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hey,i am going out with this dude that i am totally obsessed with.we always do everything with eachother.i guess you can say we are madly inlove.theres just one problem,are sex is not that good.it just dosent feel great,pleasing,fun.the last guy i was with it was awesome,but i dont know what to do.

That must suck.But if you two are "madly in love" I don't think just because the sex isn't good that it shoudl really matter.That shouldn't bother you that much.I it does just talk to him about..♥

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do u still like luke

NO STOP ASKING ME.

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ok i like this kid right hes totally hot~~~ He knos i like him so it became weird so we decide to be friends w/e in the whole deal! but i wanna be more than friends. does any body have tips or ways i can get to like me????????????????

ps ..... no smart ass comments. i am not ugly either!

Aw, just tell him how you really feel,you have nothing to lose!BE flirty ♥

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hey i know this is random but does anyone know some fun or cool websites for teens i could go on? cause i'm really bored :D also it wwould be nice if they werelike chatting websites but if theyre not thats 100 percent ok

www.bored.com < Fun if your really ALS0 http://www.xanga.com/H0LLiSTER_QU0TES

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ok well im a female and i'm 15 and i have been going out with this kid since june, and well we were like best friends before we started going out and he's like really shy, so when we started going out, we never really hung out and didnt talk on the phone because he doesn't like to, he's never had a girlfriend before and we still haven't hung out and i meet him on the track team, and now we are back at track and he won't talk to me, and like two days before track started again he told me that he didn't really like me as much as he used to, but didn't want to break up, and i still really like him and i think he still likes me but is afraid to like talk/hang out with me. i try to call him and like talk to him and stuff but he just blows it off like its no big deal, what do i do to make him talk to me, and work this whole situation out,please help mee! thankss

Just talk to him about and tell him all your feelings. Do this in a note or online.Then if he still isn't really responding then he isn't worth your time. I know this sounds mean but I'm sure your really pretty and he is missing out one heck of a chance ♥

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Okay I like this boy named Peter who lives a town away, and we've been talking alot and he likes me too, the problem is, my sorta friend Marisa dated him and they didnt break up too long ago. I only see her in one class at school and we dont talk that much. but i still feel bad if we were to go out. I dont want her to hate me, especially since shes always saying all this bad stuff about him and she doesnt even know we talk so im in a really bad position.

( but also i dont feel as bad because my best friend was dating this boy name Kevin last year and Kevin broke up with my best friend and the very same day Kevin started Dating Marisa.. and my best friend is better friends with Marisa then I am)

so if Marisa could do it to my best friend.. then why should i feel bad ya know?

I dont know.. any advice?

Just talk to her 1st and make sure she is okay with it but if she isn't don't say anything mean but tell her its kind of fucked up if she says no.I mean you can't help you feelings for someone ♥

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My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks!

I think thats a good thing that he reminds you of your dad.If I were you I would tell him that he would feel suprised but yet happy too.Don't think negative about him leaving you.Just think good things and everything will be alright ♥

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Alright well, theres this kid and if I don't talk to him I start missing him. And when I ask myself if I like him I say no. But then when I miss him I start thinking I really do like him. I think im confused. Hes not really my type but hes so fun to talk to, and hes so funny. He understands all my weird jokes. Were like the same person but differnt genders. I dont get why I keep telling myself that I dont like him. I get frustraited about it too. I think that that is what my question is. So if you can tell me why I keep telling myself I dont like him, that would be great. Thank you!

I think your telling yourself this because you really like him but are afraid to admit it to yourself.I have had that happened.You two seem perfect and he seems like a good b.f as much as you tell your self you dont like him I think it's just that scared to admit it and that is perfectly normal ♥

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I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.

Just google that and you will get alot of help.Also there are stuff that he can take to make it grow ♥

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Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Eva. She has liked this guy named Ray for the past four or five years and he seemed to like her too even though they never talk.
About a year and a half ago, me and Ray's friend, Austin hooked up. About a few months after that we set up Eva and Ray and they started going out.
Now Eva had always been crazy about Ray. She knew where he lived and what songs he liked even though she didn't know him. She wasn't stalkerish but she was obsessed.
So I was talking to my bf a few weeks after Ray and Eva and he mentioned that Ray was crazy about Eva and that he talked about her all the time and kept buying presents to give to her later and everything and I told Eva that and she was happy.
K now theyve been going out for a year and they are so OBSESSED with eachother. Like, Eva thinks about him ALLL the time. Even when shes with me and the girls she says she wants him to be there blah blah blah and when we ask her why she isnt with him she says she wants them to have seperate lives too and she doesnt want to neglect us blah blah. But she's like crazy about him. And he's crazy about her. It sounds weird to say this but its sooo unnatural. They call each other everyday for three hours atleast and text eachother all the time. She keeps going overtime on her cellphone from talking to him and he even proposed to her after going out with her for only like eight months!
Is it just me or is this obsession unhealthy? at the begining, we figured it would wear out or theyd get sick of eachother and get over their "honeymoon" and have a normal relationship but like it's continuous. Evas mum even told me that she was getting worried and wanted to take Eva to a psychologist but Eva said that was dumb cuz she wasnt stalking him or anything cuz he kenw and he loves her as much as she loves him.
so are we just overreacting or is it way unnormal? usually id keep out of this but ive always been involbved in evas life and her in mine since we were 4 and shes always told me not to let politness or anything interfere and she wants me to be honest to her and give it to her straight. Have you ever had any friends who were obsessed with eachother?

This sounds like a dumb question but please, I rate 5s

This question isnt dumb at all.You just have to talk to her be there for her but also make sure things are okay.I have had friends like that and just tell her not to get to obseesed because at the end there is going to be a heartbreak.She told you to be honest with her so just tell her hey (w.e her name is) you told me to be honest so I am and here is what I think.Good luck your a really good friend ♥





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wut is the best way to get over a break up

It's really hard just for it to happen.It will just take time.Don't think about the person and try to move on to someone new. ♥

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i dont understand what prude means.


is it liike where you havent hooked up with anyone or had sex?


14/f

Everyone has their own opinion of that word. But I would say it means were you don't want to do anything with a guy. ♥

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i got my first period the last day of november. when should i be like preparred to get it again?

Around the 28th or so. Since this is your 1st it an be really odd dates. Also you might skip a month or two it's all normal. ♥

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I've been in love with this boy for 3 years.
And we broke up.
And He doesnt seem to care,
he wont talk to me.
And I'm dying here..
And its for sure over.
What can I do to ease the heartache..
anything?

I rate high for sincere answers.

Aw I'm sorry babe! GUYS ARE ASSHOLES!! G0SH I HATE THEM WITH PASSION! Anyways, I know this might sound crazy but you have to get over him. If his little retarded self is being an ass about everything screw him. I'm sure you will find someone new and better.Just scream so loud,write your feelings down,listen to music.Don't worry babe ♥

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My mom has been having a fast heartrate lately. She suffers from depression and anxiety. What could be wrong? Im really worried, and, what should I do to help? Ill rate 5's.

Just help her around the house do the dishes and clean everything. Make sure she sees a doctor tho ♥

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So, there's this guy that is my ex. I broke up with him b/c I thought I didn't want to be with him anymore. We still talk and everything, and I know he still really likes me. And now, I'm falling for him again. And I'm not going to see him for two weeks cause of break. And I'm really scared that he's gonna like not like me anymore when I see him. So, when I see him, what can I say to him about wanting to out again? I don't know what to say! Plz help! 5's for good answers.

Hey babe, just be straight up with him tell him that you still have feelings for him and like him.You have nothing to lose.Don't be scared I'm sure he will think the same for you too! ♥

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Do you think Iam ready to have sex? Tell after reading this.

Well Im 13 female, I live in Pensacola, Florida. My b/f's name is Stephen. I really like him. I get really "exited" around him. He's so hott. He really likes me. He wants to screw me. I dont know if Im ready. Im a virgin. I want to but Im so nervous, Im afraid I'll screw up! Do you think Im ready? If so,,, any hints on how to do it and preferences from you guys, would be fine. please do a good answer. ill rate 5's to all answers that help.

It doesn't really matter what I think. If you think you love him that much to have sex, then go for it. But just because you get all exited doesn't mean you should have sex.I would wait but It's not my choice it's yours.Use a condom.♥

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alright for this i dont want anyone telling me " that i should just let them be" or anything ..alright so this boy and girl...there going out...i lke the boy and the girl is my friend..they have been going out for like a week and they dont talk on the phone and barely see eachother...and i feel like i talk to the boy more than she does and so i want them to break up..want are some good ways to get them too?


ILL rate 5 for anyways..just not like " thats mean"

If they don't even talk on the phone, I doubt it will last long.So just wait for them to break up.Just hang out with him alot and talk to him alot too. After they break up he will relize that you like him and he prob will like you to! I don't think you have to break them up they will do that pretty soon..♥

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my boyfriend and i were messing around the other night and he fingered me. after it kinda hurt, he went pretty far out. then when i went to pee there was a little blood. did my cherry pop? or can it only pop if you have sex? (which i havent)
thanks for the help!

Your cheery can be popped when you get fingered.Yours might of popped.It can pop when having sex but also fingering too. ♥

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Ok..well I've been going out with this guy and only a fewp people know, and i didnt want them to know bc when everyone knows then people start to screw up everything and can cause us to break up, so one of my friends asked me if i was going out with this one guy and i said no and named somebody else even tho i was going out with that guy and i lied to him for 3 months and i finally told him and now he pretty much hates me, i've been giving him space, is there anything else i can do?

That has happened to me before.If you two really like each other it will take ALOT to mess you two up.But he prob hates you because it hurts if you tell someone your not going out with him.It makes him look like he is nothing to you and that you don't care about him.So just talk to him and tell him why you said that and just make him feel like he is something to you. ♥

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