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sexually attracted
This boy
and I had sex, yes i know your going to say it was a dumb idea, I GET THE POINT!
But I still like him alot but he has a girlfriend now
and he like makes fun of me and jokes and all that good stuff.
But then online , or alone hes a completly different person
and somedays when I look good or better than other days, he like talks to me more
and Im wondering if he still thinks about past times,or is still sexually attracted to me?
help!
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Try talking to him and tell him how you feel. If you dont, he will still keep this up not knowing how you feel in the inside. He might still have a heart for you, but the question is, does he love you as much as you love him. The point is "JUST TALK TO HIM" and i dont mean that in a mean way.
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I'm sure he's still sexually attracted to you... you're a girl, he's a guy, that's how sexual attraction works. But that's irrelevant... as long as he's got a girlfriend you shouldn't be thinking about this at all. His girlfriend is someone he's willing to spend more time with, get to know better, treat nicely, take on dates, whatever, and you're not, as far as he's concerned. As long as he's not thinking about you on that girlfriend level, he's not worth considering as anything more than a friend.
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i know that this might not be what you want to hear but.. he obviously doesnt like you .. i mean, hes going out with someone else, hes mean to you, and he talks to you more when you look better. of course he thinks of what happened, but hes only attracted to you body..in my opinion. you should be with someone who treats you well. alone and with other people.
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It sounds to me like he's definetely still thinking of all those past times and everything, which could be the cause of all the rudeness and jokes about you in school and everything.
Since he has a girlfriend, obviously, he likes her, and he doesn't want you or anybody else thinking probably that he might like someone else or is thinking of them, so what does a person do to someone they like and want nobody knowing about it? The opposite ; being a jerk to them. But since nobody's around on the internet, obviously he's not going to be rude to you then cause he has no reason to prove to anybody he doesn't like you then.
Even though if it does turn out that way that he likes you, even though you like him, don't have sex with him again or hook up with him in anyway if he has a girlfriend ( I'm not saying you're GOING to, I'm just saying ). Just think of it in her shoes and how hurt you'd feel if somebody did that to you?
So just wait and see what happens, and maybe after awhile, let him know you still think of past times and still really like him, and ask him how he feels. If he doesn't like you that way, it's his loss, and just tell him you hope you two can remain friends then. But if he does, that's great! But if you two are going to get togehter then, make sure he's definetely broken up with his girlfriend first!
I hope I helped.
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he definately thinks about the past if he's still talking to you. but maybe he just doesn't want anyone to know what happened so he's mean to you in front of everyone.
he may be attracted to you, but then again, he may not be. most guys are really complicated & hard to understand
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