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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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I'm doing an audition for my school's drama club and I have to memorize a Shakespearean love scene. Any advice?

Try to get into the character as much as possible. Talk loudly, and clear so they can hear/understand you, and have passion.

How can I get a guys attention without making mystlf look stupid and obvious ?????

I heard that saying "Hi" works really well.

i want to know EVERYTHING about sex. everything absolutley everything. like for example wat is a tea bag? and what do u do in it? i want to know what everything is and how you do it.

thanks

okay so me and jamie have been friends since kindergarden. but this year shes been hanging out with this girl stacey and me and stacey were pretty close before stacey and jamie HUGE friendship. and jamie like hangs out with stacey like 24/7 and im NOT even kidding. its so annoying. they leave me out of EVERYTHING. and bacically they do it on PURPOSE(i think) they dont even BOTHER to talk to me like alone. III have to go to them. then at the auction thing stacey and her friend olivia(are in a fight and now stacey was going to tell her off)so she was like jamie come with me to tell her off but jamie didnt want to..yadda yadda...and then while olivia and stacey were talking things out, jamie i guess realized stacey really wasnt her friend so she came to me and she was like im sorry ..yadda yadda your my real friend..yadda yadda.

then the next day, she DID the opposite of what she told me! she hung out with stacey like NOTHING happened!! and then today i was sitting by like jamie and stacey and some of my other friends and they went into the hall(w/o telling me)so i went too! and now my friend alex tells me that they were talking about how i was FOLLOWING THEM??!?!?!??! uhh what do i do?

Find yourself some new friends. If they're leaving you out, and talking about you behind your back, they're not really your friends.

one of my friends ( a girl ) cheated on her boyfriend who is also my friend. she told me not to tell him but i feel like he needs to know. but i dont want her getting mad at me. what should i do? answer tonight would be great

Personally, I think you shouldn't get involved. I mean, he deserves to know, yes, but he should hear it from her, not you.

Tell her that she needs to tell him, and if she doesn't, that's when you step in. Good luck!

hi i just asked a question like 20 seconds ago about getting this guy's sn and how to ask my friends BUT i thought of an idea:

what if i gave a list of like people's sns i need & asked my friends? would that be obvious? & in the worst case they'll think it's someone on the list. you know? ugh i hate my friends... they're so stupid. :] thanks!

Just ask them for it. If they make a big deal out of it, let them. You won't be able to stop them from it, but just ask. It can't hurt. =)

Ok, my best friend in the entire world's brother has a crush on me. He asked my friend for my s/n but is kinda shy and hasnt IM'ed me. And then my friend told me that he was interested but this was way back in january. So about a month ago me and my friend went out to eat and he tagged along. So now I'm scared to go over her house. I'm afraid it will be awkward! Idk if I like him or not cus he's kind of a rebel and plus he's 17, almost 18, and i'm only 15, almost 16. What should I do?!

Look at it this way:

Rebels can be either a good or a bad choice. If that's the kind of guy you go for, then it's good. But if it's not, then it can be good and bad. Change is good, but it can be bad too. Rebels are more opptimistic & more shy. They don't follow the rules, and they don't listen to authority. I'm not saying they're all like that, but most of them are.

I think you should IM him, and talk to him. He might be a really sweet guy, & he might just be a really good friend of your's if not a boyfriend. Give him a chance, and if you like him, then go for it. =) Personally, I think it's cute that he's interested. You should be happy.

ok. so there is this girl in my class. she is in 2 of my classes. p.e./spanish and band. i guess you could say she is my "friend" but she can be sooo annoying and rude sometimes. she gets mad over the litlest things. really stupid things too. and she always corrects you when you do or say something wrong. she gets mad at me more than any of our friends. A LOT of people find her very annoying. my friend today even said "so and so is getting sooo annoying. she getting on my last nerve!". but, when she gets mad at me for something stupid, i want to stand up for myself,and not just sit there and look at her. what can i say to her without hurting her feelings or being really rude?? thanks.

If she's gonna be rude to you, & hurt your feelings, why shouldn't you do the same back. There's such a thing as being nice, but there's also such a thing as being TOO nice.

When she says something rude to you, just say "You think everyone likes you when they really don't. How about you get over yourself because you're not better than anyone else." Or just tell her what you really think of her. If it's rude, who cares. She's rude to you, so she needs a taste of her own medicine right back.

Say a guy likes you, then he stops. Is it possible he could like you again sometime? And my sitaution specifically, we see eachother almost everyday, and I still like him, but he just likes me as a friend now. Should I maybe try spending some time apart, would that make him want to be around me/like me again? Thanks, I know it's a few questions!

It's possible, but you shouldn't change anything about yourself so it'll happen.

On Aim 6.0, what are those i's in circles to the right of someone's sn? Like what does this mean? I thought it meant that they changed their profile, but it doesnt because there was one next to my sn and i didnt even change it. Your help would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!

It's where you scroll over it & get their info instead of actually clicking their sns & doing it like you used to on the older versions.

okay i dont want to sound really perverted or like a joke or anything, but what DOES a guy's chode look like?! like where do their butt cheeks stop & their balls start? .. im just curious

they say im always dark hearted whats that?

You have a negative outlook on life, or you think in a negative way.

15/f. I have shoulder length, naturally wavy blonde hair. I usually take a shower at night, let dry overnight, and straighten completely on medium power in the morning. Occasionally, I take a shower in the morning, blow-dry on medium power, and straighten just a few pieces on low power. I always use leave-in conditioner after getting out of the shower. I was wondering, which combination of straightening/blow drying is healthier for my hair? Letting it dry overnight is easier, but I'm concerned about frying my hair the next morning.

Is your type of hair straightener the kind where you can straighten it while wet? Those work really well, and don't damage your hair as much. I used that kind the other day because my cousin as one, and my hair doesn't look damaged or fried at all. =)

Just blowdry & straighten it when you get out of the shower, I think that's easier than waking up early every morning to straighten your hair.

Does doing taebo help with your abdominals?

Yeah. With all the kicking & whatnot, it's bound to make some abs. =)

do guys have like an opening like girls do between their legs..? like what exactly is there?!! :]

Nope, just their butt.

i hate my life so much. just everything about it im always mad or sad never ever happy except with my friends which is only like every other 3 days. everyone of my friends have had a time they need all of us and now its me but nothing helps and im only happy with them. my parents dont let me express anything at all. so when i get mad its hell then im grounded. in my life everything bad happenes to me and my friends try to keep me out of it. they can tell out of everyone i am deppressed and what all happenes to me. so when i am with them we go scream till our lungs give out then im fine for a day then im mad enough to kill myself and they say ill end up suicidel. i have to wear pink and brights when im not with my friends. my mom thinks im deppressed and going gothic. no duh i have been for almost a year. and its not getting better they make it 10X worse. im crying my eyes out now. i canot get a therepist what else can i do.

Is there any way you can express yourself without your parents getting mad at you? If music is too much for them to handle, either by blasting it or playing it, then try & draw. Or write some poems. For whenever I get mad and feel like crying, I made a livejournal, and I vent there. Whenever you feel mad, or upset, try going for a walk or find a special place where you can just scream your pain away.

And don't kill yourself hunnie, you can do so much with life, and if you die, there is no coming back. You can do anything you wanna do, and no matter what, you're important. When you go to school, see the counselor there. It's free, and your parents don't have to know about it unless you want he/she to tell them. I hope I helped, and if you ever need to talk, you can IM me. My sn is on my column. I'm on AIM more than Yahoo. =)

at lunch yesterday my hards were dirty so i went to the bathroom for like a minute without permission. then this lunch lady (who everyone hates) came into the bathroom and was like "you didnt take a pass come here" blah blah i dont know whatelse said. so i was walking back to the lunchroom with her, and she gave me this blue slip (whoaa big deal lol) and she was like write your name down on this paper so i purpously wrote my name down sloppy so she can get pissed off, and she was like umm i cant read that erase it and write it better and i was like uh no thats how i write if you have a problem with it then too bad, and i kept talking back to her and she did the same to me so she forced me to write my name down better so i did, but i still made it sloppy and she told me to sit down. so today, she gave me the slip back for my parents to sign, my parents seriously won't give a crap about it, but should i have my mom write a note or something to her? or what should i do? LOL sorry this was confusing! thanks if you can helpp.

Yeah, have your mom write a note. I mean, she had a reason to yell at you, but she had no reason to be rude about it. All she had to do was to tell you to go back to the lunchroom.

Ok, today I met this kid that I thought was sooo cute. I didnt say anything more than hi to him. But he seems so nice and funny. Well the thing is he goes to a different school the next town over. I want to find out more about this boy and I know someone who goes to school with him but we dont really get along. Would it be weird for me to ask her about him and plus we barely know each other so would it be stalkerish?

P.S. I'm 15/f

I think it'd be pretty stalkerish. But ask her if he has a MySpace. Say you met him & you wanna get to know him. If she's not a bitch, she shouldn't mind.

can some one give me some real advice... thankss..

me and my boyfriend got in a HUGE FIGHT bascically he cheated on me but wont admit it. So to make along story short im planning on fighting the girl this friday . Anyway i never got in a fight before and i wanted some advice like lol what to do should i hit her in the eye like what lol i feel stupid but im not really a fighter.. haha advicee would be nice

I wouldn't fight her because for one, your boyfriend was half of it. It wasn't all just her. So you've got every right to be mad at him. I'm not gonna give you the advice to fight her, but if you want, you can IM me.

ok my x bf broke up with me like 2 months ago and i started talking to this other guy and i like him but like a week ago i met this really kool and nice HOT guy and i really like him AND I HAVE Been like talking to all off them and telling them that i like them in stuff and i dont kno who to choose im such a whore plaese dont leave rude comments that stupid

Well, you're asking if you're a whore, but I don't think you are. You're just talking to some guys. Now see, if you were to have sex with one of them, and & then give a handjob to another, and a blowjob to another, now that'd be whory. But, if you're not doing anything sexually with them, you're fine. Talking isn't whory at all.

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