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i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do?

Hey hun thats happening to me right now too! There really isnt anything you can do..Unless he meets your mom and i dont think you want that cause i know i dont! haha at least not yet..So just..Meet him somewhere. Like go somewhere with your friends then when you get there meet him! Im really not sure what to do either since im dealing with the same problem. If you wanna talk about it you can IM me! Sorry i didnt really help

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Why is it when I look at certain people's typing, my eyes begin to burn? My eyes burn especially with sticky caps, and internet abbreviations.
(luv, gurl, boi, seckz, lol, brb, kay, ur, u, r, etc)
It's almost unbearable, how do I make it stop?

You just don't like when people use chat speak. Your like one of those people who cuss the shit out of someone just for useing it. Thats fine just tell the person to stop typing like that. And if you don't know the person. Don't talk to them...It's all over the place now. Like on comercials and stuff like that. So i'd get used to it if i were you! Sorry for the forwardness...

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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks

Yea you prolly should..Either a strapless bra or one with straps it doesnt really matter it will just look like the straps on your shirt ne ways!

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My friend has just decided that he would like to join the army. I think this is crazy because he is really sensitive and I don't think he could handle it. It doesnt really help matters that I really like like him. I don't want him to go, I'm scared something bad will happen to him or that he'll be killed. I really don't think he should go because of the way he is. What should I say to him to stop him going, I really don't think he would be able to survive it.

Thanx millions for anyone who replies

Well seriously...its his disition and if he wants to be in the army then he should be. Because that is SO awsome if he wants to join to fight for his contry AND the contry YOUR living in..So practically hes protecting you and everyone else in the nation...No offence but your being kind of selfish for not wanting him to go and do a good thing AND doing something he WANTS to do...Im not trying to be mean what so ever so dont get that idea im just saying it strait forward...Im sure he'll survive it the sensitive ones are actually the strongest ones! Dont worry about him not surviving and dont tell him he shouldnt go because hes doing an amazing thing and its not your right to tell him what to do...And you saying "I really don't think he would be able to survive it." isnt a very good or positive attitude to have for your friend not to mention a guy you LIKE...So dont be selfish and be happy for him! He can write you everyday and you can write him back...If you dont think him going into the army to defend our country is a good thing...You need a reality check...Im sorry for being so harsh but im just saying the truth!! I dont think its right for you to be telling him what to do or deciding for him what hes going to do with his life so let him make his own decisions...Sorry again for the forwardness!

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i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?

Maybe like swipe them to the side..Or make them go strait so that there kind of in your eyes a little...um..Part them down the middle..Just think of exciting things to do with them!

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whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)

twinkie..tinkerbell..mini..bruiser!no wait thats a boy name.....rosie..lucy..sophie..tink..chilli like from TLC!..roonie..sammy..juss gotta think! hope i helped

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a guy i keep hooking up with never calls me when he says he will, he calls like every night for 2-3 nights after we hook up but after that he just seems to forget about me & doesn't call back, even though he said he would. do i have a right to be mad at him? what should i do about it?

no..u shouldnt be mad at him..you can call him too..and ask him if hes tierd of you..or if your boering him! you dont have a right to be mad at him..so after you guys hook up instead of him calling u the second night you call him! the guy can juss call the girl has to too!

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Hi,
My baby rabbit just died from a heart problem :'( We knew she was gonna die because she was very ill, but we got her anyway because we wanted to give her the best life we could because we knew it would be short!! So, we got another rabbit with her. Now our baby rabbit has died, the other is soo lonley!! My mum wants another rabbit to keep her company but I'm not sure, I don't think I'm ready to have another one in her place just like that. Am I being selfish by not wanting another rabbit even though the other one is lonley? What should I do?

AWW! omg im so sorry! I have a bunny myself..I think you should definatly get another one for your other rabbit..I mean come on...You dont have to beg your mom to get another one AND your other bunny will be much happyer! No your not being selfish but i really think you should get your other bunny a new companion...

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Background info: I am one of those people who are totally against fads. I speak my opinion and let others know that I'm not another copy!

A little more background: I saw an extremely cute shirt, an adorable skirt, and awesome pants at AE and A&F. I really want to buy them, but people might see me as a traitor or something.

My question for you to answer: What should I do if I want to buy clothes at stores that I am known to diss?

Dont buy um...Cuz people will like..Say sh*t about u...I dont think you should..But its not my life its yours! So do w/e you feel is right!

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My dog is a sweet Fullblooded boxer. The problem is she wont stop bitting my feet and when I walk she pulls on my pants.She is about 7 mounths, WHAT SHOULD I DO

Aww haha shes just a baby! She'll get over it sooner or later...But if your really concerned..Take her to a pet training class..But i definatly think she'll get over it! Shes only 7 months!

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my hair is curly and i am so tired of having to deal with it.. i striaghten it and i am worried if i keep straightening it i will fry it .. i am wondering if any one has gotten a straight perm .. if you have,.. does it fry your hair? is it ok to get one if you have highlights? will is make your hair un-healthy... or softer? pleassee help!!

((((I RATE HIGH))))

Hey...If you get it...Since your hair is so curly and im asuming you have high lights it will be worse then straitning it everyday! And plus...They will juss ease you into the straitener like you will probily get the one that makes your hair wavy..Then later on you will get the one that makes your hair strait..but if you get the really expensive one it will be strait automatically...But i really really dont recomend getting it perminatly straitend..VERYY bad for your hair...it will make it worse then juss straitening it everyday...Get a dry and damnaged shampoo like garnier fructis or something it will protect your hair as u straiten it! hope i helped..

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14/f, ninth grade.

I really don't dress well- like every day i wear this big baggy red jacket and either baggy jeans or sweatpants- and I'm giving myself a makeover. Does anyone have any tips, like stores to look at, places that will do my makeup once for free, etc.?

Thanks in advance.

You can go to Saphora to get your makeup done and/or Department stores like macys and dillards and stuff...Also to shop...Go to like Pacsun..Ancore BLue...Wet seal...uhhhhm...Juss go to the mall and go to stores that look like they have cute cloths! or go to department stores...Hope i helped

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Hey. I was wondering where I can find cute, short summery dresses. I have 2 from Hollister and 1 from a&f... but where else? not dressy.... just summery... either online or at stores! thanks so much!

PacSun has some too...And American Eagel...Umm...Ancor BLue might have some? Just look around! Go on a shopping spree...Make a one day shopping day and look everywhere haha hope i helped

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how can you send a offline message on AIM? I no there is away i just dont remember.

You have to either go invisible (which is clicking on the eye) or connect with someone then sign off and you can keep talking! hope i helped

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is it right for a 15 year old to date a 19 year old?

No because the guy can go to jail for dateing a minor. If you guys get cought he will go to jail..But if you two love each other and wanna try and NOT get cought or anything then go for it!

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Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!!

Hey...Maybe you could call each other once in a while and see whats up. Or you could right each other letters and mail them too! On the weekends or when ever you have off you can get together and do something!! I dont think you guys will stop being bff's if you guys trully love each other! Which i think you do! So...plan out whos gunna call what day or something! You may even get more bff's at your new school then you can get together with your old ones and all spend time together! Over summer break you guys have a lot of time to catch up on things so just talk to her about it. You can also get an inerdistrict transfer and transfer back to your old school! But iono if you have that where you live. Any ways..Just tell her how your feeling! Hope i helped

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Ok,

I never know how I should respond to the "V" question when trying to get with a girl. If I say my truthful and say no, they are like "awww, that's sweet" And pretty much never hear from them again, but I don't want to lie and have it kick me latering down the line. What should I do in this situation?

Tell the truth. Trust me...You wont get yourself in trouble later on if you just tell the truth...If the girl doesn't like you just because your a virgin then shes not worth it. She should respect that cause most guys now-a-days aren't like that. I respect you very much! Just be honest and if they think its dumb there not worth any of your time!

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A friend came to me with a problem. She's been involved with a man for about 10 years now. She recently rekindled a relationship she had with a much older man. Her problem, she loves them both, but is torn between them. The older man was a friend of her fathers and has more of an infatuation with him, meanwhile her feelings towards the other man is starting to fizzle out. What should she do?

Well thats kinda....Weird...Having feeling for her fathers friend?? Anyways. If she doesnt care for the one that shes had a 10 year relationship i can understand that. 1 because shes already tried stuff with another man which means she didnt really care for the 10 year relationship in the 1st place. You would probibly disagree with me about her not caring for him but if she really did she wouldnt have cheated on him. Dont let her make things worse and have her keep on loveing the 10 year relationship man. Thats just ruining him and her together. If you tell him now there wont be any bad things to come in the future...Like what if he proposed to her? Then shed be really stuck..So choose one or the other...If shed rather be with the old man then have her get with him. Stop playing the other guy and get things strait! Sorry this was so forward but i dont particularly like cheaters! But yes...Tell them the truth...Dont wait till the 10th of never!! Hope i helped...

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what would you do if you thought your best friend liked your boyfriend? I talked to my boyfriend about it and my friend knows, but i can't tell my best friend how i feel about everything. help pleaz

Well hun the only thing you CAN do IS tell your best friend! Sorry but it is! All you have to do is go to her and say.."Hey i was just wondering...do you like my boyfriend in anyway?....at all?" She wont get mad. Tell her to tell you the honest truth. Its the only way you can find out. Unless you wanna do it the hard way and have someone ask her then tell you...! But my advice is to just ask her! Hope i helped!

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my hair is straight already, but sometimes it flips on the ends. do you think it would be dumb if i got a straightener even though my hair is already straight?

No way! It wouldnt be dumb at all!! My friend has stick strait hair but still has a straitener just incase!!

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