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My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2
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hi, well u just have to choose...but b/f comes n go...if u feel he's da rite one then...i dunno but if he loves u he will respect wut u do...n how u are...so dump his ass :) xoxo effy
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Hey everyone, I just got back from being away for awhile, and I wanted to know what happened with Advicenators. I've only been away for like 5 days but the last time I checked they were doing something new with the questions. Is that still happening or is it back to normal now? Thanks in advance!! (link)
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i think its bak to normal...:) xoxo effy
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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
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ohhhh mannnnnnnnnnnnn i know dat song n i love it 2...its like "when u cry i wipe away all of ur tears...u scream i ...bla bla bla..all of ur fears" somethin like dat rite? yah i kno wut u talkin bout n i been tryin to figure out dat song 2 but i cant :'( sorry for not helping :-p so dont even bother 2 rate me i kno u'll prolly give me a 1 so :-D...xoxo effy
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Can u help me ? .. ok i liked this kid named james and my friend said he was hot to but then there was this other kid named nick that liked me he was ok but my friend was persuading me to go out with the nick because she thought it would be good she was like " give him a chance james styll has a girlfriend u wont be able to go out with him " [ cuz he did ] but he told everyone he was gonna break up with her for me but i didn't know that so i went out with nick cuz everything my friend said i thought made sence but no it really didn't because then yesturday shes all up on him kissen and stuff when i`m ova here with my boyfriend that i`m not even sure if i like .. i know i shouldn't of went out with him so i told him in a nice way we should just be friends.. so now james tells me online he likes me and doesn't like my friend and he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and i told him i broke up with nick because i liked him to .. so now i think he is gonna ask me out because thats wat his friend said but what can i do b.c if i go out with him my friend will probably be madd but i really like him tho !! PLEASSE HELP !!! (link)
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hi, well i think u should talk to ur friend...n tell her how u feel...n mention to her that u liked him n she was the one presuring u to go out wit nick even though u werent sure if u liked him and everything! see wut she gonna say...hopefully she will understand n she wont mind u goin out wit him...if she doesnt understand n w/e n ur not so "CLOSE" wit her...then i guess u should go wit da boy...but if ur close wit her...then ur in dip doodoo...i dunno then...u just have 2 choose ( i guess) xoxo effy
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hey im the one who wrote the poem about the girl who ran away, heres another one:
Your eyes are the color of the sky,after days of rain, hollow and empty, just to cover up the pain.
I want to scream and I want to know, what terrible thing has made you so.....
You hide inside as you let your body take the blame, youre to weak to handle all the shame.
Maybe all could be better , all of this could be through, if youd take the time to listen when I say that I love you.
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its great...ur talented...where do u base ur storys from? like where do u get all this ideas...like bout da gurl dat run away n now another one (or may be da same one) who cant handel all da shame?!?! do u get this ideas from any of ur friends...or u describe ur self? either way...they are very nice...n u have a gift putin ur feelings (or imagination) in to words :) keep it up xoxo effy
P.S. if u dont mind n u wanna answer my questions IM me in aol...xxhotsexycutiexx or XRoMaNsPrInCesSX if u dont have aol or aim then holla at msn....capkenja_1@hotmail.com
THANKS!
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Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?
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hi, u guys had been going out for a long time...and its mad cool n i bet that u guys will still have feelings for eachother cuz u guys went out for a long time..so u guys kinda got use to eachother...i think that since u N ur friend has noticed the way he acts its like he likes u then he prolly does...so since u dont want to make the move ur self...then wait till he makes dat move on u!...if he doesnt make that move on u...then forget him n more on..cuz he prolly tryin to lead u on then ;) feel me? ight well thats wut i think n thats my opinion ;) hope i helped :) xoxo effy
if anything else holla at yr gurl =)
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What does idk stand for? (link)
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idk stands for I DONT KNOW :) xoxo effy
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How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll! (link)
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there are equipments at da gym that are only for legs...so use them :)...n u can run...it will keep ur whole body in shape...n it will make ur legs lose wheight n built a lil mucles...;) xoxo effy
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ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP
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hi, well may be he just doesnt wanna show lots of affection cuz he might think a pretty gurl like u must b taken...or a pretty gurl like u might not wanna do anything wit him!!...but in the other hand he might not like u the way he use to...but if he liked u once...he got to think that ur hot n good lookin...or may b he is not relly lookin at u no more cuz who knows may b he aint singel...so i think u should try to have a convo wit him...ask him if he is singel or w/e w/e...n if he is singel...then spray a lil of ur game gurl! ;) hahahah go for it...but if he aint singel i think that u should let it go evne though it hurts...i dont think u wanna b a cock blocker do u?!?! xoxo effy
anything else holla at yr gurl :)
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What are some things you can do while kissing someone...like to spice things up? (link)
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def. TOUCH!!!!....while u kissin u can run ur hands through his face...down to his body ...n so on ;) xoxo effy
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I went out with this guy for a month n 3 weeks I was happi but this is what happened we went out beofre but I dumped him to go out w some other guy which I didnt n abotu a month later my ex got a new gf n it did make me upset bc I did still like him so later his gf dumped him bc she kissed his friend then two days later he asked me out again n I said yes but this one day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" that is n he told me that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride but the thing was when my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes liek are you a virgan n I said yes n then I asked him n hes like no I just did it w one girl n I was like okai n was about to talk about some other stuff until he started talking about the girl he fucked n told me her name n all, wat bf tells his gf wat the girl who he fucked name was? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf went to her house w his 2 friends n my friends friend was their (kati) n my bf was saying " i love you kati dont leave me kati bc I love you" then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too then n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which is soo not true then hes like "I dont give a fuck if you beleive me or not beleive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it thank you... (link)
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hi,well listen if u cant have trust,communication n feeling comfortable wit ur partner then may b u should find someone else that u can feel all those stuff for...i think from wut i read that ur b/f is a flirty type n he might chead on u wit other gurls...n when he said"i dont give a fuk if u belive me or not belive ur friends n not me" he might be doing that just to make u feel bad...n to make u think n belive him even though he is not sayin da truth...if i was u i would talk to him n if he gived me attitude...i would dump his ass in a heartbit!!!...xoxo effy
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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help? (link)
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hi,well lots of gurls just kinda like leading on guys...n lots of gurls just flirt without even noticing themselves doin dat...n if she knows or she thinks that may b u still like her she might just wanna lead u on for da fun of it...but who knoes...lets not b so negative...may b she likes u n she tryin to tell u that she is still interested in u...so u might wanna make a move on her if u still like her n everytihng :) xoxo effy
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I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up.. (link)
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hahahh gurl...dont mind me loughin...lmao but not everysingel gurl bleeds...n no metter u do it hard or w/e he still popped ur cherry..anyways...lots of gurls pop their cherry by using tampons or while exercizing n some are born without it...its no big! so dont worry bout it ;) xoxo effy
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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free? (link)
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www.picturetrail.com
or www.fotolog.net (that allows u to upload only one pic per day...n allows ppl see it n comment there) hmmm i dunno anyother....www.xprofile.net but thats more like a profile thingy :) xoxo effy
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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how? I also have to say that she doesn't know how to drive, and only earns $14 dollars per hour at her new job! And my dad only married her bcus he was alone at the house (I was with my mom) and was afraid if something happened to him, no1 would call the police. (link)
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hi, well have a talk wit ur dad see how he feels bout her...if he loves her dont u want ur dad to be happy? i mean ur not wit him all da time are u? he needs someone in his life to look after him...so just try to think a lil more bout dis...i understand that u dont like her and everything but dont b selfish think bout ur dad 2...i mean if she loves ur dad..n ur dad loves her...n they happy together i think u should respect that...n live wit it:) xoxo effy
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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks! (link)
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yah i think they get damaged but sometimes i do it anyways! ;) xoxo effy
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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tell u rparents when they get home...but when he does that dont just stay there...man if it was me...i would hit back! shiu...n everyone here knows that if they were in ur place they would like fight bak...so i'm tellin u if he hits u hit him back as hard as u can!!! xoxo effy
anything else then holla at yr gurl
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Am i considered fat if i am 5 foot 4 and i weigh 195 lbs? i know i dont look it and i do have a lot of muscle in ym arms and legs from playing sports. Am i considered over wieght or not? (link)
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mayy be...well actually i would say yes...if u want an honest answer..but i dunno i've to see u cuz if u say u got muclest the mucles weights a lot..so...but i dont think that the mucles will b dat much..so i dunno..may b u need to stop eating junk food! xoxo effy
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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way? (link)
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hmmm well i'm da type of gurl dat if someone teases me in any way...i'll tease back in da same way they tease me...depending in wut they say...u gotta see...but if they tease u in anyway...u tease them bak :) feels good! xoxo effy
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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help! (link)
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well u can do it both...but usually ppl test them selves after sex...but if u use protection n stuff n u be carful u still run da risk but not as much :) xoxo effy
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