Ok, my best friend in the entire world's brother has a crush on me. He asked my friend for my s/n but is kinda shy and hasnt IM'ed me. And then my friend told me that he was interested but this was way back in january. So about a month ago me and my friend went out to eat and he tagged along. So now I'm scared to go over her house. I'm afraid it will be awkward! Idk if I like him or not cus he's kind of a rebel and plus he's 17, almost 18, and i'm only 15, almost 16. What should I do?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? glacier_dancer answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 7:14 pm: It sounds like a huge mess, but asking yourself some questoins can help. First, how well do you know him? If you have not both talked and gotten to know each other, you may find out that you can't stand each other. Try to get to know him better if you feel like a stranger to him. Second, I don't think that age should be a problem, unless it's too akward for you. Plently of teenageres are a few years apart, and your ages should not be a huge problem, (but I don't know how strict your paretns would be about that)(unless you rebel...hehe) But anyways, you should definitly try to talk to him and try not to be shy about it, because you have to be serious to find out if he really likes you or not. Good luck! [ glacier_dancer's advice column | Ask glacier_dancer A Question ]
bsexebtrubwildbu answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 7:13 pm: Well, i've been through something like this before.. and i highly recommend just hanging out with your friend like you usually would.. dont be "weird" around him or something bad will happen just be chill with him.. but hang out with your friend as normal as usual.. and UNTIL he says something to you in person.. dont worry bout it.. but maybe try not to flirt with him.. idk if you do.. but def. avoid that.. and when he does tell you if he ever does.. let me know and we'll go from there.
christina answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 7:10 pm: Look at it this way:
Rebels can be either a good or a bad choice. If that's the kind of guy you go for, then it's good. But if it's not, then it can be good and bad. Change is good, but it can be bad too. Rebels are more opptimistic & more shy. They don't follow the rules, and they don't listen to authority. I'm not saying they're all like that, but most of them are.
I think you should IM him, and talk to him. He might be a really sweet guy, & he might just be a really good friend of your's if not a boyfriend. Give him a chance, and if you like him, then go for it. =) Personally, I think it's cute that he's interested. You should be happy. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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