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Does he mean it?
Okay, so there is this boy. We never went out, but we told said we loved each other and he said he wants to ask me out SO bad. But then, he all of the sudden got back with his ex. I was sooo hurt, and he knew it. We didnt talk for weeks at a time and then we started to talk again. We've become so close again like best friends that will never be like that again. Then one day, he said his former ex broke up with him again, and now he says he loves me. How do I know that he means it? How do I know that he actually does love me?
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NO. Don't take any of my advice personally; I'd tell any girl in this situation what I'm about to say.
He's using you. As a rebound. And you're TAKING IT. Don't fall for guys' crap. You never know if he really does love you, but it pretty much shows that he said he loved you [before], but yet he still got back together with his ex. (Irreguardless of why) Don't fall for it. I'm not telling you to never talk to him again, but you have to realize if a boy is going to hurt you, why like him? And just a tip: don't say you love him if you guys never even went out. You have to know what you really deserve; and let's face the facts: if we think about it, we know he's not the only guy out there. If you want to risk everything, go for it. But if you want to protect you & your emotions, move on to the guy that will make you his whole world.
(Guys will do ANYTHING they can to make you come back to them. Including making promises they can never keep.)
♥,Kitty
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I don't think he does, it sounds to me like he is in love with the idea of being in love. He can't stand to be alone. Not even for a week or so to get over his ex. He sound very immature to me. He has already hurt your feelings. He shouldn't have been telling you that he loved you when he wasn't over his ex yet. And how do you know she won't be back. She is probably as needy as he is. And if she know she can get him back any time she wants, every time she is dumped or dumps someone, she'll call him again. Sounds to me like you are setting yourself up for a long string of heart aches.
I think you should look for someone else. Well I I hope you do.
Michele
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he doens't mean it and he doesn't love you... at least it really doesn't sound like it anyway. he wouldn't have even gotten with his ex if he cares about you at all- if he wanted to ask you out SOOO bad, then why the heck didn't he? sorry hun, but you need to get over him. he doesn't genuinely care about you at all... he's on the rebound from his breakup with his ex, and it just sounds like he needs to have a girlfriend at all times and thats what you are- kind of like a fill in. i could be wrong, but he sounds like a jerk. good luck hun! and stay away from him... he doesn't deserve you ♥
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You never really do know. IF you want to you'll just have to trust him. I don't think its right for someone to tell you to stay away from him or not because you just do what you want and what will make you happy. Everything comes to and end right? You'll have to either try and forget him or go for it and enjoy the time there is. You'll get hurt eventually.. the question is this- is he worth getting hurt over?
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Do NOT mess around with this guy. You'll just keep getting hurt because the same thing will happen. Guys like that aren't good. Yeah they're nice and are a good friend but it'd be in your best interest to not let it go farther. Simply put, your is rebound girl and that's something you don't want to be. The second his ex wants him back (or another girl he's be eying), you'll be gone. Really, it isn't worth it. You can find better guys that actually wanna date you.
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