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okay so i have a question, and a big problem.
me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 months now, but we never talk. were both pretty popular and we talk all the time to our friends and like out loud in class and stuff, but never to eachother. we had a school dance last week on friday and we danced with eachother on every slow song and we talked during them, which i was really happy about. but we haven't ever talked during school, and we have 2 classes with eachother so we've had plenty of chances. i think it's because we are both like super shy around eachother cause we no we like eachother. idk.
so anyway, my bff wants me to brake up with him, and i think it's a good idea since we never talk, but if i couldn't talk to him, how would i ever talk to him to brake up with him? and if we do brake up i would still be madly in love with him, so that's not a possibility.
so i was gonna give him a note that said 'either brake up with me or kiss me'. we have never kissed before so it's a big deal. i no he would kiss me because he was talking to my friend about it. but i'm still really nervous because i don't want him to think i'm pushy or mean or anything. is that a good idea and do you have any tips for me on how to talk to him or give him the note? thanks so much. sorry it's so long....!
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well i dont think you should brake up with him if you like him, if you dont like him thats a differnt story but if you do then just kiss him first-whats the worst that could happen? he wouldnt stay with you for 2 months if he didnt like you
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If you wanna talk, sitting around & doing nothing isn't gonna help it. You've gotta stop being shy & just go through with it. How the hell did you guys get together without talking?
If you like him, then you'll talk to him & you'll kiss him. I mean, yeah you're shy, he's shy, but there's no use complaining when you're half of the problem.
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this is all i can tell you;
if you don't want to be with him, then break up with him. simple as that.
if you want to be with him, then get brave & tell him that you think you guys should talk more & i guarentee things will improve.
you can't have a relationship with no communication, i'm sorry but things won't last long if you don't take action soon
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Dont send him a not that says brake up with me or kiss me cuz that just sounds really harsh and cold. I would suggest making an effort to try to talk to him in the classes you do have after a while he should get the hint. if he dosent then break up with him and you wouldnt have to worry about feeling bad cuz you gave him a chance.
oh yea and if your to shy to talk to him just remember that your relationship might be on the line.
well Good Luck!
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