My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months, and I've been happy with him but lately things have been a little rocky. We have each others myspace passwords and we freely get on each others accounts and read messages and comments and what not.
Well, my boyfriend lived in Hawaii for a great deal of his life, and now we both live in Texas. Well, this girl who lives in Hawaii who he had a major crush on, he finally found on myspace. His message was saying, "Oh I remember when I had a crush on you, i miss talking to you so much, we had so many good times!" I know she lives far away, but to see him type that made me really sad. I'm not on his myspace. [He just recently took me off because of a fight we had.] So, technically no one really knows we're dating if they look at his myspace.
Should I be mad? Or am I just blowing things way out of porportion?
If your relationship ends it will probably have more to do with your 'fights' then it will have to do with a crush who lives hundereds of miles away.
The best way to avoid this problem: Both of your change your myspace passwords. It might seem like a 'cute' or intimate thing to do, sharing your accounts, but is actually a sign of being very insecure and is a recipe for drama.
russianspy1234 answered Friday January 11 2008, 8:50 pm: youre blowing things out of proportion. i mean shes in hawaii, whats gonna happen between them? he said "i remember when i HAD a crush on you" so he doesnt anymore. do you not talk to any guys you used to like before you two started dating? [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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