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hey.. i gott this friend:we'll call her marge lol.. that iv'e had since kindergarden. and then i have this other friend: we'll call her ernest, that iv'e had since 1rst grade. i know them both so good that like there my sisters.. but now they are ditching me for each other one even promised to hang out with me on my birthday...but ditched me for ernest. even tho they talk about each other. ..what the hell am i supposed to dO?? i really hope you'll help me!!

Hey!! I think you need to sit them both down and talk to them. Thats along time to have a friendship, I mean you can't just throw that all down the drain. Tell them how you feel. Just be like "We've all known each other for a long time now, but I feel left out, like you two are ditching me for each other, and you guys also promised to hang out with my on my birthday and you guys didn't hang out with me, that really hurt me, why are you guys doing that to me? Did I do something?" Just tell them how you feel about this situation. Hope this helps good luck hun! If you still need help just post a message in my inbox!!

xoxo Kourtney

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i really like emo music and i wanna know some more bands & awesome songs. does anyone know any good emo bands?

Simple Plan - Perfect,
Good Charlotte - Hold on,
Matchbook Romance - Promise,
matchbook romance - your stories my alibis,
Matchbook Romance farewell to friends,
New Found Glory - I Don't Wanna Know,
Story of the Year - Anthem of our Dying Day,
Story of the Year - Until the day I die,
the Ataris - Bad Case of Broken Heart,
The All-American Rejects - My Paper Heart,
Dashboard Confessional - Hands Down.
AND Anything by Yellowcard and Taking Back Sunday
*Hope those are good*

xoxo Kourtney

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what are some really good quote sites

Go here, they have tons of quotes!! And then they have links for more quotes!
http://hellz-angelz.cjb.net/
xoxo Kourtney

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My friends cousin is so hott and i really like him but sadly he has a girlfriend. I am really happy for them but i wish that there was some way i had a chance. We get along and everything what can i do to maybe someday have a chance with him?

Don't get in the relationship, because I mean you wouldn't want anyone in your relationship would you? But, all I can say is wait til they break up. But, for now just flirt with him and see if he flirts back with you. And when they do break up, try talking to him and being like "I've wanted to tell you this for awhile, but you had a girlfriend, so I kept it to myself, but I like you and I just want to know if me and you have a chance together." Just say something like that when they DO break up. Good luck hun!!

xoxo Kourtney

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Okay I'm 14 and a girl and this guy friend of mine that i liked told me he thinks im hot and i told him hes hot and then later that week i told him i liked him... he didnt say anything... so am i just supposed to forget it or what... would appreciate guys advice on this one too!!!

Boys Boys Boys.. they're can be so mean sometimes. I think you should mention it again. He may be afraid if you two go out that it'll ruin your friendship or something. So, I would try talking to him if I was you. Just be like "I told you before, but you didn't respond, and I like you and I just want to know if you like me too." Just say something like that and just be like "If you do like me, I just want you to know, whatever happens between us we'll always be friends." Just tell him how you feel. Hope this helps!! Good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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Im really tiny and skinny. Im like 5'0 and 82 pounds, and im 14 years old. When im at skool then guys who actually are really hott pick me up and flip me upside down. it kinda bugs me how they just flip me thru the air cuz alot of times all my stuff goes flying ect. i told my friends that it bugs me and there just like "its just cuz they think ut hott, ur lucky u get all the attention from them". what should i do?
thanx!!
lil sexy kaylie!

Just tell them how you feel, just be like "I don't appreciate it when you guys pick me up and flip me over, ALL my stuff goes everywhere. It really bugs me that you guys do that, just because I'm small and you guys are bigger than me doesn't mean you guys can do that to me." Just tell them how you feel. They should respect you for that. Hope this helps. If you still need help just leave a message in my inbox! Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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I like this guy. We are very close, pretty much bestfriends. Well I just wanna know if he has any of these same feelings. I would ask him but thats just not how we are....he would probably think I was a freak or something. And If i got someone else to ask he wouldn't tell the truth I don't think. I mean I used to think he liked me cause he would be flirty and touch me alot and things but now I don't know cause he doesn't really do that anymore. Well I hope this can all make sense...please write back if you have any adVicE!~!

Well I would write him a note and tell him how you feel and just be like "You might not believe me or anything and I know we're close and all, but I like you and I didn't know how else to tell, so I decided to write a note to you, but basically I just want to know how you feel about me." Just say something like that. If you need help writting it, just tell me I'll be glad to help. Hope this works and good luck hun!!

xoxo Kourtney

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What is a hand job exactly?

A handjob is when you put your hand on the guys dick and you go up and down either slowly or fast.

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ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)

Just be honest just be like "I'm not going to give you the speech about lets not ruin our friendship or anything because I'm sure you don't want to hear that, but, I just don't like you like that, I'm really sorry, I just don't see you like you see me like that." Just say something like that, something nice and not mean so you don't break his heart lol. Hope this helps and Good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.

Hey! I think you should just sit him down and talk to him about it and just be like "I heard someone say... that you didn't like something about me...and I just wanted to know what you didn't like about me because then I can change that so it won't bother you." Just say something like that just talk to him about it. Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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hey what are the best clothes for back to school like the latest fashions

Depends on what you like. You can try like Abercrombie and Fitch, Hollister, American Eagle, Forever 21, Bebe, Express, Aeropostale, Gap, Wet Seal, Rave, etc. Hope those help!!! Have fun shopping!!

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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

Thats what sucks in relationships, they want you to do stuff, and you're like noooooooo!!! lol. Its so tough huh? But, if you're not ready, then don't do it. No one can force yourself to do it, not even your boyfriend. I mean if you really not ready, you're only 13 anyways, then don't do it. If your boyfriend likes you and cares about you, he'll wait til you're ready! And if he does expect it, just be like "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready to do that kind of stuff yet, once I am, we can do that kind of stuff." Just say something like that. Hope this helps!

xoxo Kourtney

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ive got this guy and i want him to know i like him....w/ out telling him! hehe if you have an idea please lemme know....«3 thanks a million

You can try flirting with him, laugh, smile, give him that look (like the flirty look), touch him (like playful hit), stuff like that. But, if that doesn't work, because you know how guys are stubborn lol, try writting him a letter (don't be scared please lol) because you don't have to look at him that way lol. Just be like "I've tried giving you hints that I liked you, but you seem to not of noticed, but I've been starting to like you and I want to know if you liked me too." Just say something like that. Hope this helps and good luck hun!! If you still need help just leave a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~

I don't think its really a big deal on how old the guy is, age is just a number.. and a year or two isn't really a big deal. My dad is 3 years older than my mom. I mean like you said, don't worry about what other people think, you like him and he likes you and you know you're not a whore and your friends know you're not a whore too. Who cares what other people think, its your relationship not theres! So, I wouldn't worry about it.

xoxo Kourtney

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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!!

1.) Get on the computer (talk to friends, look at clothes, play games, etc.)
2.) Talk on the phone
3.) Lay out and get a tan
4.) Rearrange your room
5.) Invite people over
6.) Watch a movie
7.) Workout/take a walk
8.) Cook
9.) Give people advice on here (become a member)
10.) Clean the house (you can make some $$$)

Hope that helps =D

xoxo Kourtney

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

I don't think its crazy, but I wouldn't depend my life on him. I mean if you know its really him, I would trust him a lot and call him like my best friend, but don't make this kid you're everything, you might get hurt at the end.

xoxo Kourtney

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hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?

~diamond~ 17

Hey! Relationships hit bumpy roads sometimes. That really sucks when you have to go through it, but its not going to be a perfect relationship, I mean even married people fight, but have you ever watched what your parents do? Most parents, they talk about it and get threw it. I dont' know how your boyfriend is, but if he's yelling, try to be the calm one in the situation, because yelling makes the situation worse. But, just try talking to him and telling him how you feel, just be like "I love you and you know that, but I'm so sick of fighting, we don't need to be fighting anymore, I mean I know we'll fight every so often, but I don't want to keep fighting like we are..." Just say something like that. I hope this helps and good luck!

xoxo Kourtney

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I am wondering....This is from a song and I can't remember which song or who it is by. If you have any idea...please tell me! Thanks!!
*Boom boom boom..i want you in my room....so we can be together.....together in my room...*(main chorus)

Venga Boys - Boom Boom I want you in my room

If you ever need help, just go to www.songlyrics.com
and then type in the lyrics and it should pop up =D

xoxo Kourtney

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what's good make-up that i can wear 4 going back to school?

It depends on your color skin. I would buy maybelline. Buy foundation, eyeshadow, lipgloss, some blush if you want, mascara, and eyeliner. If your are tan, by lighter eyeshadow, or if your light skin, by darker eyeshadow. I wear like natural eyeshadow that has a sparkle to it I guess you can say. Eyeliner you can get Wet n Wild for like 99 cents, it works good though. If you don't want to wear blush, you can get a bronzer, makes your face glow and look tan. Hope this helps, if you still need help just post a message in my inbox! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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I have this friend who i used to talk to everyday and stayed up until 3 in the morning talkin to her on the phone, but now days it seems like we've moved apart or are not as close as we once were! We still talk but how can i tell whats going on between us? I'll rate high if its good advice!!!

You should call her up or something and just tell her how you feel about this situation. Maybe you guys have been busy or something. But when you call her up, just be like "What happened to us? We use to talk til like 3 in the morning!! I really miss that." Just say something ilke that and just how you feel and talk about it. Hope this helps! Good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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