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Hey all.

Okay, here's the problem... for some reason when I go to certain web sites after the page has fully loaded up most of the content on the page will suddenly just vanish. I refresh the page and all the content will be there again until the page finishes loading up, after which most the content will vanish again. :/

For example on Ebay recently. I logged into my account and at first (while all the content and page was loading up) everything was showing up fine, like my items I had bid on and stuff I was watching. When the page had finished loading up though everything vanished apart from the bar at the top of the page (basicaly everything that had anything to do with my account on that page vanished). This has happen with a numer of sites even just normal sites where I don't need tolog in to view stuff. When the page loads up fully most of the content (usually the content I needed) vanishes.

I'm guessing it's some kind of setting for my IE that's been changed somehow because it was all working fine before so if anyone can shed some light on this, would be very greatful. :D (link)
conact your internet provider, and tell them. if its settings, they should tell ye how to sort it


Ok well I was sleeping over with my friends and then at shower time when i came in with my shorts and it was just me and one friend, she's said
"wow, you really are pretty!"

really are?
does that mean that people say im pretty but she doesnt' beleive it?

I don't know if it's a good compliment or not.. (link)
Were you wearing any make-up? She probably saw you without make-up and realized you're naturally pretty. Don't think to far into it. Yes it was a compliment. Some girls can't look pretty when they're not all dolled up. She, I guess, saw that you are naturally pretty. But again, don't over analyze it.


Ok well I haven't had a mosquitto bite in 5 years so i don't know if thsi is normal but it is as big as those tamagotchi thingies!

I have no medication at all and I'm goign to the carnival tommorrow.

How can i make it better and fast? (link)
get medication, or see a doc. im not sure though, i live in mosquito free england.....


Ok well I was sleeping over with my friends and then at shower time when i came in with my shorts and it was just me and one friend, she's said
"wow, you really are pretty!"

really are?
does that mean that people say im pretty but she doesnt' beleive it?

I don't know if it's a good compliment or not.. (link)
no its a compliment i think, like someone probz said you were pretty, and then wen she saw u all pretty she said wot she said


I have MSn messenger and all my friends can listen to music on there, like, they always have a song next to their name, and it shows the song that they are listening to. But i don't know how to listen to music on there. can someone please tell me how to get it? thank you. =] (link)
open up your music player, i use windows media player. then tools, plug-ins, windows messenger/msn messenger, and then youre done.


whats a biological clock (link)
Its basically the "clock" inside of you telling your body when its ready for something to start, like your period. Like when people refer to someones "time" to start.


Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend I get this feeling like I REALLY need to pee. Is that normal? (link)
It's normal but if you use the bathroom before sex it lessens the chances of that feeling.

Good Luck!


me and my boyfriend have sex alot. but afterwards i get sore more than half the time. sometimes i'm fine and all but alot of times it gets extremely sore and it stays that way for almost a week if not longer. sometimes i don't realize it's still sore so when we start it hurts alot and it feels like i'm getting cut open, but when i take a piss there is absolutely no blood. why am i getting so sore? (link)
Most likely there is not enough lubrication. Next time tell him that before or uses some kind of lube. If that still doesn't work maybe you should consult a doctor.

Good Luck!


First off before you start reading this , i DON'T want anyone to write me telling me how bad Marijuana is. This is a serious problem to me and by you telling me how much you disagree with weed , is not going to make my situation better.

I've been smoking for about a year and half.
[weed].
I don't smoke cigs though.
When i get done smoking weed , i get really bad pains in the back of my head and sometimes on the top. Sometimes it feels like my brain is jumping up and down inside of my skull. Now i know weed isn't good for your brain and such but are these pains normal? sometimes they really almost make me cry. My brain doesn't always hurt but it's been hurting lately and i was wondering what could be the cause and how to fix it ?

Should i stop smoking for a while ?

thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
I have never heard of this problem before. It could be other problems that are not even associated with the use. You should discontinue for a while and see if you still get it. If you still get it then you should consult a doctor about the problem. It may be more serious than you think it could be some kind of problem with your brain.

Good Luck!


about 3 months ago i had sex with my best friend. we were at a party and we were both really drunk. We talked about it later and we decided taht it was really nothing. We are still good friends. we have been since we were 4. he's like a big brother. and really he was the first guy i ever had sex with. i can't believe this happened but i'm prego. it sucks. It's really weird too because he is my best friend and we don't have feelings like that for each other. Our parents are best friends and so we want to tell them together that i'm prego. How should we tell them? Gah this is so weird! got any pointers? (link)
Well first of "prego" as your reference to pregnant gives me the idea that you are not to serious about the matter. Maybe i am wrong but that is just my thought. Have you ever heard of the saying "No glove, No love"? At this point you are too late into the pregnancy to get an abortion to where it is not cruel(in my opinion). Maybe next time it will make you think about getting drunk and having sex even if it is with someone you have known for a long time. It is not a good idea to have sex with someone you have no feels for, that just gives you a bad name.If you did not use a condom, that is just ignorant and you should get checked to make sure you do not have an STD. If you did use a condom well, you are just the unlucky 2 percent which should make you more cautious next time. Regardless, depending on your age, if you are under 18 they are going to be very angry and you need take caution on how you tell them. If you are over 18 it will probably go a lot easier but they still will think poorly of you guys, if they know you had no feelings for each other. Depending on what your idea of the child's future living conditions will be should definitely help you decide whether it is the right thing to keep it or put it up for adoption. Since you and the father have no relationship other than friends it is probably going to cause problems in the future. This pregnancy could lead to many problems such a loosing your friend because of differences you may have bring up a child. Overall I think you guys messed up big time but you cannot go back and you have to move from where it is. In my personal opinion if your under 18 than you should approach the announcing situation very carefully but if you are an adult you should be able to tell them in anyway that you feel comfortable. After all when your 18 you parents cannot really tell you what to do.

Good Luck!


First off before you start reading this , i DON'T want anyone to write me telling me how bad Marijuana is. This is a serious problem to me and by you telling me how much you disagree with weed , is not going to make my situation better.

I've been smoking for about a year and half.
[weed].
I don't smoke cigs though.
When i get done smoking weed , i get really bad pains in the back of my head and sometimes on the top. Sometimes it feels like my brain is jumping up and down inside of my skull. Now i know weed isn't good for your brain and such but are these pains normal? sometimes they really almost make me cry. My brain doesn't always hurt but it's been hurting lately and i was wondering what could be the cause and how to fix it ?

Should i stop smoking for a while ?

thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
well yeah, stop for a bit, and see if you still get the pains if they stop then you know its deffo the weed and you can stop if you want to. if they carry on, i say you see the doctor.


Is 18k gold better than 14k? (link)
Adding on to what the person below me said, 18k gold is also softer since it contains more gold and gold is a soft mineral. So, like an 18k piece of jewelry might bend easier. I had a 18k ring and it was a little too big. The back of the ring like, flattened out after a few years.



ok , sometimes out of no where i'll get pains in random places. Sometimes i'll get little pains on the inner part of my arms and they feel like i'm getting a shot. They only last for a couple of minutes. the past couple of day's i've been having pains on the top of my thumb , and i look and there isn't no scratch or anything. I get pains sometimes when i breath in and they hurt so bad. I get them mostly in my arms and my neck and stuff is this normal ? Nobody else i know have these problems. :/

(link)
I sometimes will get random pains or random places start throbbing (like somewhere on my neck or a small part of my leg). But it's not something I can explain. If it's really worrying you, ask your doctor because I don't know if people on here can help you all that much. I kinda blow it off when it happens to me because I'm just like, eh whatever. But since it really bothers you, ask your doctor. :)


Okay, so there is this boy. We never went out, but we told said we loved each other and he said he wants to ask me out SO bad. But then, he all of the sudden got back with his ex. I was sooo hurt, and he knew it. We didnt talk for weeks at a time and then we started to talk again. We've become so close again like best friends that will never be like that again. Then one day, he said his former ex broke up with him again, and now he says he loves me. How do I know that he means it? How do I know that he actually does love me? (link)
Do NOT mess around with this guy. You'll just keep getting hurt because the same thing will happen. Guys like that aren't good. Yeah they're nice and are a good friend but it'd be in your best interest to not let it go farther. Simply put, your is rebound girl and that's something you don't want to be. The second his ex wants him back (or another girl he's be eying), you'll be gone. Really, it isn't worth it. You can find better guys that actually wanna date you.


Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend I get this feeling like I REALLY need to pee. Is that normal? (link)
I have no idea... ha i never get that but try going to the bathroom before and after sex. You are supposed to go after sex because it can cause heath issues if you do not.


I get severe migraines when I'm stressed out. Even if it's over something silly, like getting my errands done. I've tried excedrin migraine and aleve for my headaches, but nothing seems to work.

Does anyone else who gets severe migraines have a quick fix for dealing with them? (link)
Ok i know how you feel, i get servere migraines too and i take two advil...(14/f)
but one time my migraine got so bad that i felt nausious alsoand my mom called the doctor and they said to give me one alieve and my migrain was gone a lot faster! also, my friend has the same servere migrains tooa and he said that that head on medication works sooo well...u know, the roll on medicine. If you dont know then ask the people at like AMP or Shoprite or any store. It is actually called head on. Feel Better!!!! I hope i helped!


Somebody give me tips to lose weight that will I will not turn down. I dont like veggies and working out is a hassel sometimes. I want toi be fit and skinny. I need to lose weight. I am 13/m (link)
hey

dude, if you're a guy, it's a LOT easier for guys to lose weight. join football. bball. soccer. lacrosse. you burn like, a million calories at every practice so you can eat whatever crap you want. seriously, the guys in my school eat HORRIBLY but they lose it all cause of all the sports they do. for girls, esp the ones who aren't as athletic, it's really hard to lose weight. doing a sport makes up for 'working out' & i mean i don't blame you, veggies can suck. but don't eat pizza everyday. if you're thirsty, drink water, not gatorade / red bull / vitamin water. just. water. you didn't say how much you NEED to lose weight, but just check your bmi (google 'bmi calculator') and see how much you need to loose. you're only 13, and only a few guys have true 6-packs in my grade (i'm 14 / f / 8th grade)


I get severe migraines when I'm stressed out. Even if it's over something silly, like getting my errands done. I've tried excedrin migraine and aleve for my headaches, but nothing seems to work.

Does anyone else who gets severe migraines have a quick fix for dealing with them? (link)
hey

migraines run in my family. my mom uses this stuff called head on. & i'm sure you've heard the annoying commercial, 'head on! apply directly to the forehead! head on! apply directly to the forehead!' but yeah it REALLY works. you should def try it.

if i have a headache, i usually just sleep it off, but that's not always possible =]]


Does a guy's virginity mean as much as it does to a girl? (link)
nope

there is no hymen for guys
so no
it has no significance whatsoever
just means that the dude hasnt ever had sex


I'd be realy grateful if someone could tell me where to find instrumantals of songs...without vocals.

you see videos on youtube with people singing to backing music for particular songs and im just curious to where they get it all from!

i want the music so that when i learn songs to cover ,itll be easier..in a way!

thanks a lot :) (link)
http://www.sunncity.com/music/index.asp

Just type in the artist or the song, it has loads on there

xxx




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