its not uncommon for someone to be ok with a friend liking them if they dont like them back. i have a friend ive liked for about... 2 years now, though she is a girl, so its not exactly the same situation, but she is bi, so maybe that brings it a bit closer... anyways, ive told her, she told me she didnt like me back, and that was it, were still friends, and we joke about it pretty often. she even occasionally asks me if i still like her, and i detected a bit of jealousy when i told her i asked out someone else.
what it comes down to is this. everyone wants to be wanted, you liking her makes her feel more special, and she doesnt really want that to end, even though she doesnt like you back in that way.
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why is it that all the ratings and feedbacks form a month ago don't count? because i used to have a lot but now they are not being counted anymore (link)
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because thats the way the site works, only the most recent month counts, to encourage activity, and to allow oppurtunity for a bad streak to drop off.
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ok so i have verizon and my non verizon friend was able to connect to my phone and send me some songs.. someone told me that all of those songs were then saved under a "hidden file" in my phone.. is there any way i can find and use the songs that she sent to me?
please help thanks! (link)
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umm... it really depends on the phone. bluetooth has nothing to do with your service carrier. they shouldnt be hidden, just look around all folders on the phone, they should be in there somewhere.
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Hey, it's Igotamonopoly.
I am starting to do the whole college visit thing, and visiting UCSB made me realize that I have no idea where I want to go, and I don't know how to find the college that is the perfect fit for me.
I used to want to go to USC, but that's a commuter school, and definitely not what I'm looking for.
What other schools did you consider? How did you choose UCSD? (link)
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I applied to UCSD, UCI, UCSB, Berkeley, and Mesa as my safety. Got into all but Berkeley. I've lived in San Diego most of my life, and UCSD was my first choice, since I wouldn't have to move and it would be cheaper. I didn't even bother visiting the other campuses. As far as the academics go, the UCs (other than Berkeley) are pretty similar, some may be better in one major or another, and thats what you should focus on, which school is best for your major, the rest is frills. If you are looking for a pretty campus, or a school with good parties, you can always visit a campus even if you don't go to the school.
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i really do not know. please enlighten me and clear up my misunderstangs. why are gas prices rising? did bush invade iraq to get gas for US so we wouldnt have to worry about this but its happening anyway? i dont think i have the facts straight and i dont know what news sources to trust. (link)
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Aside from everything theymos mentioned, theres one other major factor. the value of the dollar is going down. now domestically, we arent noticing it as much, but since oil is bought entirely from another country, they want more dollars for it, since dollars arent worth as much anymore (also thanks to the war and other bad economic decisions)
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i take a lot of pictures haha
i want to get a memory card that will hold a ton of pictures, at least 200 (if thats even possible)
id like to be able to buy it at walmart (that is most convenient to me)
if it helps any- i have this camera:
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=8305110
it didnt come with a memory card like this one says.
thanks a ton xo (link)
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A 1gig SD card should hold over 200 pictures. You can get a 2gig one at Walmart for $25
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4840454
That will hold plenty
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Hey so I'm thinking of getting a nose ring but I'm on poms so I'll have to take it out for competitions and stuff. So, I'm wondering how long is it from when you first get it until you can take it out? And I'd just be taking it out for 12 hours at the most. (link)
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it takes a long time, a few months at least, some advice at least 6, and ive even heard a year.
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Well basically...
In the last 2 maybe 3 weeks Ive been suffering with various aches and pains, such as
-Headache,
Nausea,
Dizziness and
Chest Pains...
Also other little aches & pains like across the top of my eyes.
But worst of all, Im ALWAYS dehydrated. And often feel sick after eating, and I dont eat more than I should, I eat just under what I should eat, as I can only eat a small amount until Im full up.
I cant figure out what it could be, and it usually only occurs towards night time, however the sickness and dehydration is constant.
I get plenty of sleep so it cant be sleep related.
So Im really stuck for what it could be.
Someone suggested I get tested for Diabetes, but noone in my family has ever suffered it, and I would expect my pains to be more severe for something like this...
So basically, does anyone know what all these symptoms could be tied too? I dont want diagnosing as such, I just want possibilities. Thank You! (link)
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any chronic pain is serious, and something you should definitely see a doctor for. the symptoms have a House worthy broadness, I dont know what could connect eye pain and nausea. definitely go see a doctor.
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is a 5x optical zoom camera a good camera to get good pictures from a distance far away?? (link)
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how far away? probablt not really good... i have a 5x, and it doesnt do it too well. how many megapixels? and digital zoom?
wow thats a damn good camera, yeah it will look great at 50 feet away.
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple years and we both decided we were ready for sex. we tried but the problem was he couldnt really get it up. he's 17 he should be able to... when finally did get it up it was last a few minutes then it would be gone again, he never came.
i don't really know what to think. I am not trying to sound conceited but im not really unattractive, i have a nice body because i work out alot and a cute face and we're really in love so i dont really understand how he is having so much trouble getting turned on...
i've done everything i can think of, i've given him head and he said it felt good but the feeling just kind of went away before he came. i've asked him to tell me what feels good and he said i was already doing it right but obviously it isnt working! i wore sexier underwear and done little things that generally turn guys on like kissing his body, touching him, teased him or just kind of went for it, set the mood - nothing works
so, question #1
is my boyfriend just not attracted to me? what can i do to turn him on? i ask him and he says im doing everything right but i cant be....
question #2
guys, what REALLY turns you on? (link)
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maybe hes gay?
ok seriously though. it could be a few things. firstly, it is possible he has some kind of problem. secondly, you say youve been dating a couple years, if you havent done anything sexual in that time, then its possible that subconciously it decided that nothing will happen, and just stopped going up.
the most likely explanation? hes just nervous, instead of focusing on turning him on, keep him calm and comfortable.
what turns guys on? hot naked girls.
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15/f
alright so me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on nov30 and i was suppose to get my period dec4 and i didnt.. and so i took a pregnancy test on new years day and it came out positive.. and then on jan4 i got my period and i had it for 6 days so i know it was my period and so my boyfriend told me to take another one today and i did and it said negative.. so how is that possible do you think the first one i took was just wrong? or do you think i really was pregnant and it just died? but i dont drink or smoke so i dont know how it would die? im just so confused. help? any advice is great (link)
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About 2/3 of fetii get flushed out naturally, so its possible that that is what happened. you should go to a doctor to be sure though
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my best friend is a boy
we're 16
we've gotten really close the past 3 years
and ive completely fallen for him, even if ive promised myself i wouldnt
hes amazing
i cant even explain it
and i dont know if he feels the same way about me
but whenever he sees me in the morning his face lights up
and everyone says that hes the happiest when they see us talking
and he listens to absolutely everything i say
he takes care of me. not just the giving me his jacket in the rain type thing, or covering my eyes and holding my hand during a scary movie, or the carrying me like a princess when i hurt my leg type thing, but its also the staying on the phone with me for 6 hours after i had an argument with my mom on vacation, and walking 6 miles to my house in the pouring rain to visit me when i was sick.
i was talking to him about my english class, and how i didnt expect him to ask me to homecoming because there were a lot of people thatd be mad about it (his other friend, this girl who likes him, this guy who likes me, some of his friends that he isnt really close to but get mad at him for hanging out with me, all of which are in my english class) so i told him that i didnt expect him to ask me because of all those people. and the next day when i was sitting in english class and he appeared with my galpal with this huge banner outside the window saying janie. homecoming?
and i was so happy
and i didnt think i had fallen for him until i was sitting in the library doing my hw and i saw him walking over out of the corner of my eye but pretended not to and he put his hand on mine and i looked up and he looked into my eyes and i looked into his and even though all he said was "hey" really softly i just knew
i love this guy
and i dont know what to do
i want to tell him
but i dont want to freak him out
what if i totally destroy our relationship?
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i dont think it could be more obvious if the banner had said "janie. i like you" he obviously does. he definitely wont be freaked out if you tell him, in fact, im guessing nothing would make him happier.
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lol i'm really sorry for asking this..16/f..i have a bf and he wants to kiss me..ive never been kissed..
is it like all slobbery and stuff?
just a pop kiss..maybe longer (link)
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no, kissing is awesome, thats why everyone does it.
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We have to know our IQ for a course I am taking and I was wondering... Where can I take an actual IQ test online? (link)
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you cant, a real IQ test has to be administered by a professional. what you can do, is take a few tests online and average them, that should give you a decent idea. just
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well im a great Christian girl and my bf is a great Christian boy and we have been best friends for a while know and have liked each other on and off for a long time too. now that we are actually dating we both agree it feels just like we have been dating a loong time and perphaps just started the part of the relationship where we kiss and stuff? anyway since dating we have been kissing and holding hands and i was wondering are there certain things God doesnt approve of when dating? besides having sex (we both agreed strongly not too and i have an abstinence ring anyway :]) and not cheating? i mean i know we should have respect for ourselves and not go really fast and stuff like that but is there anything about what you should and shouldn't do?? thanks so much! (link)
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its all a matter of interpretation. some say oral sex isnt a sin, others go to anal sex, others even say "as long as you dont put it in all the way its ok" as far as i know, the bible is only explicit on premarital sex. you gotta find whats right for you.
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Heyy can u guys give me tips to turn my boyfriend on pleaaaase!!i really dunno how to do that he's my first..nothing naughty :) lol (link)
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turning on a guy is as easy as turning ona lightswitch, if not easier. show some skin, touch them, say a dirty word...
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15/female
I have been in love with my best friend, who is also female, for almost a year now. I told her how I felt around February of last year, but she didn't and still doesn't love me back. What's worse, she has a boyfriend that she loves deeply.
It's just, I can't get over her no matter what I do! I really do think I'm in love. I'm in therapy right now, once a week, because of both these relationship issues and my depression. I have talked to her plenty about it. I have tried "putting myself out there" as much as I can, being an introvert, but even after kissing another friend I still only have feelings for this one girl. I have even tried ending the friendship to maybe get away from her for a while so the feelings would go away and I wouldn't complicate her life so much; it didn't go very well.
So my question is, what can I do besides what I have already done? (link)
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well, im a guy, but i have had really deep feeling for a female friend of mine for a while now. ive told her, and nothing has happened. we occasioanlly still talk about it, and even joke about it. ive found that this has helped me immensely. ive liked a friend before, one i couldnt tell, and it hurt a lot more, even though i liked her less.
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Can someone please explain to me how i can make venn diagrams and scatterplots using any of the microsoft software? i dont understand im so confused =( i really need to learn the venn diagrams. thanks so much, i will honestly truly appreciate it. (link)
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word really isnt a good tool for either, MS paint is (its under accessories in your start menu) it has a circle draw tool and a text type tool.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months, and I've been happy with him but lately things have been a little rocky. We have each others myspace passwords and we freely get on each others accounts and read messages and comments and what not.
Well, my boyfriend lived in Hawaii for a great deal of his life, and now we both live in Texas. Well, this girl who lives in Hawaii who he had a major crush on, he finally found on myspace. His message was saying, "Oh I remember when I had a crush on you, i miss talking to you so much, we had so many good times!" I know she lives far away, but to see him type that made me really sad. I'm not on his myspace. [He just recently took me off because of a fight we had.] So, technically no one really knows we're dating if they look at his myspace.
Should I be mad? Or am I just blowing things way out of porportion?
Thank you. (link)
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youre blowing things out of proportion. i mean shes in hawaii, whats gonna happen between them? he said "i remember when i HAD a crush on you" so he doesnt anymore. do you not talk to any guys you used to like before you two started dating?
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Ok, little ol'me still hasn't talked to him yet!!! I know, why not. I don't know either. instead of Math i'm gonna ask him to translate the spanish sentence " My stomache hurts very bad" into English for me. He's in Spanish III. Then a few days after I do that...>Would it be bad/immature for me to have mymale friend in the same grade as him, talk to him about me. As in like, "Hey my friend April thinks your cute, but is afraid to talk to you." Does that bug guys? Thanks, sorry it's so confusing!! (link)
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it could work, but it would probably be better to talk to him yourself. you could always try a better spanish sentence, like "i like you" or something slightly more complicated so he doesnt get it instantly
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