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HEY! Ok here is my PrObLeM!!! Im 17 almost 18 now but when i was like in 15 a really rude kid picked on me told me i was ugly n fat and stuff, and to most people its like Fuck him whatever! haha But to me it really HURT! Like to this day i have ZEROOOO self confidence! And last night i went out and met some of my boyfriends friends and their girlfriends! and i was just really DEPRESSED! they were these tan, skinny, BEAUTIful girls that had low cute shirts on, that showed all theie stomach, and low jeans and stuff and i just wanted to cry! like i dont think im UGLY, but i cant feel good about myself around people...like idont wanna be around people who in my eyes are perfect because then i concentrate on all my flaws, and see how perfet they are....My boyfriend reassures me all the time how pretty and stuff i am but i just cant feel or see it and i dont know what to do....do you have any advice, it would be great! xoxo
Here are some sites with my pictures....
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www.picturetrail.com/tommiegurlie23
(those are old though haha)
xoxo thanks so much for your time!
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Hello Lovely!
Well..I've just spent and hour looking through all of your wonderful photogenic pictures. You're absolutely beautiful, I don't know what you are talking about. Ya know...I'm sized the same way you are. Your body looks exactly like mine. We aren't anywhere near being fat, but we aren't those skin tight girls. I know how that feels sweetheart. When I'm around people like that, I lose it sometimes. I just have to break away and leave. Ya know?
Well...recently, I've been in your shoes. I wanted to look like that, so I got the Winsor Palaties (Or whatever) I love doing them, they are fun and also relaxing. I've also started eating right. Not the fat junk food. I run and walk every single day. Run in the morning and walk at night. I've been doing this for about a month, and I've seen some changes, such as my stomach and legs. But no hips, I think I'm naturally big boned, ya know? I have to except my self either way. That's how god made me, and I'm gonna have to stick with that. Now, if you wanna talk to me away from here that's great (like you did today, but I was busy, I'm sorry) We'll stick together and do work out logs together if you want. I've found if I have somebody that does it with me, that is in my same shoes, I feel better about myself and doing the activities. Well...babe...I know this is getting long, so I'll let you go. If you need anything, get in touch with me ASAP! :) Aim: KateSTar1011, same on Yahoooooo! Have a wonderful day beautiful! Love Yas! <3
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Ugh!! Aww! =[ I went to youR PictuRe TRail site... and YOU made me feel bad!! I'm jealous! See.. I *WISH* I looked as pRettie as you do, honestly. I think you aRe beautiful!! In all of youR pictuRes you look absolutely stunning; no lie! You and youR boyfRiend look veRy happie togetheR. And I know how you feel... when you say you see someone who YOU believe is pRettieR than you.. and it makes you feel like cRap; you just feel like less of a peRson, ya know?? It's a hoRRible feeling; I've been theRe. To be honest, I'm not shoRe what to tell you to do. All I can do is ReassuRe you that you ARE INDEED beautiful! I know sometimes it may be easieR said than done... but just be confident!! Confidence is SUPER SEXY and shows B.I.G.T.I.M.E! And this pRobably isn't the nicest way to look at it, but whateveR woRks Right.... always say to youRself... that no matteR how bad it is oR gets.. it could ALWAYS be get woRse, and believe it oR not.. theRe is ALWAYS someone out theRe who DOES have it woRse!!! I know it sounds coRny and typical, but don't dwell on little things such as appeaRance, just love youRself and appReciate what you've got!! I'm soRRie I couldn't be moRe of a help!! HoweveR, I *DO* wish you the veRy best!! Thanks so much foR the question, feel fRee to come back if you eveR need anything else. Take caRe!! Also, I've added you to my "FavoRite Columnist" List.. I hope you don't mind?? =D
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