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Just a summer fling?
I met this guy over the summer and we have been going out for about a month or so. I thought it was just a summer 'fling' or romance but I now have strong feelings for him. We don't live that close and we go to different schools. We really want to stay together after summer, but I'm not sure it will happen. Can a summer fling actually last into the fall or even longer?
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It definently can. You two should E-mail/IM eachother after school, and maybe meet some place on weekends. It's great that you like eachother so much! Also, if you both have a web-cam, it's cool to video IM, or whatever they call it, so you can see eachother as you type. Definently still call and write letters. You're obviously serius about this, and that's great! Good luck!
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If you both want it bad enough.. it is DEFINITELY possible!!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!!
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Long distance romances are hard, but if you really care for this guy, it's worth a shot. If it's meant to be it'll work out in the end.
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Well look a summer fling is kool and everythin but like do u really like this guy I mean really really like him and if u do talk to him bout it and tell him what u really feel and tell him tht u wanna stay together and like want to make it longer and work the relationship its based on if u 2 can trust each other or not thts the most first thing in ur situation here and if u can't work it out jus tell him u wanna stay intouch and still be his freind no matter wat cuz u 2 can be friends and have fun!
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If you both want 2 stay 2gether your relationship will definately last. it may b harder than a regular relationship cuz its long distance but it can def. work Hope i helped =)
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i was in that same situation...actually i still am. I went on a cruise in december and me and this guy were together every day...i didn't think that it would be anything more than a vacation fling but now i constantly think about him. We are 5 states apart lol but we will see eachother again.
But anyway, if you and this guy feel the same about eachother, then you should ask him what you want this relationship to be like. If he says more than a summer thing then it could probably work out...it'll will just take a little more committment. If you both are into it, then call eachother and stay in touch...i'll warn you though, you'll want to see him more every time you talk about him.
My advice...is to seriously think about how you think, i mean...if you're the type of person that get's really attached to a guy, you should think about your long-term happiness if you hardly get to see him. and if you think that you're gunna be un-happy, i would try to do anything to let your feelings for him sub-side
haha i practically wrote a novel, sorry :-(
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