If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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hello, i weigh 200 lbs and i wanna get to 120 by the end on june
i was wondering if it was possible to loose 80 lbs. in 6 months? and if s how? and how much exersise would i have to do a day?
i am a girl (link)
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Believe me,it's not possible.
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if you have ever moved out of state or town...how did u tell your friends? plez help! (link)
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"Hey,fill name here, I'm moving to fill location here." Then your friend will say "Oh ok,buh bye"
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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child... (link)
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Doesn't wanna lose his football career? What an asshole. Don't listen to anything he tells you. Pierre better warm up to the fact hes got child support payments for the next 18 years. Haha,keep your wang in your pants next time,frenchie. Love your baby but not its loser of a father. Don't consider abortion at all.
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I have this guy friend who i never EVER thought as a boyfriend but i also have a boyfriend that i love very much well today my guy friend wrote me a note and gave it to me between classes it said " Would you go out wit me and if the answer is no keep it between us 2" I don no what to tell him and i need some help NOW!!!!
Yours truly, confused (link)
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He has little confidence in himself if he can't even tell you he likes you in person. Shows he doesn't really care that much. You tell him the classic line of "Let's just be friends." I've heard it a lot. He'll live.
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okay well im 14/f and i've shaved my down below area...now wenever i do it again it hurts b/c theres these little red dots and they start to bleed...please help me idk wat to do (link)
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It's razor burn. You'll live.
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Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it? (link)
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It's only for lust. Yeah,technically,it's a sin. But it's less of a sin that unmarried sex. And God did make us wanna have it. So if not sex,next best thing is masturbation. Talk to him about it.
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I just found out my husband has been cheating on me. We agreed to separate for a while because we can't live together right now. But he is still sleeping with this woman who is also married with children. He says he is not sure weather or not it is going to work out with her, that he doesn't know her, he is just living a fantasy right now, replacing what was missing in our relationship. He is getting attention he hasn't gotten from me in a while because our lives have been so busy. It doesn't make it okay, but our relationship is way to special to throw away and I want to work it out with him. We are going to couples counseling in a few months. I am having a hard time convincing him to stop sleeping with this woman, and I am thinking about sending this woman's husband the e-mails she and my husband have exchanged along with a letter I have written to him revealing the truth about what his wife has been out doing. But will this push this woman further into my husbands arms or will it make her and her husband focus on their own relationship instead of her focusing on hers with my man? Please help, I don't know weather or not to send it without everyone's advice out there!! Will it only cause more problems that will work against what I want (my husband back in my arms) or will it end the affair my husband is having? (link)
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Your husband looks to me like he's made it clear of one thing:He doesn't know what he wants,but he does know what he doesn't want. And unfortunately thats you. Too bad b/c you sound like a nice person. Sending the e-mail won't do much,the guy probably already knows about the bullshit going on b/w his wife and your husband. You love your husband,but it appears he doesnt love you. I say get a divorce. For one,if he cheats now,won't he always chase skirts? Two,you deserve somebody who won't cheat on you. Three,if he's not responsible for your marriage,why would he feel responsible about any kids you have or might have. I'm sorry.
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im doing 300-600 sit ups a day is this bad 4 me?thanx (link)
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No.
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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
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Toughest question to answer. Ever. Love means a mutual respect for someone. Knowing their bad points and still loving them. When they're on the shitter,you still love em.When you meet their parents,you still love em. If you fight and still half like the person,that's always a good start.
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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
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Too early to tell if you're pregnant without a test. It's not the unborn baby in you. Its probably just your gspot. Hope you're not pregnant babe. If you're not,lean a lesson. If you are,still learn a lesson.
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ok well i was talking to this guy, were friends, not even friends and we were talking about his friend who had sex with his new girlfriend. then hes like shut up, my dads home. so then we stopped talking about it. then a little bit later it sort of came up again and i made a comment about it. then he didnt respond for like 10 mins. then he said: i hate u, u got me grounded, i told u that my dad was in the room. he didnt tell me that he was in the room, he had just said that he was home nad i had no idea that he was reading the conversation. now the guy (paul) is grounded for 2 months. he says hes never gonna forgive me or ever talk to me again. i feel so bad, theres nothing i can do about it.
help! what do i do? (link)
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This guy is a loser anyway. Screw him. He shouldn't have been having sex with his girlfriend. If he really wanted you to shut up about it, he should have said it. Forgive yourself.
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Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do? (link)
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This is not a good way to go about losing weight. You're not fat to begin with and you're becoming bulimic. Your friends are right,the ones who are pissed off that you're doing it. The other people are just being mean. Fuck em. You don't wanna lose a lot of weight this summer. You're good.
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what exactly is Mardi Gras? and how is it celebrated? I know its coming up (feb 8) so im cutious because i`ll be away vacationing and i was curious how i can party it up lol. So if you can tell me what it is and how u celelbrate it thanks
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I live in Louisiana. Mardi Gras is a catholic holiday, the day before Ash Wednesday and originally all the catholics couldn't eat red meat during Lent(the time b/w A.W. and Easter). They eat and party before Lent,which is Mardi Gras. Fat Tuesday if you know french. I'm not positive about the red meat part as I'm not catholic. Now all the beads and parades are just part of the party. The flashing was not in the original tradition. The reason it is popular in New Orleans is a very catholic city.
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there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about? (link)
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Dude,thats a good sign. Try and get to know her better. Girls don't grab my arm when they go to scary movies. If anything,I scare them more. Well only if it's not really that scary.
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About a couple of days ago I got an e-mail from my boyfriend's sister. She told me that he tryed killing himself and he's currently in the hospital for blood loss. I'm blaming myself for all this. He told me he loved me a week ago or and I rolled my eyes and blocked him. Because we've been fighting for awhile. One of my friends told him I didn't love him, but mixed up the converstation when he should have said I didn't know if I had the same feelings for him anymore. My boyfriend took it the wrong way because I do really love him. Problem is, his family doesn't know if hes going to make it. I have no way to get to see him, because he's on the other side of Canada. (He moved). We've been together for 3 years. I know this is all my fault and I think about it everyday and been crying all the time. I don't know what to do. ANY help would be GREAT! (link)
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This guy has a few more problems in his life if he's gunna try and kill himself just b/c you didn't like him. But do feel bad about rolling your eyes at him,that was kind of shitty. If he lives halfway across your country,then you really should of thought about breaking up right then and there. Still,it's not your fault,your boyfriend is suffering from serious depression and if he lives,he needs help. But even if he doesn't,don't blame you.
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there's this guy in my class and he flirts with me all the time like he blows on my neck and stuff but im pretty sure all he wants is sex. but the thing is i really like him and he's hott and maybe i would like to go out with him, but not have sex. how do i tell him that before he tries to "get some action" (link)
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Blows on your neck? This guy sounds kinda weird. If all he wants is sex don't bother with him,you can't change him. You can tell him "Look I know what you want. But you're not getting it. I'd like to go out with you,but sex isn't in the cards buddy boy."
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My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help? (link)
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Can't save your parents marriage. That's up to them. And if they argue and bitch all the time, they're probably better people without each other.
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i just thought about this, and figured i'd ask it.
i guess i've never really seen past what happens after college. i've always i guess thought that after you got your degrees, they just handed out the jobs to you at graduation (i didn't REALLY think this, its an example). so where do you find your job? are their listings for them in the newspaper? i mean like career jobs, not just teenage quick cash sort of things. do you keep your ears peeled for the mentioning of a job? (link)
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I still wanna know. I'm in college. You're poor for awhile. And you work crappy jobs until something opens up for you. You do what you can until you hear about something or something falls into your lap. It's a really tough thing.
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hey this is for mainly guys unless there are any girls out there who play football- but i reallyyyyy love football and i am a girl and i want to be a coach someday- what do you think? could that ever happen?
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No.
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Hey, I'm a 17 Male from TN and I need a little help on how to deal with my brother. We are ferturnal Twins and a pretty close. He is a heavy drug user, smokes pot usually about twice a day and takes other drugs with it like Adderal (which he is not perscribed to). He's been doing it for around a year and a half now. He drives while hes intoxicated about everyday. He's been to Juvy, had his car taken away at least 3 times, and been on probation, but he wont quit!.
I want to tell my Mom about all hes doing, but it would ruin my relationship with him and would probably make his friends and my friends hate me (because we are twins we have a lot of the same freinds). Also, hes been in trouble so many times and hasn't changed that if i tell on him he might not change because of all the other times hes been caught. His life is in danger though and I might be doing the wrong thing by not telling him, but a lot of people need to choose by themselves or they won't quit. So I don't know what to do. (link)
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Tough choice. But you can't worry about what his friends think of you. Would it be ok if they liked you at his funeral after he overdoses on some other drug? Tell whoever you can but it doesn't look like it'll do any good. Trouble and punishment doesn't seem to do any good. Military school is the only thing you haven't mentioned here. Try that I guess. I'm sorry for your family and you.
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