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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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I am 13 and I'm a female. A few of my guy friends seem to act real nice around me, but when they're around each other, they say bad things about me. I'd like to know if I can trust them.

you should talk to them about it. tell them that your getting sick of them doing that. tell it to them in a firm voice. and just to let you know, some guys do that bc they dont want other guys to know they are sweet to girls. its a guy thing..: /
ya it gives me the creaps too but w/e, there is nothing we can do about it execpt tell them we dont like it.

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uhmm this is gay but, wat are some sites that you can't get bored of, i've had xangas,buddy4upros, madpros,picturetrails,webshots,myspcae and all these other sites, but i always get bored of them ...somebody help me fine a fucking good site!!!

xomeox

wel....if your a girl...then i sugest www.gurl.com it has quizzes, ALOT of games, stories, and horoscopes. if your a boy.......good luck on that.

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hey everyone, cheerleading just started for me,becuase we start in the summer, well were trying to find 3 songs to use for our competition dances. they can be ANY kind of music, well that is possible to do a dance that would be cute too and the song should be one to get us in a winning mood. well if anyone can give me ANY song suggestions it would ABSOLUTELY GREAT && APPRETIATED. thankss sooo much!!!

O! O! O! I KNOW ONE!
loose control by missy eliot! its i REALLY cool song to dance to! ya!

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mmmkay this august im starting highschool. i went to a catholic school all my life, and i was there for 9 years. It was really small, so everyone was my friend, and i loved just talking and laughing with them. I also really liked the school, the teachers were awesome. Im going to an all girls catholic highschool with some of my girl friends, and most of my guy friends r going to the all boys school that we have like dances w/ nd stuff. Im really sad that the 9 years is over. Wat if we dont stay friends? And what if i dont make new friends? How will i get a boyfriend wen im in an all girls school? I mean, im not very pretty, and i dont wear makeup. Im big and muscular, and a major tomboy. I know its a lot of questions, but i need help!

ok first thing....TAKE A CHILL PILL! its gonna be ok! alright, keep in touch with your friends..call them and meet up with them places. and to prevent not making friends...be nice to everyone. go up to people and just introduce yourself and start talking. and you can always get a boyfriend that lives aroud you..and if you dont then...who needs a bf anyway! and...sigh..fro your LAST question, you need a boy friend who doesnt care about looks. like i said before, be nice to everyone and get involved. people will like you and you have a better chance to get a boy friend.

i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

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okay so I have had my screen name for about .. 5 years? and i think i need to change it.. Can anyone give me some good screen names for like fashion or like something with fendi or burberry in it? thanks a lot

bubble_slide202

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I plan on waiting till i get married to have sex. But why is it so hard to find a guy that feels the same? Like on TV, all the guys seem like pigs, and that they only love women to get sex out of them. I want a guy who feels the same why i do, but why r they so hard to find?

guys are just weird like that. i mean when their alone thats all they talk about...trust me, my best friend is a guy. see, guys dont rush into things because they think we will dump them if they make a move too soon. they want us to make the first move. i know its hard to find one but its ok. just wait the guy your looking for will come to you....

i hope i helped and please rate me!

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I really am uncomfortable about my weight. I'm only about 106 pounds but im really short. All i can think about is what i'm eating and what i look good in. I don't think im anorexic, but i just want to stop over obsessing about eating but i don't know what to do. I just want to stop.

alright, i dont think anyone is completely happy with their weight so dont fret! dont eat nothing at all just eat wat you want just smaller portions of it. or you could try eating alot of fruit instead of junk food. get active also...you have no clue how good you feel afterwards. hope i helped and feel free to ask anything else.

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Well,this guy i really like asked me out and i like him soo much no one will ever understand but hes dating one of my friends and i don't want her mad at me ! and my BEST friends older sister dated him too and now my best friends whole family is going to hate me !! And my best friends older sister is gonna wanna beat me up !! im soo scared please help !! i really like this guy and i need to get over my ex so what do i do ?
THANKS

i really think you should talk to your friend. tell her you love her like a sister but you like that guy. tell her that you would never perpously hurt her, but you dont know wat to do anymore. i hope i helped and feel free to ask anything else.

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hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?

ok, well, i know this is gonna sound discusting but you could always hand wash it....or wash it in the mashine yourself....

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i am going to a new school next year, and although i know four other friends going, they arent my close friends and my best friends are staying at my old school. im going to be a freshman and im really scared. although i have been to four different schools, ive never been to a big public school before. the largest ive ever been to had 87 students. im worried i wont make friends and im hoping you will help me find a way to meet people.
thanks!

YOU CAN DO IT! listen once you get there just be friendly and say hi to people you sit by in your classes. i know this is really hard for you but i know you can do it bc i was a REALLY shy person last year and then when i went into my new school not knowing anyone, i thought to myself that i could make this experience a good one or a bad one...it was my choice. you have that choice too. rember to be nice to everyone....yes even nerds. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

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I love my boyfriend SOOOOO much! i wod do ANYTHING for him! today he went to juvi... he'll b there for 30 days! its 8:30p.m and i havent stopped crying since 11 o'clock last night! i cant sleep and i cant get him outta my head... i have a past with getting depressed VERY easily and i dont want that to happen. i no 30 days doesnt seem like a lot but im VERY clingy and kind of a cry baby wen it caomes to him. i really need to pull myself together and get out of the house but i just cant bring myself to get up! i feel so alone and sad but at the same time mad at him for leaving me like this! all last night i was in his arms crying and i wod do ANYTHING to get him bak and just to hold him one last time til he comes bak! everyone cinseders me as a strong person but i feel like i cant survive without him! hes my love, my life, my everything! and i dont no wot the hell im gonna do for the next months! im an emotional reck and my parents r getting really worried about me! im usually the one giving ppl advice but i cant figure out wot the hell im gonna do! please help!

i know you dont know it but its gonna be ok! ya know wat i do when im down..i listen to music.
listen to alot of rock or sad songs. its ok to cry and be down for awhile, just dont do it for that long. your bf will be back so think of it this way....he is probably thinking of you right now. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else....feel better : )

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well i think im falling for this guy that used to go out with one of my family members and i dont know if he likes me back but i think im falling for this guy but i dont know!?!?!? should i talk to him about it or should i just dont say nuttin to him???? help me please cause im cunfussed

thanks

yes you should say something! maybe he does like you, you never know...just go for it! life is short so dont watch it pass by.....live it!

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i'm shy and need some help boosting up my conversations

Thanz

Tamia

take a deep breath and say to yourself that you are your own person and you can do anything you set your mind to. dont even think about it....just do

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what does this quote i thOuGht WhUt diD A LiL jEALOuSy EvER dO? bUt gUEsS WUt it [r U i N E d] mE N yOU mean?

i dont know....maybee its LiFe Is CoNfUsiNg!!!!?!?!?!?!?
you think?
lol

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Okay, so my boyfriend's mom is moving away soon, and she and I are the same size, so she's been packing up a couple of boxes of clothes to give me. I appreciate it, 'cause she has awesome style and we have similar tastes, but I feel like I should give her something in return. At least something to remember me by.
I love her like a second mom and I'm gonna miss her like crazy.
What do you guys think I should give her? I can knit, but somehow I doubt she'll want a scarf in Florida, lol.
Ideas? She's artistic, she loves colorful things, etc...

wow that is really cool how you are so close to your boyfriends mom. i think you should get her a neclace or a some earings. or maybe you could make a braclet so she can think of you when she has it.

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I know there have been alot of kissing questions from other people so I'm sorry if this has been asked multiple times. How do I know when I'm ready to french kiss? Me & my boyfriend haven't been dating long but we've known eachother a while & we makeout alot, just without the tongue. Will it just happen? Will we talk about it?

it would be weird to talk about it in my opion. so while your making out just kinda use some touge. dont make it with TOO much touge but just some.

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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.

k, just so you know there is absolutly NOTHING wrong wtih being lesbian! ok, and your friends dont really have a say in how you feel. tell your friends that you cant help this and you dont want to be treated any diffrently. tell them that you like to be there friends and your stilll the same person youve always been. hope i helped out and feel free to ask anything else.

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what are symptoms of diabetes?

it means theres a chance you could have it...

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Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them????

sit them BOTH down at the same time. take a deep breath and say "mom, dad, i have something to tell you both, i found this site and its for gay massaging....." then tell them that it wasnt you who put it on there. who knows...it could just be a mis understanding...but if its not theres NOTHING wrong wtih that...hope i helped you

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whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

its the same thing......i think

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