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boyfirend/sex
ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help
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If you are not ready to have sex and your boyfriend is not respecting that, he is NOT worth it. It sounds to me like he thinks he'll get what he wants and then break up with you. Do you what you think is right. And if it were me, i would break up with him. Its not fair for him to push you into doing something you don't want to. Good luck,hun!
~Cayd
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a good bf would wait ~~~~~~~ :/
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Tell him that you're NOT ready, and you're not going to do anything you're not ready for. If he can't accept that, dump his ass.
And if you're scared of him // he's treating you like shit, DON'T put up with it.
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Just dont do it, if u abuses u, and wont respect ur answer then hes not a good bf or worth it, just wait for the right person, and for marriage.
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Well, this is a tight situation, and I'm sad that you have to go through this. If he only wants to have sex, then he might be using you. If you do say no to him and if he does anything you don't like, tell an Adult. If he only wants sex from you, then who would want a boyfriend like that!? Hope I helped, and I hope that things work out in your favor. -Ce
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dump him if he has problems and trys to pull something take legal action
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You need to break up with him. Do NOT let him pressure you into something that you are not ready for! You might want to tell someone-it sounds like he could abuse you if you dont do what he says!! Please feel free to ask me anything else! Hope I could help and good luck!
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If your boyfriend is pressuring you into sex, you need to end the relationship NOW. You don't deserve to be treated that way and you need to stand up to him and end it. You should never feel pressured into doing anything. Its just completely wrong. If you don't want to end it, you need to talk to him and make sure you get your point across. And if it doesn't work then you should definately get rid of him. You should never feel threatened by a boyfriend, also. So take that into consideration. Hope it helps =) *Amber*
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Krizzyxx9 said it best, I think. You have every right to say no. If he won't accept that, then he is absusing you. If he has sex without your consent, or bullies a 'consent' out of you by either physical or emotional coercion, that is rape. You do not want to be in a relationship with a person capable of physically and sexually assaulting you. You've said yourself you are scared of him - please, please, get out of this now. Talk to somebody who is close to you, and have them with you when you call him and tell him you are not seeing him any more for emotional support. I will you all the best.
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If he's pushing you into something you don't want to do, it's called rape. Even if he's your brother, bestfriend or boyfriend, it's still rape. If you don't want to have sex with him, nothing is wrong with standing up for yourself. If he keeps on pushing you into something you don't want to do, simply dump him. He's not worth it, theres way better guys out there hun. Good luck!
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sweetie..the best thing to do is dump his butt! i know it may seem hard..but no guy is worth your time if all he's gonna do is presure you to do stuff your not readi to do! please don't give in! i don't want it to be something you regret! =) rate me please!
<3*Chelsea xoxo
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if your not ready to take your relationship to the level of having sex with him.. Then Dont... Dont push yourself to doing something your not ready to do.. and if your boyfriend cant accept the fact that your not ready for that step.. Then hes not someone you want to be with..I know you may love him. But you dont want to be with a guy that pressures you into doing something you dont want to do.. Because that will make him think that whatever he wants hes just gotta yell... throw a fit or whatever.. and youll give in.. and you dont want him to think that.. I hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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um. dump him. now.
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well he should respect u and your feelings about having sex if your not ready and comfortable then he cant make u i mean juss sit down and talk to him be like im not read to have sex with u becuz i dont feel comfortable enough and i hope u respect and understand how i feel about this and i dont appreciate u presurin me into doin it juss let me have sum time and when im ready we can but till then u r gunna have to wait!!! and dont let him make u feel sry cuz u wont have sex wid him juss try to see past that i mean im sure u could do otha things besides have sex till your ready to! well hpe i helped if u need n e thing else juss drop 1 in my inbox k hunni!!!
Caitlin*<3
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OMG!! Don't EVER be afRaid to say no.. EVER!! If this is the way you feel with this guy.. it's best to just leave him. I know you caRe foR him and it'll huRt to leave him.. but once it hits a point like this.. it's a point of no RetuRn... cancel youR plans with him tonight, and bReak things off completely. It's in youR best inteRest, and you need to do what's best foR YOU! Please, use some sense, DeaR! Hope I helped!!
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No one can pressure you into doing something you dont wanna do! He cant make you have sex with him & if he is pressuring you that much, you should dump him. Always say no if your uncomfortable/not ready. Some guys just suck and u deserve better then a guy who pressures you into doing things that your not ready for.
xoxo
ali
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get out of the relationship ASAP bec hes just in for sex and if our not readii.. NO ONE can make you do what u dont want to.. call and say.. its over.. he can deff. hurt u in a physical way! DONT PUT URSELF IN AN EVEN WORSE SITUATION..!
if u need more advice.. drop one in the inbox or e-mail me @ caitymck91@yahoo.com good luck
caity
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You're in an abusive relationship and you need to get out of it ASAP.
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Ok this isnt good..sounds like he just wants sex. Im glad you didnt back down. Its time to break up with him. Who would want a bf like that? He sounds horrible. Dont stay with him! Things will only get worse. Who knows...next time he might rape you..or yell more..you shouldnt have to take that.You should really end it with him right away.Dont even see him tonight..just call him and END IT. You`ll be so much better off. Be strong ! BEst of luck.. and feel free to drop me somethin in the inbox if you wanna ask somethin else:)
-melissa-
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If your not comfortable with doing something then DON'T DO IT!!Don't let a boy pressure you into doin somethin you dont wanna do.Yeah I'm only 14 but I've been pressured like that SO MANY TIMES! But don't give in.I'm not ready for sex either and I'm not doin it till I AM ready.If your BF really loves you then he'll wait. And if he can't wait than i'd bag his as* cuz sometimes after guys do "get you" they'll leave you. (im sayin some guys) So its not even worth doin if your not ready and can't enjoy it yourself cuz if you do he might leave you. So good luck!DON'T DO IT! Tell me whathappends k? (just dont give in,be strong!)
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well hes not a good b/f if hes making you do anything that you dont want to. tell him no, and keep telling him no until you're ready. and if he still pushes for sex...dump him. hes not worth your energy. never do anything you dont want to do no matter what a guy tells you. hope i helped.
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if he cant respect you enough to stop when you say no....leave him...or at leased tell him how you feal dont keep him in the dark...tell him lisend i dont want to have sex and i would really love it if you can respect that and if you cant this relashionship will not work out......tell him that and it will make him think....you should NEVER be forced to do something you really dont want to do...
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