Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them????
Madeline answered Friday July 15 2005, 1:59 am: Just confront your parents and say, i was checking our History on our computer and i found a website with all these gay guys on it. I didn't do it, do you know anything about it? You'll most likly be able to tell who was looking at it by their reactions.
wow i would be freaked out to if i found that on there. wow. but there is a possiable way it could just get on there like if you got a pop up. trust me its possiable. it might sound not true but it is. now if you have a pop up blocker then it could be your parents but why would they be looking at porn espically gay if they want to get playboy lol. but i dont think your 7 year old sister would know about something like that.
Me_Help_You answered Thursday July 14 2005, 7:18 pm: maybe your little sister was on and accidently clicked on something. She is seven! So it's proabably nothing.
If you want to ask your parents about this, simply ask them "Have you been on my account on the computer?" and if they say yes, ask them if they had been to any inapropiate websites. And take it from there. [ Me_Help_You's advice column | Ask Me_Help_You A Question ]
theanarchism answered Thursday July 14 2005, 6:47 pm: Put the situation into perspective. Rather than focusing on the bad possibilities that your parents or sister were searching this intentionally, think, well what if they were? What about it? Would it directly affect you? Isn't it their choice? You may seem offended by it but at the end of the day, whether it was there or not, ninety nine point nine percent suggests you were not intended to find it.
And just like others have stated, it's most likely an accident. This should be confronted in my opinion because you don't want to confuse yourself any longer which will only lead to confusion and frustration. You need to take a calm approach and ask your parents if they know why it is on there. I wouldn't jump to your defence straight away with saying it wasn't you who put it on there because it will make them suspicious if they know nothing about it. Just try a private conversation, explain that it is on there and you don't know why.
I hope I helped.
Emily. [ theanarchism's advice column | Ask theanarchism A Question ]
X0C0URT answered Thursday July 14 2005, 6:17 pm: It could have been a pop up ad or someone might have accidentally clicked on something without knowing what it was. You know how computers can be. Don't worry about it because it's probably nothing.
ncblondie answered Thursday July 14 2005, 5:02 pm: It's possible that someone just clicked on the wrong link or accidentally clicked on a pop-up. Pop-ups are a pain in the hind end and often send you places you never expected to go. If it really bothers you, calmly talk to your parents and tell them that you found this site in the address bar and your feelings on it. Note I said calmly. If they feel like you're accusing them, they will get defensive and more than likely you'll end up in trouble. Not everyone agrees with what their parents do but sometimes we just have to turn a blind eye to the things we don't like. Good luck. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
charmed3fanatic answered Thursday July 14 2005, 3:57 pm: i wouldn't say anyting to them because they would be afraid to admitt it.. yeahh it is most likely your parents did it... they could have went there on an accident you know? like maybe it was your mom looking for something and she saw that site and thought it was something else... or maybe not.. so i hope i helped.. and best of luck .. if you need anyting else let me no [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
wildNcrazy231 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 3:53 pm: This is a long shot but maybe your Dad is gay. Just putting it out there but its probably not true.
It might be some kind of virus that put it there but thats just a guess. [ wildNcrazy231's advice column | Ask wildNcrazy231 A Question ]
southsideboy answered Thursday July 14 2005, 3:41 pm: Maybe you should just leave it alone I mean mostly after all it's there business of what they do if they're gay or not but if you really think it's your business go ahead and talk to them it's not like it's gonna hurt right.
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cookierat123 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 3:40 pm: sit them BOTH down at the same time. take a deep breath and say "mom, dad, i have something to tell you both, i found this site and its for gay massaging....." then tell them that it wasnt you who put it on there. who knows...it could just be a mis understanding...but if its not theres NOTHING wrong wtih that...hope i helped you [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
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