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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
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actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
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i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
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Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do. (link)
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most people with low self-esteem do this a lot. i tend to still do this with my boyfriend & we've been together for 14 months.
apparently your boyfriend obviously likes you & thinks you are good enough for him, or he wouldn't be with you.
don't constantly sob over this & learn to boost up your self-confidence.
ask him(but only once) what he really thinks about you, and his answer should & most likely will make you feel a lot better
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My friend moved to a different state a few years ago and i finally found her, well i mean i looked her up on Myspace and i found her page i messanged her and asked to to be my friend and what i dont understand is she accepted it but she never replied to my message. in it i told her to call me and heave her my phone number and she never called or anything. i asumed she read the message besause im on her friends list now. why hasnt she contacted me bace at all? does she not care about me anymore. we were BEST friends and dont say someting like oh she just shy or something like that because i know her and she is deffanitly not shy to not say something back to me. weve known eachother sence first grade and she moved 4 years ago, we havent talked in i dont even know how long. please what should i do i miss her terribly. (link)
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she's more than likely made new friends & maybe was just really busy when you sent her that message.
just let her know how much you miss her & would really like to talk to her whenever she has the time, but don't bug her to the point of insanity :]
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This boy
and I had sex, yes i know your going to say it was a dumb idea, I GET THE POINT!
But I still like him alot but he has a girlfriend now
and he like makes fun of me and jokes and all that good stuff.
But then online , or alone hes a completly different person
and somedays when I look good or better than other days, he like talks to me more
and Im wondering if he still thinks about past times,or is still sexually attracted to me?
help! (link)
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he definately thinks about the past if he's still talking to you. but maybe he just doesn't want anyone to know what happened so he's mean to you in front of everyone.
he may be attracted to you, but then again, he may not be. most guys are really complicated & hard to understand
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theres a guy named russell, and i like him ALOT and he likes me too. well we have bin freinds with benefits 4 a while and i want him to ask me out, but he says that he doesent have time 4 1 right now, and that he dosent know when he can go out with me, but he said that if he could have a girlfreind then i would be his first choice. and the whole ordeal with him not having time to be with me, well asw long as i get to see him at school, which i do everyday, then that would be enough with me. well I want to be with em really badly, but whenever i mention about me and him
dating then he starts saying that if i want someone to go out with, then i should be with someone else and not be freinds with benefits cause he dosent want me to get too attatched and him feel bad cause he cant go out with me. i dont want to make it feel like im pressuring him, but how can i talk to him about us dating without getting him all weirded out? and remember i dont care if he cant see me outside of school very often, im fine with just seeing him at school, i just want to be with him. how do i make him understand that?
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if all he says is that all he wants is to be friends, then thats exactly what he means. you can't keep on pestering him about the same thing over & over again.
you could tell him though that you want to be with him & don't care if you guys wouldn't get to spend that much time together.
but being friends with benefits will more than likely lead nowhere good. & if he isn't willing to commit to something, you shouldn't be either.
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how far do you think an average 14/f should go w/ her bf? (link)
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don't do anything you would regret.
i lost my virginity at 13 & i wouldn't want to give you that advice.
just do what you think feels appropriate, not what makes you feel like you fit it.
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I'm freaking out about this. One of my friends, who is a guy, is smoking (I don't know how long he's been smoking, though). I found that out about one minute ago. He's way too young to be smoking and I'm really worried about him. Should I tell someone or what? (link)
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most of the time you can't really stop what others do & telling on them isn't going to be much of a help either.
i know this isn't the best idea, but you are just going to have to let him be, it's his life, & his decision to die of lung cancer & have yellow teeth.
but its also a good idea for you to tell him your opinion on this & see what he thinks about it all :]
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I am a virgin and I have not done anything with my boyfriend, but my mom is accusing me of having sex? Why would she think that and what can I do? Is she possibly jealous because I have a boyfriend and she doesnt so she is saying things? (link)
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my mom is the exact same way. she's single & i used to blame it on that, but believe it or not, she was just paranoid.
most of the time girls in serious relationships are pressured into sex, and your mom may think this true, towards you.
if your cherry has never been popped, then you can go to a gyno & they can help prove that you are still a virgin :]
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I am a female and have been with my boyfriend/fiancee' for about 2 years. I recently moved away to college and had to leave him behind because I have to live in a dorm my first year. I visit home all the time and spend most of my time with him and not my family. I love him, and he loves me, I know this I really do, but lately all he has been talking with me about is that he wants to have sex with other people, that love and sex are not connected in his mind and that he is sexually attracted to another person, but not in love with them. This makes sense, and I understand him, but I told him that if he wants to have sex with another person, we are not together because I am not going to be waiting at home while he has sex with another. He doesn't understand that it's cheating on a person when you sleep with another while dating. He doesn't think that he should choose one or the other, he wants both. He thinks that I don't love him and that I don't understand him/ want him the way he is. The thing is I don't want him to resent me if he decides that he wants to stay with me and not have sex with other people and that I want him to see my point of view on this. I want him to understand me because he doesn't get what it would be like, he keeps telling me that I could have sex with other people as long as I didn't get attached to them, which he says I would do. I keep telling him that I don't want anyone else, but he doesn't think that he would get hurt because of it, if I did in fact sleep with another person.
I really have no idea what to do. I want him to be happy, which would mean giving him up, but I want to be happy myself, which would mean we would stay together and he would "forget" that side of him. Any advice on this, any thoughts that you have would be nice. I really appreciate you all taking time to read and answer this. Thank you. (link)
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i hate to jump on the bandwagon here, and answer with the same thing everyone else has said, but it's true.
if you are in college, you should be in your 20's maybe younger? which would make him the same age, right? or around the same age. anyways, any 18-20some year old man, should know the difference between a sexual relationship & love. he should know that they are related & it is cheating, when you are in love with one person & yet sleep around with others.
what he is putting you through is wrong, and if he doesn't want to accept your opinions, then your best bet is to break up with him & let him hurt someone else, not you.
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i am a virgin but u an seriously thinking about having sex soon. on halloween i think might be the time. but my period will be somewhere right in there. so i was wondering if you have sex right before or right after you have your period, is it more likely you will get pregnet or anything? because i dont wanna get pregnet at all! but i think i am ready for sex. and if i am on my period on halloween can i still have sex and all? i know that might be nasty though. (link)
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you are pretty much fertile right before your period, no matter what anyone else is telling you, i promise this is the truth.
if you want to have sex, great. but please use protection & if you are seriously worried about it, double up. (use 2 condoms)
just be safe.
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omg i hate my parents not really they're making me do stuff i don't wanna do though like they're trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend and i don't want to do it i mean i think i might love him but i'm not sure. i mean i really care for this guy and they don't even care (link)
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parents usually have good reasons to why they want you to do some thing, even though now you may not understand what they are trying to do, just talk to them about how you truly feel about this guy & try to refresh their memory on what it felt like to be in love & how much you would hate to be without this guy. try to convince them to get to know this guy better before telling you to break up with him.
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well i have a problem. i'm a girl 15 years old if that helpes. and i'm like totally into gay boys. i always watch video clips on the internet and everything cause i think it's really hot. so what can i do to stop being like that cause my friend thinks it's weird and i know it is weird.
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i promise that there isn't anything wrong with that, i know tons of girls who like to watch guy-on-guy action. just be glad you aren't wanting to watch girl-on-girl ;)
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how old are you ? just wondering. (link)
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16 :]
it says so on my about over there
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OMG YOU ARE SOOOO HOT !!!
I WANT YOUR BODY; IT TURNS ME 0N!!!!!>OHH GOD> BONER!
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sex tonight?
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Me and my boyfriend have had sex, but I have never bled and I really don't believe he's popped my cherry... but my period's late. Could I possibly be pregnant even though he hasn't popped it? I'm a 16 year old girl... (link)
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your cherry doesn't have to be popped for you to be pregnant or not.
i've been having sex for over 3 years & no guy has ever popped my cherry.
mine was popped while i was running once;
but yes, there is a possibility that you could be pregnant. but before you start to worry, take a test - panic later
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Ive shved "down there" once before and both times it was fine at start but then once the hair started growing back it would hurt really bad. and wen i shaved i got red bumps alot and it hurt like a killer. And i used a new razor each time. Can anyone tell me what im doing wrong or anything i can do? (link)
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don't use soap, use shaving cream. and make sure that the razor you are using, is not the same one you shave your legs, etc. with.
you can't prevent razor burns, but you can wait a little while in between each shave, and it won't get as many bumps.
getting it waxed is probably the best advise i can give you
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ok im in the 8th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in the 5th grade but i havent been able to tell him. i get really nervous when he is around and everything. one reason why i havent told him is because he is VERY popular and im not really that popular. anyway im afraid that he will say no then tell all his friends. i dont know if he likes me or not. he smiles when i talk to him and i catch him looking at me alot but i dont know if that is enough to say he likes me. so what do i do??? i am soo confused and lost. please help. (link)
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i think these are always the worse situations.
the best thing to do, is become close friends with his best friend & hint around for him to ask this guy if he likes you.
or get one of you friends to ask him, but beg them not to be open about it.
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Shes an average person. their are two kids in my grade everyone in the school like loves. she tries to hang with them. then at the end of the day, when shse figures out their like not interested, she comes back to me. or when they say something she doesnt agree with, something along those lines. shes not cool, shes TYRING to be. and she comes back to me. my other friend notices too, so its not like me being delerious or something.im not gonna go up to her in person and be like, stop trying to be cool okay? then if shse was really mad shed tell them and they'd come to me and be like go hang out with her shes ur best friend! your making her sad! and its like!?!?!?!?!?!
they did that before we were in a fight and they said something along those lines
and if i ignore her shes like what did i do wrong oh my gosh i did nothing wrong u always get mad at me for nothing, etc. (link)
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sounds to me like you are in a sticky situation & honestly i hate predicaments like these.
the only thing you can really do sweetheart, is to ignore the girl & yes she will bugg the snot out of you, but eventually she will get the idea of what you are trying to do.
but if you don't want to ignore her, then you are going to have to tell her to leave you alone, it's one or the other,
good luck =]
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ok so me and this one girl have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.. we became best friends like..3 years ago, last year we were really close. but this year i feel like she doesnt care anymore.. yeah theres the ocassional hang out && movie.. but thats pretty much it.. last year we would do something every weekend...
so my question is.. does she still care? or is it just me being paranoid? (link)
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of course she still cares, why wouldn't she?
but most of the time, two people that have been friends for a really long time, tend to get tired of eachother more easily & maybe thats whats wrong with her? maybe she's just wanting to make some new friends, and thats probably what you should try & do also.
but still talk to her, and try to make as many plans with her as possible.
me & my best friend of 7-8 years get sick of eachother almost everyday, but somehow she & i still put up with one another, mainly because we miss eachother & feel weird without talking to one another and after a while your friend will start to miss you also.
i wish you the best of luck
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Well I am 15 and in highschool. I've been with my boyfriend a little over 7 months. In the way beginning when we first met... we had minni crushes on eachother...and when we were about to get closer a girl got in between and he liked her... that didn't work out so it was about us again. Then another girl came in between and he actually went out with her. When that didn't work out it was about us again. I don't know why i kept going back to him but it ended up with us going out. I felt like a rebound for the longest time but i just really liked him. Now he tells me how he can never be attracted to anyone and he truly loves me. He thinks we will actually get married and what not. I on the other hand don't think so we are only in highschool. I'm just confused about this whole thing...Was I sprt of a rebound? Also I read his texts once in awhile when i know i shouldnt but hes always texting girls... and he goes far away on church retreats and camp and what not and i fear that girls are all over him. He talks good to these girls like he misses them and what not. Whats going on here in our relationship? (link)
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wow this sounds exactly like a problem with a guy i had & actually i was a year younger than you.
sometimes certain guys have this, almost mesmorizing effect on us. its like he knows exactly what to say, and when to say it. so he makes you want to keep going back to him.
me & this guy dated for 10 months, and he was a big flirt behind my back. i really loved him, i even gave him my virginity.
then one month he went away to football camp & came back as a different person, he never really called me. so i got brave & went out one night & actually met a great guy. well that guy i met went to the movies one night & just happened to see my current boyfriend out with another girl. & come to find out, that wasn't the first time he had cheated on me.
i was heartbroken & i don't want you to be either.
now i'm not saying that this guy is just like my ex boyfriend, but i am saying that a lot of guys are the same, and if he's already showing signs of cheating on you, then he probably is cheating on you.
if you feel like you don't love him, don't tell him you do.
& if you feel like you could live without him, then you probably can.
just ask yourself the same question i asked myself;
is it the guy you love, or the relationship you two have?
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Ok well i really like this guy (NEW BOYFRIEND) and i think hes cute... well hes kind of a big guy...hes like 6'2 probably like 250 pounds...and im like 5'2 100 pounds...so like idk bout the hole sex thing like...ive never had sex with a guy that much bigger than me before and im kind of wondering what that is gonna be like. Have any ideas on what to expect or like any kind of advice? (link)
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you shouldn't be planning on already having sex with a guy you barely know? don't have sex until you are truly ready & feel like you can trust the person.
but just because the guy is big, does not mean that his penis is too. my best advice is for you to be on top & him to be gentle(if he is big)
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