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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ whats do most guys perfer a shaved or hairy vagina? im 17 very curious
Uhm, well I'm not a guy, but I CAN tell you that *MOST* guys pRefeR shaved giRls! I don't know a s.i.n.g.l.e guy that pRefeRs it with haiR!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ HEY! Ok here is my PrObLeM!!! Im 17 almost 18 now but when i was like in 15 a really rude kid picked on me told me i was ugly n fat and stuff, and to most people its like Fuck him whatever! haha But to me it really HURT! Like to this day i have ZEROOOO self confidence! And last night i went out and met some of my boyfriends friends and their girlfriends! and i was just really DEPRESSED! they were these tan, skinny, BEAUTIful girls that had low cute shirts on, that showed all theie stomach, and low jeans and stuff and i just wanted to cry! like i dont think im UGLY, but i cant feel good about myself around people...like idont wanna be around people who in my eyes are perfect because then i concentrate on all my flaws, and see how perfet they are....My boyfriend reassures me all the time how pretty and stuff i am but i just cant feel or see it and i dont know what to do....do you have any advice, it would be great! xoxo
Here are some sites with my pictures....

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sTyLiNbArBiEGuRl

www.picturetrail.com/tommiegurlie23

(those are old though haha)
xoxo thanks so much for your time!
*~M~*
Ugh!! Aww! =[ I went to youR PictuRe TRail site... and YOU made me feel bad!! I'm jealous! See.. I *WISH* I looked as pRettie as you do, honestly. I think you aRe beautiful!! In all of youR pictuRes you look absolutely stunning; no lie! You and youR boyfRiend look veRy happie togetheR. And I know how you feel... when you say you see someone who YOU believe is pRettieR than you.. and it makes you feel like cRap; you just feel like less of a peRson, ya know?? It's a hoRRible feeling; I've been theRe. To be honest, I'm not shoRe what to tell you to do. All I can do is ReassuRe you that you ARE INDEED beautiful! I know sometimes it may be easieR said than done... but just be confident!! Confidence is SUPER SEXY and shows B.I.G.T.I.M.E! And this pRobably isn't the nicest way to look at it, but whateveR woRks Right.... always say to youRself... that no matteR how bad it is oR gets.. it could ALWAYS be get woRse, and believe it oR not.. theRe is ALWAYS someone out theRe who DOES have it woRse!!! I know it sounds coRny and typical, but don't dwell on little things such as appeaRance, just love youRself and appReciate what you've got!! I'm soRRie I couldn't be moRe of a help!! HoweveR, I *DO* wish you the veRy best!! Thanks so much foR the question, feel fRee to come back if you eveR need anything else. Take caRe!! Also, I've added you to my "FavoRite Columnist" List.. I hope you don't mind?? =D

♥[?]♥ I love my boyfriend very much, but I spend 90 percent of my time critiquing his driving skills when I am in the car with him. I don't do this with anyone else. When I drive, I would get horribly mad if he did this, but he is an angel. I do drive occasionally, and he really isn't that bad of a driver. So other than giving up my chauffeur, what else can I do to focus on something besides badgering him like a freak?
TRy Reading otheR people's license plates? Haha.. this always enteRtains me.. then I wondeR what they could possibly be doing in ARizona [my state], when they live in Michigan, ya know?? I'm not shoRe if this will help, but it's woRth a shot?? Take caRe!! =D

♥[?]♥ umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx
You'Re not. It may seem like it's taking foReveR.. but you'll get up theRe eventually. GiRls gRow til they'Re about 18 oR so. Give it some time.. unfoRtunately theRe's nothing you can do but wait it out, ya know? HoweveR.. theRe;s always padded bRas... theRe's totally no shame in that!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I'm going into my senior year of high school and I haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year. (its by choice) But my question is
I think it's peRfectly fine to hold a Relationship in youR SenioR yeaR. If you want it baddly enough... you can definitely make it woRk! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ hey i need someone's help uploading a picture, i don't know how to make it smaller so if someone can help i'd appreciate it
Copy and paste the image onto Window's Classic Paint. Then go to IMAGE... STRETCH/SKEW, and gRadually make the pictuRe smalleR be loweRing the peRcentage. Check to see if it fits eveRy tRy oR so.. that way you don't make it smalleR than it has to be!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D
You should be honest -- if you didn't smoke it.. you didn't smoke it. Just tell him you weRe aRound some fRiends who weRe, but you know betteR than that... I hope eveRything woRks out!

♥[?]♥ Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal)
Uhm, well.. the only ones I know of aw http://www.xanga.com -OR- http://www.livejournal.com -OR- http://www.deadjournal.com I know you didn't want Xanga and Live JouRnal, but I gave ya all I got. SoRRie I can't be of moRe help!! Goodluck!!

♥[?]♥ ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help
OMG!! Don't EVER be afRaid to say no.. EVER!! If this is the way you feel with this guy.. it's best to just leave him. I know you caRe foR him and it'll huRt to leave him.. but once it hits a point like this.. it's a point of no RetuRn... cancel youR plans with him tonight, and bReak things off completely. It's in youR best inteRest, and you need to do what's best foR YOU! Please, use some sense, DeaR! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?
It kind of seems like you'Re too picky. Not eveRyone is peRfect; you have to give people a chance. HoweveR, don't settle foR much LESS THAN peRfect... just be Realistic. Keep youR head up, and neveR give up the seaRch!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ all my life i've bin mostely put down about the way i look even if it wasent intentional...so now that i'm older (15) i am starting to get compliments from ppl(guys) but not many but even so i cant take them i always say something that disses myself and i'm staring to think maybe i do look good but when i look in the mirror i just see ugly and its bugs....i'm thinking maybe i just need a guys that will finaly treat me right so i might feel better but i'm not sure. maybe if that happens i will change cuz all the guys i've ever dated put me down in some way or another so that might have something to do with it but i dunno if you can help this problem i am saying THANK YOU!
You shouldn't tuRn down otheR people's compliments. Even if you feel they'Re untRue... it's veRy insulting to the peRson SAYING them. Just be confident.. confidence is sexy and shows BIG TIME!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ i need a new sn but i can't think of one...i am a tall girl and i like o play basketball....can anyone give me an idea?
Uhm, how 'bout: x All x StaR x -OR- SlamDuNkiN 3x -OR- BballBRaT -OR- XxHighHoPesxX I don't know -- I don't suppose any of these weRe good. Basketball just isn't my thing. SoRRie I couldn't have been moRe help!! I wish you the best of luck though!! =D

♥[?]♥ okay so when me and mah gurls get togetha they always invite their boy-friends but ya c im single and so when we go to a movie or sumthing they all tell me to invite a guy i like. so i say to my self 'i knoe that their all gonna b making out and i don't wanna be the only one not make-out' so i try to think of some guys that would make out with me at the movies and the onle one i can think of are the mayjor playas! and so then we go togetha and i start getting feeling twords him and then like usual the kick ya ta the curb after that day... i like when we make out at the theater but how can i find a guy who still likes to make out but is still genuin and sincere?
Well I can tell you to definitely avoid the "playaz". What's the point in going with them? Yeah... you have someone to make out with so you don't feel left out, but you'Re making out with no solid feeling behind it. No one says you HAVE TO make out at the movies, oR even go with a guy. I know if you go alone and youR fRiends bRing theiR boyfRiend's it'll be awkwaRd foR you, so just invite some nice boy... one who doesn't alReady have a bad Reputation.. who would be fine just being with you and actually WATCHING the film!! I know theRe a lot of jeRks out theRe... but in the same token.. theRe actually IS a lot of good guys. I'm shoRe theRe must be at least a few good ones in some of youR classes.... why not appRoach them?? And don't be afRaid to speak out duRing class... eveRyone notices THIS peRson, and being noticed isn't always a bad thing. TRy saying hello to fellow classmates as you pass them in the hallway. And smile... smiling is always good! Also, it wouldn't be a bad idea to leave youR pResentable... that way any lucky man who decides that he IS going to appRoach you.. CAN!! Keep youR head up.. you'll find someone! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ ive been dating a guy for six months, and im totally in love beyond belief. so was he. he went to camp and met a new girl that he likes and she likes him. he says he loves me. but notas much as before. he also said hes going on vacation to decide who hes going to choose. he mentioned as well, that if we got back together, he might do this again. omg, what should i do? just when i thought i was over him, i had a dream abouthim. im so lost
One of my favoRie quotes is : "If you 'love' two, you don't 'love' eitheR one enough". He neveR loved you. How much could he have possibly loved you if he could so easily Run off and be with some ho?? Not veRy much, obviously. I know that he didn't love you, because when you'Re in love... youR paRtneR is supposed to come along and sweep you off youR feet. And I'm not saying this was youR fault, but he shouldn't HAVE TO find some otheR giRl, because no one else should even come CLOSE to COMPARING!! What should you do? You should definitely move on! I know it's easieR said than done, but you know what helps me? I'm not shoRe what type of music ya dig, but I always blast some female empoweRing music; such as : Madonna, ChRistina AguileRa, Mandy MooRe, Michelle BRanch, Janet Jackson, P!nk, Destiny's Child, BRitney SpeaRs and so on. Also, the VERY best way to get oveR someone is to find a new infatuation, so just keep youR head up and don't look back; you'll be much betteR off. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot
[You should have left theiR useRname.] But I know whatcha mean... some of these people aRe *DEFINITELY* heRe foR allll the wRong Reasons, and they should have theiR accounts deleted... but AdvicenatoRs is woRkin' on it.

♥[?]♥ I met this guy over the summer and we have been going out for about a month or so. I thought it was just a summer 'fling' or romance but I now have strong feelings for him. We don't live that close and we go to different schools. We really want to stay together after summer, but I'm not sure it will happen. Can a summer fling actually last into the fall or even longer?
If you both want it bad enough.. it is DEFINITELY possible!!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works??
I've heaRd of it! My fRiend tRied it, and she DID lose some weight, howeveR.. it's not healthy foR you...

♥[?]♥ I usually buy my makeup from somewhere like Target, or the drug store or whatever...well...I wanna get some nice expensive makeup that will last and be realllllyyy good...does anyone have some advice on good makeup to get from a deparment store that is not too expensive.
Well.. it *doesn't* have to be expensive oR fRom a DepaRtment stoRe to be good make up, foR one thing.. but.... foR foundation, I use 'CoveRgiRl's' "clean makeup FRAGRANCE FREE NON PARFUME 30ml" bottle. It glides on smoothly, and comes in *many* diffeRent shades, so you'Re bound to find a coloR that's peRfect foR you. As foR eyelineR... when it comes to liquid oR pencil, it's just a peRsonal pRefeRence. HoweveR, if you ask... MOST people will tell you that pencil is a betteR choice. It's a gReat staRt foR a beginneR who is just getting used to it. If you mess up, pencil is A WHOLE LOT easieR to clean up and Re-do than liquid would be. And if you plan on caRRying it aRound in a puRse oR pocket.. theRe's a chance that the liquid may Ruin. And now foR the pRoducts... peRsonally, I think the two best bRands of eyelineR out theRe aRe "MeRyl NoRman" and "Beautique". "MeRyl NoRman", which can only be puRchased at "The MeRyl NoRman Cosmetic Studios", is pRicey [typically $8.50 - $15.00], but it REALLY IS good stuff. It goes on wondeRfully, and stays on all day!!! On the otheR hand... I happen to think that "Beautique" is INCREDIBLE, howeveR, I've ONLY seen "Beautique" at "Sally's". And "Beautique" is only .99 cents. TRUST ME.. I would NEVER EVER EVER buy cRap make up!!! I get only the best, so please, please, please, please DON'T let this dollaR pRice thRow you off - you'd be cheating youRself out of the best pRoduct out theRe!! I'd PREFER "Beautique" out of ANY otheR bRand of eyelineR!! I could easily go out and buy a $15.00 pencil, but I'd RATHER get "Beautique"! "Beautique" glides on smoothly and REALLY LASTS ALLLLL DAY!!! I CAN NOT pRomote this item enough!! And if you still have doubts... foR only .99 cents.. it's woRth a shot!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I need to know the song title or artist for a song... all I know is that in the lyrics it has "We're both such magnificant liars, so crush me baby I'm all ears." It's on the tip of my toungue and has been bothering me for awhile. Thanks!
Well, I know you alReady have a bunch of answeRs to this question.. but I wasn't home today, so I didn't get to see this eaRlieR, but I still want to feel helpful... haha.. so heRe goes : It's 'Taking Back Sunday's' "You Know How I Do"!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.
You could go to a paRk!! Someone could bRing a blanket, and peRhaps even a simple picnic with tuRkey sandwiches, pRetzels and gRapes!! You could also buy bRead, and feed the duckies - that'd be cute!! And if THIS isn't youR idea of a good fiRst date.. you could tRy going to a pizza aRcade; that'd be fun!! Goodluck deciding!! Hope I helped!! =D


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