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Should I?
Do you think Iam ready to have sex? Tell after reading this.
Well Im 13 female, I live in Pensacola, Florida. My b/f's name is Stephen. I really like him. I get really "exited" <get it> around him. He's so hott. He really likes me. He wants to screw me. I dont know if Im ready. Im a virgin. I want to but Im so nervous, Im afraid I'll screw up! Do you think Im ready? If so,,, any hints on how to do it and preferences from you guys, would be fine. please do a good answer. ill rate 5's to all answers that help.
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You aren't ready.
You're 13 years old, and you "really like" your boyfriend. But honestly, do you even understand anything about sexual intercourse? Do you know what you'll go through, and how he's supposed to put a condom on, or any sexual positions? Probably not.
Use common sense.
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Well your only 13 I think your a little young for that...I mean you only wanna do it cause you say he is soo hott is that really a good excuse???...Also your questioning yourself you think you will mess up or w.e. If you are questioning about it in my opinion your not ready.
-Jess
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well sweetie i dont think your ready..i mean yeah every guy wants to screw girls! haha i mean a couple weeks ago this girl came into our health class and was talking about waiting until marriage to have sex because of all the bad things that can happen to you.i mean you can get all these diseases like stds and aids, and the worst is you can get pregnant. yeah you may think 'naw it wont happen to me' but thats what we all think! i think a ton of guys are hotties but i dont think i should go have sex with them. it doesnt sounds like your ready..because if you were then you wouldnt have second thoughts about it!! but if you truly think you are, and your ready to face the consequences that may come your way then go for it! also you could do something else with him rather than sex such as making out or other things like that! hope you chose wisely hun! need anything else? leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen
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I'm not gonna sit here and tell you not to do it. But here's some things you should think about before you do.
* If you have to ask if you are ready, you're really not ready are you? When you go to have sex, you shouldn't have to ask for reassurance from others about if you are making the right desicion. It's YOUR virginity, not theirs.
* You like him, but do you love him? Could you live with yourself knowing that he has taken something from you that no one else is ever gonna be able to take again? Can you see yourself in a serious relationship with Stephen? And no, sex does not make a relationship serious. Emotional and mental connections do, neither of which you can aquire just from sex alone.
* Do you feel comfortable talking to him about birth control and what happens if you do get pregnant? If not, you are definitley not ready to have sex. You have to be comfortable with him to the point where you can talk about anything with him, or sex will just put a strain on the relationship even more.
* Yeah, so what? You get "excited" around him. He turns you on. That doesn't mean you have to lose the big V to him. You'll meet lots of guys who "excite" you, but is this the right one to lose it to?
* Would you be his first? What's his sexual history? Does he have STD's, HIV/AIDS? Haven't asked? Hmm...
Listen, I really wanna help you out. You might think I don't know jack shit about what you're talking about or that I'm just trying to stop you from doing it. I'm not. I'm trying to educate you. My screenname is blondstbrunete34. I really want you to IM me and ask me anything you want about this, because I can offer my opinions and maybe help you out a bit. This is coming from a girl who lost her virginity a little bit before she turned 15. So please, IM me and we can chat about this. I won't be a bitch, promise!
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If your asking other people if you are ready, then no you aren't ready. You will definitely know when you are ready. It's obvious if he mentions that he "wants to screw you" all the time, that may be only what he wants. In my opinion, I think you are too young to have sex anyway.
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It doesn't really matter what I think. If you think you love him that much to have sex, then go for it. But just because you get all exited doesn't mean you should have sex.I would wait but It's not my choice it's yours.Use a condom.♥
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No you're not ready..you're going to think I'm crazy for saying this..but you're 13..you shouldn't have sex because you really like him and you get excited around him.
Incase you decide not to listen to me...at least be safe..use a condom.
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