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she cheated on my friend
one of my friends ( a girl ) cheated on her boyfriend who is also my friend. she told me not to tell him but i feel like he needs to know. but i dont want her getting mad at me. what should i do? answer tonight would be great
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You are in a tough situation. You need to tell your friend that either she tells your other friend that she cheated, or you will tell. That will probobly make it easer for her to decide. Knowing this can make things a lot more complicted, and ask yourself if you would want your friend to tell you that your other friend is using your bf or not.
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Since they are both your friends and you would like to keep it that way, stay out of it.
Yes, he does need to know, but it isn't your place to tell him.
Encourage her to tell him before he hears it from somebody else.
Other than that, don't get in the middle of it. You don't agree with what she did, which is good, but it isn't your problem. It is something that is personal between them.
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Tell him,anyway!A bitch that cheats on her boy friend doesn't deserve any boy friend.And she doesn't have to find out anyway...just tell him to promise not to tell your friend that you told him.
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Hi! I know, just exactly how you're feeling, I've been there. Honestly, I wish I could tell you different, but by telling her boyfriend -- more than likely she's going to be mad at you. There's no escaping that, however, I do think you owe him that much to tell him he's being cheated on. It isn't the most pleasant thing to hear, but I'm sure he would want to know.
I really think you should talk to him, and tell him he's being cheated on. If it will make you feel a little better, you could tell your friend that if she doesn't go and tell him, then you're definitely going to because it isn't fair to him.
Good luck!
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It depends on how far she went. Just a kiss, or a short make-out isn't something you should let out. But anything over that and its important to let him know she doesn't have feelings for him right. Just... don't tell him up front. Like, don't let him think it was you unless he absolutely won't believe an anonymous message.
That okay? You can ignore some of that if you're sure. Just try to keep both friendships, don't lose them. Which was why I suggested the anonymous thing. So your girlfriend didn't... hate you.
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Personally, I think you shouldn't get involved. I mean, he deserves to know, yes, but he should hear it from her, not you.
Tell her that she needs to tell him, and if she doesn't, that's when you step in. Good luck!
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