Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:52 pm
hey,i am going out with this dude that i am totally obsessed with.we always do everything with eachother.i guess you can say we are madly inlove.theres just one problem,are sex is not that good.it just dosent feel great,pleasing,fun.the last guy i was with it was awesome,but i dont know what to do.
Sometimes people just click sexually and sometimes they don't.
Don't expect every guy you date to be incredible in bed right off the bat, but if you aren't really enjoying yourself it is time to tell him what you do enjoy. Don't compare him to others you've been with, just describe what works for you.
Go slow, give clear instructions and listen to his desires as well. Chances are if you aren't thrilled, he isn't either and will be all for improving your understanding of each other in bed. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:24 pm: That must suck.But if you two are "madly in love" I don't think just because the sex isn't good that it shoudl really matter.That shouldn't bother you that much.I it does just talk to him about..♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
xO_Hollister_xO answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:18 pm: Does it matter? I mean.. sex isnt the most important thing is a relationship. Sorrie if this isn't the answer you were looking for.. ;)
peggy_x0o answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:13 pm: , thatz okk just because the sex isnt the best ; that shouldnt be ur main priority , you really love him and thatz all that matters
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