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I have this guy friend who i never EVER thought as a boyfriend but i also have a boyfriend that i love very much well today my guy friend wrote me a note and gave it to me between classes it said " Would you go out wit me and if the answer is no keep it between us 2" I don no what to tell him and i need some help NOW!!!!
Yours truly, confused
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Go with the boy you truly like,you should always be with someone you have feelings for and the one that makes you happy.If its not your friend then tell him nicely and add in something comforting like, "who knows,we might be going together soon." just let him no,you'll be open for him later,if you think you'll be. ~good luk~jen~
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Hey I can relate. Just be honest tell him about your boyfriend and how you think it would be better to be friends for now. If he get mad then he never really like you . Take it from me we all get hurt once in our life. Sorry I couldnt help that much but good luck!!!!!!!
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Well, you can do the obvious, brake up with or bf for him. Or you can say no maybe in a little while once school is a little easier. But if your heart isnt set in him right now say no. But if you rather him than your bf and want to break up with your bf for him then do it, it is worthit if you think you will have a better future with him!
♥ Michelle!
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Well whats gooing on with you and your boyfreind? howe serous are you guys? well i odnt know everything but if you are consdering this other guys that you have i gues been freinds with for so long. .. take him aside and dont just tell him yes or no talk to him and like figure things out and whats going on becuase you seen confused and then that way you will know and have a better deciosn in mind.
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Well I would just stick to being friends honestly. You have a boyfriend and you said so yoruself that you wouldnt ever be able to picture him being your boyfriend yourself. I would just let him down nicely and write him a note. Just say you would rather not and just stay friends. And that you will keep it between you 2!-trixx
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He has little confidence in himself if he can't even tell you he likes you in person. Shows he doesn't really care that much. You tell him the classic line of "Let's just be friends." I've heard it a lot. He'll live.
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just tell the kid no... and tell him also that you still want to be friends thorugh all of it... because the last thing you want is your friendship to be ruined over something dumb like this... so here is what you gotta do...call him up sometime and talk to him tell him everything that is on your mind...it will be hard at first but it will get easier as you go...TRUST ME...talk to him the both of you will feel better about it...i did the same thing to one of my best friends i told her that i liked her... and then the next night she called me up and we had this long dinscussion about how the two of us want t obe friends through it all... i think the most memorable comment she told me was "kevin your the best friend i could ever ask for and i want you to stay that way, i want you to be there 5 years fom now when i have forgotten about my boyfriend and i have moved on to better things...i want you to be there for me, being the best friend that you know how to be"... and ever since then we have been best friends for the past 4 years of our lives and i don't ever plan on changing that for whatever reason... so talk to him and you could even say what she told me... as long as you get the Point across that though you don't want to date him you still want him to be there for you for the rest of your life
kev
let me know how this goes
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well if you have a boyfriend and you never though of this guy as one...then tell him "id prefer if we remain friends...besides i have a bf"
~Anjela
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