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I'm a terrible friend.
This might be long but I really need help. So I went out with this guy , we'll call him Chuck. Chuck and I went out for about 6 months he was the first boy I really loved. However , Chuck was this big popular "jock" and all my friends were mad at me for going out with him because they liked him ! Silly right? So Chuck and I broke up beacuse of these silly girls. GUESS WHAT? CHUCK WENT OUT WITH ONE OF THOUGHS GIRLS FOR 5 MONTHS ! Yeah... so whatever. They broke up about 2 weeks ago and I've been notciing I really miss Chuck. Chuck talks to me a lot... online and he calls me and we flirt a lot. I think he likes me and I might be falling for him . But this is the situation the girl he just broke up with is one of my very best friends. So i shoudlnt hook back up with Chuck beacuse that wouldnt be fair to her right? Shes pretty upset. However... HE WAS MINE FIRST ! I need some serious help. thanks
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I don't think that you should go out with him again knowing that it will hurt your friend. But I do think that you should tell him you like him alot but that you would much rather be friends that way you can keep being his friend and won't have to worry about hurting your friend.
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if you like him, who cares about your friend? i guarantee you'd be happier going out with him for a few months than having her as a best friend forever. cause most best friends really don't last very long... they break up so quickly.
if she's really your friend & you don't really like him all that much, just stick with your friend.
just think about the pros & cons: what will i gain by going out with chuck again? what's the worst that can happen between my friend and i?
also - REALLY think about it. cause if you go out with chuck again, your friend is probably gonna be mad at you - make sure he is worth it. will he dump you for a stupid reason? is he really worth my time? is it worth my friend's friendship?
ask yourself these questions. but don't rush into it. you have to make sure you really dig him & it's not just a minor crush. & good luck
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If you like him, then be with him. You haven't done anything she hasn't done to you.
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The way i see it...is you arent doing anything that she didnt do to you. You are her good friend too, and she still went out with you ex. I dont see how she can get mad at you for something she herself did.
Good Luck!!!
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