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boyfriends in juvi and im getting more depressed by the minu
I love my boyfriend SOOOOO much! i wod do ANYTHING for him! today he went to juvi... he'll b there for 30 days! its 8:30p.m and i havent stopped crying since 11 o'clock last night! i cant sleep and i cant get him outta my head... i have a past with getting depressed VERY easily and i dont want that to happen. i no 30 days doesnt seem like a lot but im VERY clingy and kind of a cry baby wen it caomes to him. i really need to pull myself together and get out of the house but i just cant bring myself to get up! i feel so alone and sad but at the same time mad at him for leaving me like this! all last night i was in his arms crying and i wod do ANYTHING to get him bak and just to hold him one last time til he comes bak! everyone cinseders me as a strong person but i feel like i cant survive without him! hes my love, my life, my everything! and i dont no wot the hell im gonna do for the next months! im an emotional reck and my parents r getting really worried about me! im usually the one giving ppl advice but i cant figure out wot the hell im gonna do! please help!
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Hey, the first thing you need to realize is that it isnt your fault that he went to juvi. He did something wrong and now he has to deal with the consiquences. I think the first thing you should do is write him a letter telling him how you feel about the whole thing. Then you should call up some of your friends and just get out of the house. I know its hard to force yourself to do something when you feel like shit, but you have to pull through for yourself to make yourself feel better. As soon as youre out with some friends, youll probably forget about him for a little while at least. For now, just try not to think about it, and try to get out of the house and occupy yourself. I hope I helped hun, just leave one in my inbox if you need anything else.
xo_xo Kerri
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Some people sit down and write a letter to their loved one who will be gone for a period of time. Write a letter every day until such time you are able to deliver the letters to him,it shows that you are thinking of him and at the same time it gets your thoughts and frustrations out on paper and that will make you feel better.
The fastest way to get away from sadness is to keep busy,busy,busy! Join a club ,do some volunteer work.
I hope this helps
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Your boyfriend sounds like a really good person to be around. It is hard to be without them. My mom used to always tell me distance makes the heart grow stronger. It will make the time when he comes back more pleasant. If possible email,mail, or phone calls would be great. One thing I do have to say is not to be TOO clingy. It can scare them off. Feel Better. Invite your best girlfriends over since you cant get out. They know how to make you laugh.
~luvnz~
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i know you dont know it but its gonna be ok! ya know wat i do when im down..i listen to music.
listen to alot of rock or sad songs. its ok to cry and be down for awhile, just dont do it for that long. your bf will be back so think of it this way....he is probably thinking of you right now. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else....feel better : )
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IF you feel this bad with him gone thirty days, what are you going to do when he goes to jail for years. He wasn't thinking about you and how devasted you would be when he got in enough trouble that he had to be sent away. He has control over his actions, and he chose to think of himself. What he did was wrong because it devasted two people and messed up their lives. I think it is time to find a new boyfriend who wouldn't do something that would cause him to leave you alone. What if you were married with children and relied on his paycheck and now he is being sent away because he was thoughless and selfish and did something that jeopardized his freedom and now the whole family suffers. This is a sign for you. Please read it as that. AS bad as you feel now, it can get worse. much worse.
I hope you listen. In any event, I wish you luck dear. I do know you fee, and I wish I could go back and change some of the things I did. I didn't have anyone to advise me and truthfully, I don't know if I would have listened, but I know now I would wish that I had.
Michele
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