ok well im a female and i'm 15 and i have been going out with this kid since june, and well we were like best friends before we started going out and he's like really shy, so when we started going out, we never really hung out and didnt talk on the phone because he doesn't like to, he's never had a girlfriend before and we still haven't hung out and i meet him on the track team, and now we are back at track and he won't talk to me, and like two days before track started again he told me that he didn't really like me as much as he used to, but didn't want to break up, and i still really like him and i think he still likes me but is afraid to like talk/hang out with me. i try to call him and like talk to him and stuff but he just blows it off like its no big deal, what do i do to make him talk to me, and work this whole situation out,please help mee! thankss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? skater_girl_rocks answered Thursday December 29 2005, 1:55 am: hey i get you you know what, lets put your feet in his shoes hes nerves its the first girlfriend or maybe you should brake it off and tell him maybe he needs time too get hes self together and i know the people you like most sometimes you got to let them fly away because maybe hes not right for you or maybe hes not ready or you just need to show him theres nothing to be nerves abut him or maybe you should talk to him about it and ask you know whats up with you hope i helped god bless
xOViLLYxO answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:39 am: Just talk to him about and tell him all your feelings. Do this in a note or online.Then if he still isn't really responding then he isn't worth your time. I know this sounds mean but I'm sure your really pretty and he is missing out one heck of a chance ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
gRetCheNnnNn answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:44 am: No offense but if he blows off calling you back and stuff, I don't think he's worth it. But since you say you realllllllly like him I know how you feel.......and I think you should just tell him in person how you feel. Tell him everything is fine and he doesn't need to be so shy around you. and find out exactly how much he likes you or not. Maybe ask him if you should be better off being friends, and if that happens and you two break up and you move on to a different guy..make him jelous lol then he will want you back.
Sorry for sounding mean at the beginning lol good luck!!!
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HCOxBABE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:19 pm: Maybe you could write him a note explaining everything that's on your mind. If he doesn't write back, keep trying to call him & talk to him online if you can. If he doesn't even try to hang out or talk to you then maybe you should move on to another guy. He said he doesn't like you as much as he used to, so maybe it's the right thing. There's plenty more guys out there for you. [ HCOxBABE's advice column | Ask HCOxBABE A Question ]
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