|
Alright well, theres this kid and if I don't talk to him I start missing him. And when I ask myself if I like him I say no. But then when I miss him I start thinking I really do like him. I think im confused. Hes not really my type but hes so fun to talk to, and hes so funny. He understands all my weird jokes. Were like the same person but differnt genders. I dont get why I keep telling myself that I dont like him. I get frustraited about it too. I think that that is what my question is. So if you can tell me why I keep telling myself I dont like him, that would be great. Thank you! <3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I think your telling yourself this because you really like him but are afraid to admit it to yourself.I have had that happened.You two seem perfect and he seems like a good b.f as much as you tell your self you dont like him I think it's just that scared to admit it and that is perfectly normal ♥
]
Well, this can go two ways really
The first way, you could be telling yourself that you dont like him and you really dont like him. It is like a conflict with ure heart and your brain. I have been through many phases like this where i think i might like someone because i have been so close with them for a few weeks but then it will pass.
But on the other hand, you really might like him, and something is holding you back. Maybe something from a past boyfriend if you have had one (Usher - You Remind Me <<I love listening to songs that relate to my situation...depressing but fun) But yeah, there may be something that you dont go for in a guy or something that reminds you of someone that you hate, and your body fears it and thats why it is rejecting the feeling of liking him.
I suggest give it some time and see how it goes. A few weeks maybe, that is how long it took me to realise that i didnt actually like someone, it was just my mind playing tricks. Dont rush into things, i did once and asked the girl out, and then got rejected which worked out for the better as a week later i realised i didnt like her at all.
Hope i have helped
Sanj
]
Mabye you keep telling yourself that you dont like him because you really dont. You may just concider him a good guy friend (which is always good to have). If he makes you laugh and hes fun to talk to start hanging out with him more, im sorry that i cant tell you how your feeling, but you could end up becoming best friends, or ever something more, thats up to you. I hope this helped!
..:jenny
]
More Questions: |