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I'm going to a car show tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's suppose to be 72 degrees. I don't know what to wear, or how I should wear my hair(it's right below shoulder length)
Please help.

you could wear jeans and a cute shirt? or a skirt with a cute shirt and a cute sweater/jacket over it! and just wear your hair down or maybe in a half pony tail? what ever youd feel most comfurtable in!!

michelle♥

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If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's!

thats exactly what happend to my cat! i took him to the doctor and he gave me this medicine and it went away after about two days! it sounded sorta like a cough when he did it..take her to the vet asap!

michelle♥

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hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx

take a shower in the morning and then style your hair with gel..its the fastest way and easyest! if you only have 5-10 mins to actually get up dressed do your hair and go to school theeen you needa work somethin else out cause thats not gunna work haha but keep your hair how it is dont chop it off like everyone else is saying haha but try what i said! hope i helped

michelle♥

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ok..I have scoliosis and my mom says doing pilates or yoga would help..would that really work?

nope..it wont..i have scoliosis too and my doctor said mine wasnt that bad so i just have to wait until i get older and grow taller. im not sure how bad yours is but if its that bad your doctor would have told you to wear a brace! ask your doctor though if you think it might. but im 89% possitive it wont! hope i helped

michelle♥

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you spelled bulemia wrong infintile, but now onto the actual question. I feel used, i feel abused, it feels so wrong, yet untouchable... my friend and i for the past all of our lives have been turning one innocent soul for the worst after another, and now i feel like being nice, but how?
no one wll believe it's genuine...
on, and don't think i picked you special, i just saw your name first.

thank you,

M.P.

Alright... 1. Dont call me infantile..and dont worry about how other people spell shit. If its skrews them over thats there problem not yours. 2. You feel used and abused when your skrewing with other people..? I dont get it. 3.You shouldn't have done that in the first place. Then you wouldn't have a problem with being nice. 4.I think this is all fake. and 5.I dont feel special cause you picked me. Dont worry.


Oh and another little tip..Before you ask someone a question or ask them a question at all, don't point something out and call them an imature child...No point in doing that because your not going to get your answer. At least not from me. Oh and you spelt infantile wrong...So i suggest you shut your mouth before you insult people and learn how to spell before you tell someone how to spell...

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my cats name is jack...and he drools...alot...is that normal?

no not for a cat...take him/her into the vet asap to see whats wrong..i have two cats so yea. just take him/her in to be sure anyways cause you dont want to wait and then have your cat pass on from what ever it has.. so juss to make sure take it in! good luck..hope i helped

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hey how do you get those little things that you can stick on your AIM profile for people to see your advice cloumn, live jouranl, and my space....i will rate high if u help me......
thanks

you copy the link then you right click on the spot you want it in..then you put your mouse over insert, click on hyperlink, add your link then add what you want it to say in the spot that says "hyper link text" and click ok..and there you go lol hope that made sence!

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I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know

You could make flyers and go around to each house and give them one with all the info on it..that would probibly be your best chance! or you could put an add in the paper if they all get the paper...try the 1st one 1st though! hope i helped

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i was just wondering what brand of condoms are really good and safe (i kno theyre all safe but which brand is better??) thanks!!

umm..durex or trojen..either one..just be careful with what ever your doin cause no condom is 100% possitive frome keeping someone from getting pregnant! but be safe and have fun :o) ♥

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hey i was wondering if you knew anything that works really good for acne that will make it go away fast!! thanks!!

hey, some good acne medicenes are proactive..which you have to be really strict with meaning u have to follow the directions EXACTLY to get the results fast..cause it really does work..and also theres this stuff called "clean & clear" by johnson & johnson which works really good also! try those out and see if it works! they worked for me! hope i helped! ♥

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is it true that chocolate makes you break out??? tell me plz! i dont know if to give up chocolate to look better or not!! -i RaTe HiGh-

Chocolates actually good for you. Try not eating it for a while to see if you skin starts to clear up. And if it does, give up choclate or just dont eat it as much. But if your skin is the same it could be something else making you break out. Like soda. Soda makes me break out so i dont drink it as much and my skins way better! So just try things out and see what happens! Hope i helped.

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I've gotten a couple ridiculous questions in my inbox lately- disgusting questions and some that, i just don't have any idea what to say to them. but i feel bad just not answering these people. does anyone else have this problem?

Well it might be some of your friends just playing tricks on you cause thats what happend to me. But if your sure its not your friends then theres nothing you can do about it. If the question makes you feel uncomfurtable just dont answer it. Its not mean dont worry. Theyll just go ask someone else! And if its rediculously stupid and doenst even sound like a real question tell them that. Cause some people on her are just fakers who like to ask dumb questions..LoL sorry i didnt really help!

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Am I the only one that believes people should type correctly when asking a question? Is there some way to create something that would change words that were "Chatspeak" to English?
For example:

there is dis boi, i relli relli like him! wat do i do?

Would become:

There is this boy, I really, really, like him! What do I do?

I know that is a dumb question to start with, but it's an example. I don't know how to create a program that would change the "fake" words into "real" words.. if you know, and would share, you rock!

Well, im not gunna "rock" cause some people like the way they talk. What if the way you typed wasn't normal and people wanted to change it? How would you react. Probibly be pissed right? Don't worry about it. And if it bothers you so much dont go on the internet anymore. Or find some "im perfect" person site and go talk on there. No offence...

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i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice!

Of corse its normal!! The first couple of years you have your period will be up and down...Dont worry about it hun! But if your really worried talk to your mom and go to the doctor! But i really think your fine!

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

Uhm..Well it doesn't matter...your only 6 years apart..It's not that big of a deal. And your both adults. And about the college thing. Its not like your in high school. So what if hes already graduated and your still in it. Or if its the other way around w/e...You get the point. But age really doesnt matter unless your like 10 years apart thats just weird. Anyways..Hope i helped

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what is durex? please dont delete this i need to know.

Its a type of condom

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i am SO ugly. i know most people think they're ugly when they aren't, but i AM. i've been called ugly before, i've seen mirrors (unforunately), and they look horrible lol! how can i sort myself out so i can look pretty? my hair is kinda frizzy, i've tried SO many products on it; frizz ease, pantene pro-v, andy collinge, herbal essences, sun silk.. and loads more. anyway, none of them prevented frizz or 'flyaway' hair. i have straighteners that aren't really all that good, worth about 60 quid. i want some ghds but i'd have to wait until like august to get them, for my birthday (unless it's worth spending my bank account on them?). and then there's the fact that i don't wear make-up. i haven't got a clue how to put it on. i don't even wear stuff like lipgloss, i'd probably get it all over the place, and if i tried eyeliner/mascara i'd end up poking my eye out! lol! so anyway i'm clueless when it comes to make-up, any tips on how to use it/the best make up to buy would be so helpful! i've worn lipgloss before, but it just feels so.. greasy, and uncomfortable, it was from the body shop i think.. anyway, if you can help me look pretty instead of an ugly duckling, i'll be really grateful. thankyou!! xo

Hey hun! Well im going to give you a brief example of stuff but you should IM me or ask me directly so i can tell you more! Cuz makeup and hair are like my fav. things to talk about! haha ok for the hair. Yours is frizzy? SO IS MINE BABE haha it sux..So what i do is i use Garnier Fructis Shampoo and Conditioner! They work so good! And after that i dry my hair then when its all dry i put it into sections and straiten it (IM me on aim *i x3 yoOuxO*, yahoo *puma_gurly039*, or MSN *Lodiding@lodinet.com* or ask me directly for a better understanding of what im talking about!) and for the makeup start out with mascara...cuz people will think your like wanting attention if you wear mascara eyeliner and eyeshadow etc...So practice putting on mascara slowly and wear it for a while then maybe add a light skin tone shadow then practice eye liner...(IM me on aim *i x3 yoOuxO*, yahoo *puma_gurly039*, or MSN *Lodiding@lodinet.com* or ask me directly for a better understanding of what im talking about!) But yea ask me and ill help you out more! Im really looking forward to helping yuh! and P.S. IM SURE YOUR GORGEOUS!!!

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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m

Omg thats so awsome! You rarely..RARELY hear a guy say that! That is so awsome! i respect you so much for that! What ever you do DONT let your mind change!! ♥

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i rate 5's

sorry if this gets long..

Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me!

Hey well...I dont wanna say talk to them cause no one wants to talk to there gardians but its the best you can do! Cause maybe if you say how you feel it will tug at them inside and maybe theyll feel horible about what they did. Or you can do something behind there back and actually HAVE them find out then tell them that it was all fake just to show that thats whats going to happen if they dont let u do something! Sorry i didnt really help...it was just a thought :o/

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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!!

Omg i think you should TOTALLY go out with him..So what if people think its stupid if you two are going out..Thats pritty imature on there part...Theres nuthing wrong with going out with a 7th grader if your an 8th grader...My friend went out with her boyfriend for 1 year or longer and she was in 8th grade and he was in 7th...Love should come before peoples opinions. If you really like/love someone it shouldnt matter what others think! So i think you should go for it!!

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