me and my boyfriend have sex alot. but afterwards i get sore more than half the time. sometimes i'm fine and all but alot of times it gets extremely sore and it stays that way for almost a week if not longer. sometimes i don't realize it's still sore so when we start it hurts alot and it feels like i'm getting cut open, but when i take a piss there is absolutely no blood. why am i getting so sore?
orphans answered Friday June 8 2007, 2:26 pm: Most likely there is not enough lubrication. Next time tell him that before or uses some kind of lube. If that still doesn't work maybe you should consult a doctor.
Michele answered Friday June 8 2007, 12:41 pm: It's friction honey. You need more lubrication. If the sex act goes on for a long time, and you lose your natural lubrication, you will get an irritation, and yes it does hurt. It is kind of like a rug burn. Once you get it, it will sting and irritate until it has a chance to heal. SO a lubrication like KY Jelly, which is colorless and orderless can allow you and your boyfriend to enjoy sex for long periods of time, and you won't get any friction burns. It's cheap enough and it comes in a tube and you can get it at any drug store.
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