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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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What are some good websites to find rainbow or unicorn myspace backgrounds?

Try Photobucket. If you type in "Rainbow Backgrounds" or "Unicorn Backgrounds" then you might find something. Just get the URL & make the layout yourself with maybe a generator of some sort.

Or use:

www.createblog.com

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can you change your user name?if you can how do you change it?13/f

You can only change your username with a paid account. DangerNerd might be able to do it for you, but you've gotta have a really good reason for it.

dangernerd@gmail.com

That's his email if you'd like to email him, and a paid account is 10 dollars a year.

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Well, heres the thing. I love a lot of different stores, but in my school its like, preps=hollister, emo= hot topic. sad,but true. i HATE it. i love both of those stores,but it seems like you cant be more than one! and, i know im going to wear them together,but can someone give me an example of an outfit? thanks ;;]

I think every school is like that. Get some jeans from maybe American Eagle or something, and get a band tee or something else from Hot Topic. Or get maybe like a striped shirt from American Eagle & get some skinny jeans from Hot Topic with flats.

I shop wherever & then put it all together. Nobody has to know where you shop, and besides, they're probably gonna think it's cute. Shop where you want & don't worry about labels. You're not a soupcan, so wear what you like. =)

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ok well i know this sounds really weird.
But i don't know what is wrong with me? I guess you could say i'm kinda popular. I have a good family and a good life. But every night i get really emotional and cry myself to sleep. I get really stressed just thinking about school. I don't know why though. I think it might be b/c of this one guy that says he likes me and we hung out friday and stuff, but we never talk to eachother in school b/c we never see eachother. and he only gets on aol every once in a while so i don't get to talk to him a lot. But i really like him...like A LOT. & NO i'm not the kind of girl that will fall for a guy quickly but i relaly like this guy, and he says that he likes me too. but yet relaly dosn't do anything about it.
But its weird at night i'm such a reck. I feel like everything sucks, when everything dosn't. idk if theres something wrong with me or if i'm like depressed or something? Is that possible to be depressed but yet have nothing that matter?

You overanalyze things. If you know things are good, don't let your thoughts get you down.

If you like this guy, ask him out. He doesn't have to be the one to do it.

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ok i like this boy right and i likes him for like as long as i can remeber and all of my friends know how much im crazy over him. Anywayz one day at school we had an assembly and me and couple of my friends were sitting on the bleachers when all of a suddent i saw my crush, he was going towards our way so i tried so hard not to stare at him then one of my friend had call his name and he look over and my friend pointed at me, and for you to know he knows i like him and he knows what she was trying to say so he just look at me and smile and then walk away. Even my friends so it, so what does it means he like me or is he just trying to be friendly.

He could like you, or he was just being friendly.

Ask him.

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Hi i was wondering if someone that knows alot about computers (how to fix viruses) could just reply and i could get in contact with you to explain whats wrong. Thanks

Ask this question to theymos. He's a computer genius. And if he isn't, he might as well be.

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=theymos

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14 / f / 8th grade

i think this guy is hot, & i thought he liked me, you
know? cause on friday march the 31st, he was talking
to me about how he has to take a bunch of quizzes &
tests that day because he was leaving for vacation.
well when i saw him, yesterday, i said, "wow you got so
tan!" & he looked down at his desk, smiled, & said,
"thankss." he would talk to me almost everyday in that
class, & even today he asked me about this question
on the homework. well, his friend sits next to him in
class & me, him, his friend, and my friend were put in a
group to make a poster. so, his friend is kinda mean to
me.. & kept saying things like, "come on, (my
name here)! get with the program" & shit. he's so
popular. the guy, though, kinda went along with it.
he was like, laughing & stuff and i was like really
pissed off.

is this common? how do i deal with it? do you think
he likes me? should i just ignore him & move on?

Yeah. Guys usually do that because their friends have a huge impact on a lot of what they do. He might like you, but that's up to you to determine. Get your friend to ask him if you're shy, and if you aren't, ask him yourself.

You're never gonna know if you just sit there & wonder.

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there's a song and idk what it's called
it goes like this
"you make me run up the al... "
or something like that
thanks!!

I know this site, and it's called Google. It can probably help you find out what song that is, or something like that. You're welcome!!

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is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related?

Not all guys. 15-17 year old guys can be after sex, but some of them actually want to get to know a girl for her, and form a relationship. It all depends on the guy. As hard as it is to believe, they're not all the same.

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okay so i have a question, and a big problem.
me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 months now, but we never talk. were both pretty popular and we talk all the time to our friends and like out loud in class and stuff, but never to eachother. we had a school dance last week on friday and we danced with eachother on every slow song and we talked during them, which i was really happy about. but we haven't ever talked during school, and we have 2 classes with eachother so we've had plenty of chances. i think it's because we are both like super shy around eachother cause we no we like eachother. idk.
so anyway, my bff wants me to brake up with him, and i think it's a good idea since we never talk, but if i couldn't talk to him, how would i ever talk to him to brake up with him? and if we do brake up i would still be madly in love with him, so that's not a possibility.
so i was gonna give him a note that said 'either brake up with me or kiss me'. we have never kissed before so it's a big deal. i no he would kiss me because he was talking to my friend about it. but i'm still really nervous because i don't want him to think i'm pushy or mean or anything. is that a good idea and do you have any tips for me on how to talk to him or give him the note? thanks so much. sorry it's so long....!

If you wanna talk, sitting around & doing nothing isn't gonna help it. You've gotta stop being shy & just go through with it. How the hell did you guys get together without talking?

If you like him, then you'll talk to him & you'll kiss him. I mean, yeah you're shy, he's shy, but there's no use complaining when you're half of the problem.

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ok well im a 16/f struggling in high school barely passing. i have a c in my IPC class (science) and a D in english and i made a bad grade a 64 on my spanish test so basically im a screwup. and my social life is messed up because no matter how hard i try to be nice to other people they'll till be mean to me. what should i do?

Don't worry about friends. They're gonna backstab you.

Worry about your grades. Study a ton, and always do your homework. Take notes, pay attention & get extra help. Yes, that requires staying after school.

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i know this sounds really stupid but i get bored a lot. and i usually end up spending a lot of time on the computer when i do. I don't want to spend so much time on the computer but it seems like everytime i get bored there is nothing else i can do. i finish my homework, read, practice cello, eat dinner, listen to music... etc. but i still run out of things to do and have a lot of extra time. what are some other productive thingsi could do besides getting on the computer and watching tv? thanks!

Talk on the phone. Go to the store. Find a job [if you're old enough], re-do your MySpace if you've got one.

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Ok theres this guy at my school and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me. He is one of my only guy friends but i cant tell if im one of the guys or if he likes me. We hang out inside of school and we joke around alot. And he talks about him gf alot. We usually walk home together and talk about, well whatever we can think of. And its usually really akward between us unless one of our other friends are there. So i cant tell if he likes me or not!!! please help me!!! i cant think of everything right now but if u need anymore info just msg me and question me or sumthing like that.

*~confusedwitboys~*

He has a girlfriend. She's not you.

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does walmart sell turltes? i know they used to sell small animals, do they still? and at petsmart how much do turtles cost? or any other pet store. and how much does it cost for their tanks/food and everything else?

No, but pet stores such as Petco & PetSmart do.

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Okay.. Please don't be like "HOLY COW SHES FAT" cause I know thatlol. I'm 14 years old and I weigh about 210lbs. I have a boyfriend who loves me and thinks im beautiful, and lots of friends, but im not comfortable with how I look. I really want to do this for ME. Does anyone have any good advice, diets, or good [low cal] snack foods that would help?? I'd REALLY appreicate it. I am going to try to get down to 120-130 over all [i know, alot]. But for now my goal is 160-170 by the end of July.. I'm pretty sure thats possible, but im going to need helplol. Also, its kinda hard cause I work in my school cafe and get a free lunch ever day.. Tips please?? THANKS!!

First off, congratulations & wanting to do this for YOU & no one else. It takes a lot to recognize it, and then do something about it. So good job on that.

DO's
- Eat healthy. Fruits, veggies & meats are essential.
- Drink 8 glasses of milk a day and eat yogurt [preferably Yoplait Light & Fit]. If you're lactose intolerant like me, then eat dairy sparingly so you don't get sick.
- Drink 4 glasses of water a day.
- Cut junk food out. No more desserts, no more munchies, no more candy, no more soda & no more fast food. If you're gonna eat it, make sure you eat only a small portion & make sure you don't go completely overboard with it.
- Run alot. I'm not saying to run a mile in a day, but work your way up to it. Once you can run a mile, trying going for 2, then when you conquer 2, try 3 and so on. Don't run fast though, because you'll get tired & give up. Pace yourself.
- Join a gym. They have machines that target certain areas of the body, and if you ask a trainer, they should be able to help you out. [And if you don't wanna go alone, invite a friend along, or bring your ipod & listen to music. It'll make the time go by faster.]

DONT's
- Don't eat or exercise before bed. If you eat before bed, it's gonna be really hard to digest while sleeping since basically your whole body shuts down, and you'll just gain weight. And if you exercise before bed, your muscles won't be relaxed, so you'll be antsy & it'll be hard to fall asleep.
- When you see results, DO NOT STOP. Keep going because if you stop right then, you'll just gain all your weight back. So once this healthy lifestyle starts to suit you, don't give it up at all. For the rest of your life, because if you do everything you've worked for will just have been a big waste of time.
- Don't be discouraged if you gain weight. Muscle weighs more than fat. =)

If none of that works for you, then ask Mike.

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MikeCFT

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where can i get nice sunglasses? im a girl by the way. i dont want the cheapy plastic kind and im willing to spend up to $50. websites and stores would be much appreciated. : )

Pac Sun.
Zumies.
Hot Topic.
Lenscrafters.
Wal*Mart.
Target.

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im writing a play and need to know...
how can i find out the color to these names? i dont know what they look like:

strawberry blonde
platinum blonde
beach blonde
peroxide blonde

and does anyone know any additional ones?

If you don't know what they look like, then try GOOGLE.

It's the answer to everyone's problem.

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This might be long but I really need help. So I went out with this guy , we'll call him Chuck. Chuck and I went out for about 6 months he was the first boy I really loved. However , Chuck was this big popular "jock" and all my friends were mad at me for going out with him because they liked him ! Silly right? So Chuck and I broke up beacuse of these silly girls. GUESS WHAT? CHUCK WENT OUT WITH ONE OF THOUGHS GIRLS FOR 5 MONTHS ! Yeah... so whatever. They broke up about 2 weeks ago and I've been notciing I really miss Chuck. Chuck talks to me a lot... online and he calls me and we flirt a lot. I think he likes me and I might be falling for him . But this is the situation the girl he just broke up with is one of my very best friends. So i shoudlnt hook back up with Chuck beacuse that wouldnt be fair to her right? Shes pretty upset. However... HE WAS MINE FIRST ! I need some serious help. thanks

If you like him, then be with him. You haven't done anything she hasn't done to you.

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My best friend had been going through this really slutty stage lately and I'm getting really annoyed. She started to get this mind set that because i've hooked up with guys tons of times she NEEEDS to also (she never has). She thinks in order to achieve this goal she needs to be as slutty as possible. Shell go up to guys and like pull her shirt down so her cleavage hangs out!! Or shell ask them if they want a handjob! I've tried to tell her that hooking up is for people who care about eachother and not for fun (for me at least) but she tells me that I'm going at it all wrong.

Yesterday she sent a picture of herself topless to a guy friend and this is seriously the last straw. What can I say to make her understand that being slutty doesn't get guys!!?

If she wants to be a skank, let her. You've tried talking to her, and she didn't listen, so there's nothing more you can do. Just make sure she's using protecton with all of this.

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So I got dumped like last week from a 7 month relationship the first guy I really liked. I want some breakup songs that will make me sad but also make me feel better about it. hopefully? thanks

Hate [I Really Don't Like You] - Plain White T's.
False Pretense - The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Pretty Girl - Sugarcult.
Broken Man - Boys Like Girls.
Heels Over Head - Boys Like Girls.
Five Minutes To Midnight - Boys Like Girls.
Not Good Enough For Truth In Cliche - Escape The Fate.
Try Goodbye - Four Letter Lie.
The Fourth Drink Instinct - Cute Is What We Aim For.
Love Rhymes With Hideous Carwreck - The Blood Brothers.

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