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Q: ok i like this boy name austin... alot. We are both 13 in the 7th grade. But when my friend told him i like him he smiled and said um i think shes too fast for me, meaning im willing to do more stuff. (not all the way or nething) but i want him to kno i wont force him into nething. but we barely talk any ideas on how i can talk to him without him thinking im weird or annoyin and maybehim givin me a chance. thanks so much
signed,
Helpless
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Just talk to him online thats really not to annoying. Or have your friend create a chat room and invite him. Work from there say hi to him in the halls or whenever you get the chance to just ask him the usual questions like hows it going have a good weekend what are you up to this weekend that sort of stuff so its casual and thats not to forward and im sure things will build up from there and ect. -trix
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Q: I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help
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No i think your being judgemental towards yourself and you probably want to look like that. Your comparing that could be it. And if you dont plan on doing anything like that then id say there is nothing going on about being bi. I think your just be judgemental on yourself-trix
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Q: 15/f--my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time but the other day i was at his house and his mom came upstairs and saw us coming out of his room (we were looking at yearbooks) and she freaked out and thinks we're having sex even though i'm not anywhere near ready to do that, and she won't even let us watch tv without someone else in the room. she used to like me a lot, how can i get her to trust me/us again?!?
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You just got to build up on that sort of trust. parents freak over the littlest things if there "Babies" are doing something they dont want them doing. They believe whatever there mind tells them. Anyways you just have to build up that trust and keep reassurring her that nothing happaned-trix
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Q: I have this tendency to go to drive thrus on the way home from school because I don't know what to have for lunch at home. I'm trying to give it up but its harder then it seems. I need help before I end up gaining the freshman 10.
Signed,
could be fat
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Well just watch what you eat from there. I mean maybe you could stop somewhere else like a gas station they have way healthier stuff there. Or go to the grocery store and pick something up from there if there is one near by and if not do so after school pick your lunch up for the next day that night. So you have your lunch the night before-trix
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Q: Things with me and my boyfriend have just been fucking pointless for a while now. He left for the army and I'm away at school. We can't physically be together until Christmas and we can basically only communicate through letters.
Plus, I basically feel no attraction to him anymore. He's too naive for me and he thinks that we're going to get married and all of this other stuff that I don't have planned at all -- does he listen to me? Hell no!
So basically I need to figure out what to tell this guy. He thinks I'm his only reason to live. And that's a pretty scary responsibility to have.
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You are right you need to write him a letter and tell him how you feel and that you need to break up and maybe go back out in the future but you would like to see other people in the mean time. You would love seeing him during x-mas but you think a break could be good. And your not ready for all this committment! good luck!-trix
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Q: I go to a catholic school and we are supposed to do Confession on friday and i dont have a clue what to do...well i know what to do, i just dont know what to say? can anyone help?
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You say my father forgive me for i have sinned and start confessing your sins-trix
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yes sex lots of people are doing that these days!
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Q: my friend steels stuff from stores, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that if im with her when she does it ill get in trouble for it too. She trusspasses onto peoples property too. I dont think that she is a good friend for me, we get along really well and always have fun when we're together but i dont want to be her friend when she does that stuff. What should i do?
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You will get in trouble if she gets caught and she is with you if you know she is going to steal try and talk her out of it and if that fails tell her you'll wait outside of the store. You make perfect sense you just need to set your boundaries and talk to her about it! No matter how hard it might be-trix
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Q: Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too?
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well would you want him dancing with other girls? I know id be pretty hurt or mad if my bf nathan did that. So I wouldnt but if you really want to then talk to him about it
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Q: what is the "Kegal Excercize???" Im confused..I hear people talking about it but I never know what it is specifically...please help!
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Q: my boyfriend is so attached to me. he walks me to every class he sits with me everyday at lunch andtalks to me on tehphone every night. How am i supposed to miss him if hes always there with me.What can i do to make him not so attached to me? I want to be happy and excited when i see him.
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Well he just likes you alot. Maybe ask him if you can have some room to breath. Not those exact words but something similar anyways. Just to give him that idea or pretend to be a lil cranky and say you need your space. It works anyways if he doesnt get the hint that he needs to be dumped or warned or something. Tell him you dont like alot of clingyness you just like a little but you might miss him to much if he isnt there but that then again is your idea. So give it a try-trix
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Q: Someone added me to their favorite's list nd now when i click on they're name, it doesnt show ne thin.. so i looked them up in the "search columnists" nd they weren't there.. wuts up with that?
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they must have spaces in there column try deleting there spaces in the column name-trix
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Q: How can you see a pesific friend of yours profile. If you can just tell me where to type in there advicenator screen name that would be great.
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you go to columnits then go to more options-trix
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Q: how can i get a hot bikini body b4 spring break?!!?
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Working out can be fun, but everyone needs a good routine in order to stay more fit, stronger, and better toned. So try yoga. also go to this site it is very helpful!! http://www.fitteen.com-trix
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Q: okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??
I rate 5's
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You need to probably go see a dr. Maybe not then a counsolar or at least bring this up to your mom!-trix
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Q: how can i get rid of a zit FAST b4 it gets way bigger?!?!
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Put toothpaste on it and before you do that scrub it! but there is a old fashion way and it works like a charm. Take a washcloth put it under very hot water and put it on your face and do it again like 2 times then that should minimize it! trust me it works! You might not see the full effect until later but do that everynight!-trix
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Q: People keep making up rumors about me and I dont know who it is and I want it to stop. I could just start a huge fist fight but thats not the way I want it settled. What do I do?
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You just got to stick to the story that its not true before you know it someone else will have rumors.. still sad but its not on your back anymore ya no. Anyways my point is you have your friends and what not by your side and they will help you get thru this but you just got to stick to the same story and everything will work out. Just be strong-trix
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Q: im an atheist,and im considering Christianity,because someone really made me realize,that there has 2 be a God.She gave me so much proof, but i'm still not sure if i'm ready because i've been an athiest for about 2 or 3 years.what should i do?
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You can always be ready god is ready to take you into his arms and heart at any time you just got to ask him into your heart and mean it. Hes the love you never could have from anyone else-trix
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Q: Ok..2 days ago my boyfriend cheated on me (he kissed another girl)then he broke up with me because he didnt want to hurt me anymore then he did. We both still like eachother and we talk on the phone. I cannot stop thinking about him AT ALL like..I stay up all night crying and thinking about him. Im mad at him for what he did to me but at the same time I really want to be with him again!! What should I do? ..I dont know if I should leave things the way they are or tell him I want to be with him :/
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Well although breaking up was the best thing they still suck! Everyone deserves a 2nd chace and he does to. But it can be hard to forgive and if your willing to forgive and try n forget then he should be willing for that and give it another try. I would talk to him and let him know your willing to try cuz he is worth another chance. I would defintly talk to him but just remember you could be setting yourself up for a burn but if your going back to him then he is probably speacial in your eyes! So go for it and tell him! I wish you very very very good luck!-trixxi
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Q: every time i go out wit some one they just feel bad for me wat should i do? help i rate high
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Well you have to watch out for that i dont know why they would feel bad. You have to know why they feel bad for you in order to fix that prob.-trix
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 221956
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