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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.



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Hey everyone,
I want to create a calm atmosphere for my new room. What are some key elements? placement of furniture, and colors that can help me relax.

Oh and if anyone has any websites on stress busting you room I would appreciate it ! Thanks.

Here's a website =)

http://www.lazboy.com/

My god. I really wanted some like furniture for my room from here, but never had the time. I think they have like really cute/laid back chairs,lamps,small couches, etc. You can buy a bean bag chair or whatever they are called lol. And maybe you can paint the colors of your walls. Like, light blue, or light pink. Not something crazy that'll make someone give a migrane. Something that you think looks really relaxed. Like a light color. You can also buy rugs/paint at Wal*Mart i think. Go cheap but cute. You don't want to spend 1000000 dollars on only 1 room. Hope it turns out great





EDIT ANSWER::

BUY SOME CANDLES TOO!! SCENTED ONES!! =D. I like those.

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Hey Guys. This Question Isn't Gonna Be Long, But I Really want a boyfriend. I havent like went out with anyone in like 4 years. Yea I know..Loner. But No one (guys) likes me. I'm Ugly, Fat. You Name it. Everything About me is messed up. Whats wrong with me Guys?

lol I think the person means your self-conscience. Something like that..All i know is that it means that you aren't happy the way you look & feel inside. Maybe you just need to flirt and talk to guys. Let them feel like your available for a relationship. Go out with your friends & just mean some guys where ever you go. Or you can possibly go out with your best guy friend. Talk to guys. Start up a conversation. Be outgoing, funny, nice, & really like..cheerful. lol. Don't worry. I bet your not ugly or fat. Your beautiful, you just can't see it yet. You will once your confidence starts building up. And that's all you need, is confidence.


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He's my favorite singer and I have three of his albums. He only has 4 altogether, right?

Yep. =)


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I have a question, and I know it's gonna sound stupid, but you know how when you were little and got all excited about Christmas? You'd count down the days and get up early to open presents, and you just had that special feeling that you only get around Christmas? Well, I don't get that anymore, and I haven't for a while. Why is that? Is it just cause I'm older and more mature? I still love Christmas, but I don't get that special feeling anymore. It's like Christmas is gone or something, and I just feel so weird. I want that feeling again. Can anyone help? I know, dumb question, but I needed to ask. Thanks.

Yea, it's because you grow out of it. I mean, everytime i run to the Christmas tree you see this big smile across my face. It's because i want to know what i got, or because i already know . lol =D. I mean, for the hell of it i still leave cookies out for "Santa"...NO JOKE. Maybe you still like Christmas, it's just you don't get excited. If you really get into it and do all this stuff and show some like..Christmas spirit, then it might work. Other than that. I don't think you can make the feeling go away. Also, i think its because when you were little you, you knew Santa was real. But when you grow older your just like, eh..its only my parents. All you have to do is just get into it.



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Is there anything that promotes you to get out of bed in the morning? I always feel so miserable getting up, and I need something to jumpstart my mornings.

Oh man..me too! I hate getting up in the morning. But usually i think of all the fun times i have with my friends & see all my favorite hot guys at school =DDD. Ohhhh maann. Lol . Maybe you should put your alarm into type of music and put the volume really loud lol. I do that..SOMETIMES. It kind of helps. Then i go to the bathroom and wash my face with realllly cold water. It gets me awake. And when i have time, i go to starbucks && get something from there. =DD. I love hot chocolate in the morning! =P..I HATE COFFEE!! =\



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Alright so basicly i just got out of a relationship and got my heart broken. Im ready to go out meet new guys hang out with guy friends and all that! How can i make myself out there and meet new guys? how can i show guy friends im single and something they should be interested in.. what are some things i could do? I really need this!!!


thanks
i rate well

You should go hang with your friends && go somewhere where there's a lot of guys && just start talking to them. Flirt with your guy friends too. Hang around then basically. =) But don't be like..obsessive. =P. Talk to as many guys as you can.



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Would anyone recommend some good DVDs that have come out in like the past year or so. I like chick flicks, romantic comedys and really funny movies...
the more the better
I rate.

I really like mean girls & the notebook. =) Anchor man is pretty funny too..lol actually it's hilarious. =P



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Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!

i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it

I LOVE IT!!! I think it is very fashionable and it has some really cute stores. I really like Hollister too. Who cares what people think =) I love that store! =D



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when people say word what are they replacing ? what does it mean ? yes I know im kind of slow when it comes to these. I'll rate

Lol, it just means agreeing with someone.

For example "Oh my god that guy is soo freakin gorgeous!"

"Word!!"


lol..thats a bad example..but close enough..sorry



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Okay, I need your opinion. I'm writing a song and I need a title first according to my vocalist. Please pick your fave out of the choices below:
a) Hollywood Heartbreak
b) Generation Change (sounds 70's right?)
c) Beautiful Heartbreak
d) Broken change/ promise
(On d, change or promise? if you chose d.)

Any other suggestions on titles? Or anything else about songwriting in general? I'll rate high.

In order.. =)

C)Beautiful Heartbreak
A)Hollywood Heartbreak
D)Broken Promise
B)Generation Change

Those are my favs. in order =)


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I'm 14/f. I have a dozen good friends, and I need to find cute gifts to get them all for Christmas. They're all girls, and I'd appreciate some cute ideas or something (preferably 15 bucks or under per gift). If anybody has any ideas, like how to wrap the gifts or what I should give them, then let me know. They're all normal girls who like girly things, just to give you an idea of what I'm looking for. Fives for all who respond.

You can always give them gift cards. Or some really cute earrings from Claire's. I know there earings aren't more than 20 bucks. =) Buy them like a cute necklace, rings, CD's, belts, pearls,leg warmers,scarfs,lipgloss, etc. Sometimes stores like Abercrombie have sales because of Christmas and there shirts could be pretty cheap. If you just shop around girly stores you can find something that they like. And you should put them in a tiny bag(or how big the present is) and have colorful tissue paper sticking out of them lol =) Get what i'm saying?? ♥



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Umm! Well a guy lent me his and I have no idea how to wash them! Can you just shove it in with a normal 40 degree wash or should I hand wash it or??
Heeelp! lol

Just to be safe, i would hand wash it lol. With like..some dish soap or something. =) That's what i would do


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I was wondering what they mean when they say "the sex is so much better when you're mad at me" in "Get Stoned" by Hinder.

Lol i think it means that when you have sex when your mad its better because you get aggressive and you have to take your anger out on something..if you really think about you'll get it! lol


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What are some really good songs?

Depends on what you like.. =)

Ying Yang Twins ft/ Mike Jones- Badd Bitch
Twista ft/ Mariah Carey- So Lonely
Ray J- One wish, Anytime, Melody
PussyCat Dolls- Stick Wit U
D4L- Laffy Taffy
Olivia-So Sexy
Nelly ft/ Paul Wall & St. Lunatics-Grillz
Mariah Carey-Don't Forget About Us
Mac Dre- Get Stupid, Thizzle Dance
Lyfe Jennings- Must Be Nice
LiL Rob- Bring Out The Freak In You
Kanye West ft Adam Levine- Heard Em' Say, Golddigger.
Juelz Santana- There It Go
FrontLine- Bang It
112-What If
Beyonce ft Slim Thug- Check On It
Black Eyed Peas- My Humps
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Iron & Wine- Naked As We Came
Coldplay- Fix You(album version)
*Anything from DeathCab for Cutie*
Edwin McCain- I'll Be
Fall Out Boy- Dance, Dance
Fall Out Boy- Where is your boy tonight?
Five Times August- Up To Me
Gwen Stefani-Serious
Gwen Stefani-Crash
Hollywood Undead- No 5
Hot Hot Heat- Goodnight, Goodnight
Jacks Mannequin- Bruised
Jacks Mannequin- Dark Blue
Motion City Soundtrack- Everything Is All Right
Relient K- Who I Am Hates Who I've Been
Something Corporate- I want To save you
The Click Five- Catch Your Wave
The Scene Aesthetic- Beauty In The Breakdown
The Scene Aesthetic- The Alamo is no place for dancing
The Used- All That I've Got
The Veronicas-4ever
The Veronicas-Everything I'm Not



Hope I helped..lol Need anymore just leave one in my inbox.. =)



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I was really upset about something a guy friend (or so I thought) did to me.
Well I have a mental illness (schizophrenia) and am on a small disablility pension. I don't just sit around on my ass, I volunteer at the food bank and other places to keep me busy.
Well I went to visit my friend at his work one day. And all of a sudden, for no reason at all he starts saying the meanest things to me, like that I was living off the system and wasnt going to better my life. When I started crying and said he was being judgemental he said "you needed to hear this", in the meanest voice.
I havent been back to see him and he hasnt phoned to apologize. I even heard that he has been talking to his friends about me spazzing out.
Why he is being so mean? Do I have a right to be upset or am I overeacting? And should I even give him a second chance?

He's being mean because he's a jackass! >=(. I fucking hate guys like that. Yes, of course you have the right to be upset. I would. A guy who you thought was your friend, they wouldn't say that. NO..don't give him a second chance. He hurted you to the point that it made you cry. =( He shouldn't be given a second chance.



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my parents are going through a divorce, and i am devastated. how can i get over my stress?

You really can't get over a divorce. When something this big happens, you just can't get over it within a minute. It`ll take some time. =) Try and talk to your parents about how you feel. Tell them what your going through and how your so devastated. They still love you so don't think that they won't listen. If you give it some time, you`ll get over it bit by bit.



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i wish i had a penis.

i'm glad i have a vagina..



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whats the difference between fraternity and sorority?

Fraternity is boys =)
Sorority is girls =)




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Ok there was this guy I liked named Mike...well I thought I liked him but then I jst denied it because I didn't know what people would think..ya I know I shouldn't care but I did. Well he would always get in my face and do stupid things to get my attn. so I'm pretty sure he liked me, but I jst kept ignoring him..eventually he stopped. Now I realize that I reeally really like him...but I don't know if he lost interst or just moved on! Yesterday we were standin in this little group of friends nd when i looked up he was atarin at me so, idk doeas he still liek me or what? If he does how can I get us talking?
*I'll rate!!*

Just go up && talk to him. Talk to him on aim, at school, or with a group of friends. Flirt with him a little more. Stare at him and smile. He might like you. But i can't really tell.. All you have to do is just talk to him like nothing happened. Take it slow. Be really good friends first. =)



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Wrong Catergory didnt know which one...

Ohk tomorrow after the party with my work we are going bowling. I have not benn bowling since the summer and i seriously suck at it no lie. im going with people that are oler then me and i seem to embarass myself more then the average person idk what to do.. im not sitting out and watching because i love bowling but suck at it.

Should i just embarrass myself or what?

Please dont give me any website links on how to bowl because changes are i wont get it.
thx.. and tonight and tomorrow before 4:30pm would be great

Oh my gosh. I suck at bowling too. But you should just really have fun. Who cares? They're probably laugh at you a little. But you'll be getting alot of attention tomorrow night. You should be able to laugh at yourself. Just try and bowl. Even if you suck, oh well. Lol atleast you tried. If you want, you can practice before the bowling thing. Like today or something.





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You can just practice by going down to the bowling alley thing before 2morrow & practice by yourself. lol =P

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