Ok, today I met this kid that I thought was sooo cute. I didnt say anything more than hi to him. But he seems so nice and funny. Well the thing is he goes to a different school the next town over. I want to find out more about this boy and I know someone who goes to school with him but we dont really get along. Would it be weird for me to ask her about him and plus we barely know each other so would it be stalkerish?
well i think you should start talking to her a little bit so you guys get tight. cause i made a friend at a party once & i randomly emailed her one day and now we are INSEPARABLE.
after you get to know her & have hung out a couple times (yeah i do suggest hanging out with her a few times before you bring it up), i'd casually ask about him. & if she's like, "haha ooohhhhh you likeee himmm!" deny it. dude like you dont know how good of friends they are & if she tells him... well it might be a problem.
if you guys always had a rough relationship, just say sorry for whatever you did. i mean you never know when she can help you out. she can even hook you guys up! but dont always talk about him. cause you dont want her to think youre using her. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
christina answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 6:27 pm: I think it'd be pretty stalkerish. But ask her if he has a MySpace. Say you met him & you wanna get to know him. If she's not a bitch, she shouldn't mind. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
ibettershakethis answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 6:27 pm: if i were you, i would find his facebook if he has one (and i'm assuming you have one) or his myspace. if you find it, you should leave a cute, flirty message something like "remember me? ;)"
if you or he doesn't have a facebook/myspace, i would find out where he hangs out. if he plays basketball, go to one of his basketball games with a friend and pretend to run into him and pull it off real casually like you were there to see a friend on the opposing team but you just 'happened' to run into him. [ ibettershakethis's advice column | Ask ibettershakethis A Question ]
AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 6:25 pm: There's nothing wrong with that. I'm sure yall don't get along because you don't talk. But, if you start talking to her again - don't start off by talking about this guy & wanting to know more about him. Because it'll be obvious that the only reason you're talking to her again is because of this guy. It wouldn't be stalkerish, if you really like this guy then you've got to try & find him. Haha and that's the only way you'll be able to!
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