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Christian Relationship
well im a great Christian girl and my bf is a great Christian boy and we have been best friends for a while know and have liked each other on and off for a long time too. now that we are actually dating we both agree it feels just like we have been dating a loong time and perphaps just started the part of the relationship where we kiss and stuff? anyway since dating we have been kissing and holding hands and i was wondering are there certain things God doesnt approve of when dating? besides having sex (we both agreed strongly not too and i have an abstinence ring anyway :]) and not cheating? i mean i know we should have respect for ourselves and not go really fast and stuff like that but is there anything about what you should and shouldn't do?? thanks so much!
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Differs depending on who you ask.
Your parents would probably say anything beyond a close mouthed kiss is a sin.
Among those who actually have a shred of intelligence who strive to maintain virginity, generally its agreed anything that goes with "sex" or "intercourse" is out. So, oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex.
A priest would probably tell you to keep your clothes on and his hands on top of them.
Personally I dont believe in abstinence. In that vein I will simply tell you to keep an open mind and when you decide you actually do want to have sex (husband, whatever) remember that sex is a beautiful thing to be enjoyed and explored. Too many girls I know who are religious and afraid of sex, even in their married lives.
Do what you're comfy with and don't do what you're not.
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Wow. You have just described my current relationship. (including the abstinence ring) I think that you need to have a heart to heart with God. Although there are many ways to get around the "intercourse" part of sex, will you really feel right as a christian, bending the rules? Ephesians 5 says that even a hint of sexual immorality can prevent us from being the good christians we should be.
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its all a matter of interpretation. some say oral sex isnt a sin, others go to anal sex, others even say "as long as you dont put it in all the way its ok" as far as i know, the bible is only explicit on premarital sex. you gotta find whats right for you.
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