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i just quit my current j0b and i want to get an0ther 0ne.

i was a baby sitter [im 0nly 15]

what other job could i d0 i really need an0ther j0b (link)
maybe y0u c0uld w0rk at a gr0cery st0re...0r learn t0 type...


alright, so me and my boyfriend have talked about making out, and today we came really close to it, and then it didn't happen.. we talked tonight, and he said that he just doesn't have enough confidence, to make the move.
he said i should.
but i don't know if i should or not.
should i make the move, or let him? (link)
Go for it. Someone has to or this relationship will get no where! If its your first time its might seem awkward but after the 1st time it will get better i promise!!

Good Luck!!!


Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.

I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.

Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?

Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.

Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.

Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.

She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.

It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.


I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.

Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.

I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.

Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do. (link)
I think she still has feelings for him and she is in denial. But to be 100% honest, I'd be really pissed if my friend started dating my ex boyfriend, I'd probably kick her ass. But if you feel the relationship is more important than go for him forget about her. Maybe in time she will come around and see that its just a guy and your friendship is more important. If she meets another guy she likes i'm sure she wont care anymore.

Good Luck!!!!!


Ok so i love my boyfriend and everything we have been going out for 9 months but its like i want to expiriment with other guys instead...its like im sick of him... i have a guy in mind his cousin... but he has a girlfriend.. but i think he would break up with her for me because he walked in on her cheating on him

what should i do (link)
honestly i recommend not doing it.

first of all if you have something good..why ruin it? it might get boring but thats how relationships are sometimes.

second of all, if you really are sick of him..don't go for his cousin..that could get extremely ugly. plus what if his cousin doesn't want to go out with his cousins ex cause he thinks its mean...then you end up single...

its just not a good ides..either pick a completely different guy or just stick it out with the current guy.

this probably isn't the answer you wanted but i think you should consider it.


I NEED to get a job. I really dont want to work in the fast food industry because thats gross. Im 15/F. Any ideas? (link)
Babysitting!! For sure even if you dont like kids its good money. I hate kids n that what i did its good money. You could also try delivering the paper.. or just apply at random places they will call you back for the job if they accept people 15 years old.

:)

goodluck!!!


15/f

my friends all tell me i eat way too little, and im too skinny, but when i went to my doctor, he said, im close to below average, but still average. this is an example of how i eat daily..

BREAKFAST:
a strawberry banna smoothie. which contains like..
-1 cup ice.
-i strawberry, IT WAS KINDA BIG.
-1 banana
-1 cup of ice creamm.

LUNCH:
-half of a cucumber.
-with probably like 1 tablespoon of ranch dressing.

DINNER:
oh i had alot for dinner.
-half of a cheese sandwich
-some cherries. like 4 tops?


so i mean, is that not enough? i mean i only eat whne my stomach is growling. (link)
You should probably eat a little bit more. Just as long as your eating when your hungry and not starving yourself then you should be fine.

GoodLuck


Hey what are some fun and safe games for kids from 1-7?Or some good websites about babysitting. (link)
I babysit too and some fun games that we play are...

- Simon says
- Heads up seven up
- Duck Duck Goose
- Hide and seek
- Hopscotch
- Popcorn
- Red light Green light
- Jump rope?
- Four square

http://www.gameskidsplay.net/

good site


Hope I helped & Good Luck!!!


16/f
Sorry about the length of this.

I can't figure out what's wrong with my wrist. I looked up Carpal Tunnel and read a little about it, and found that it's 3x more common in women. I think my job is causing problems with my hands, but i'm not sure. I'm a cashier but I have to bag sometimes too. I have to lift heavy packages of waters and cat litter, etc. Then, if it doesn't scan right away, I have to twist it, causing my hand to hurt.

I don't know if this is significant, but when I was younger I used to twist my wrists on purpose and hold it there because I thought it was a weird feeling and wanted to see if I could keep getting it. I feel that that could have been the initial cause of this.

When i'm at work, if I bag too long, my wrist hurts. It's just recently hurting my arm as well. I shake it off when it hurts my wrist, but that's all I do for it. I can't tell if it's carpal tunnel or not, but I want to find out what it is.

Please don't tell me to go to a doctors, because I really would rather not at the moment. Just.. any ideas of what this could be? (link)
Ya, it could be some sort of arthritis of the hand and wrist. If it worsens anymore I would go to the doctor before it becomes any worse. You could be grinding down the cartilage between your bones.

Good Luck!

p.s. i hope you feel better


Does anyone know of some movies like Titanic and Poseidon? (link)
Have you seen Open Water...its not that great of a movie in my personally opinion but its a water and ship - like story. It's pretty much about people getting stranded in shark infested waters.


How come when I browse on myspace for my profile, it does does not show up? (link)
It could be that your profile is set for under a certain age.. I know if your like 14 or 15 it doesn't show up.


A family I babysit for is not paying me enough.Well actully I have a babysitting partner so we have to split the money but we need more so i can i ask for more without sounding greedy? (link)
Wow... i just had the same problem yesterday!! This is what i did...Just say something like.. Hi ____ can i ask you a question? Then be like do you think we do a good job baby sitting? Then be like well i was wondering if maybe we could start getting paid a little bit more? It should definitely help you start off then after that all should be well you will get the answer and not sound greedy

good luck!!!


I'm starting high school this year, I'm curious to know how much pressure there is to drink, smoke, and have sex. I know some of my good friends that have changed alot, but I also know tons of kids that haven't changed a bit! I have strong goals, I don't drink or smoke however I have taken part of sexual activity. Any tips to staying strong in high school? Most of my friends have drank or smoke, but none of them have pressured me. (its usually an if-you-want-to type of thing) Should I expect that to change alot? (link)
It depends what kind of school you go to. I go to a school that it is strongly discouraged to drink, smoke, etc. Parents are very overprotected at my school. We are safe from that stuff, so I feel it's safe to enter High School. I'm enerting 9th grade this year too.

Your school seems like some people do it and some people don't. It depends how much peer pressure you can take. I understand you have a hard foot about drink, smoke, etc. You won't do it. I don't blame you. It will change your whole life. When your friends ask you one, strongly in a harsh voice that you won't and don't pressure me. Tell them you don't want to and never will. Your friendship with the drunkers or smokers will change. They might never want to be your friend. Don't worry about that. True friends don't pressure friends. If your friends say they won't be your friend if you don't do something they won't be your friend, ignore that and move on. Good luck!


ohkayy does anyone know the songg that goes like...
like this?
like this?
like this?
yeahh i tried to google it but nothing came up.
i'd like the song, lyrics, and who sings it.
thankss =] (link)
it could be either

like this - mims
OR
like this- kelly rowland ft. eve
but this one says bump like this not just like this

hope i helped


i have a serious question. my boyfriend and i decided to kind of go all the way. well i dont want ot yet but he went inside me. he didnt go all the way and my hymen didnt break. does this mean were not virgins anymore? (link)
Different people have different definitions of "virgin." If there was no movement while he was inside you I don't consider that losing your virginity. I consider losing your virginity when you have sex and the guy cums inside of you [with or without a condom]. That's just me though.


if you watched porn on the internet is there any way that the government can find out that you actually aren't 18? i'm worried im going to get caught or something. (link)
Not that I know of. They can't do anything to you for watching it anyway unless you decided to steal a porn video from a video store.


17/f ok so its the summer and i've been home alone everyday. i don't have a car and i live in the middle of nowhere so i don't get out much. during the school year after school i would walk to my boyfriend's house and we'd do stuff but now we can't do that and he's working anyway. well my point is lately i've been so horny that i've been masturbating everyday sometimes 3 times a day and i feel like if i don't do it i'll only be hornier. im a virgin but my boy friend has fingered me and things like that. i never knew i had such a strong sex drive. is it normal for a girl to masturbate that much? (link)
Yeah that's totally normal. Masturbation = Fun.


ok so i was playing around with this guy and i gave him a hand job. and i had to go so i guess i didnt finish. unless for some reason i didnt notice. but my shorts were on but they are really short shorts and i might as well of been wearing underwear. any way i cud be pregnant?? i know it sounds stupid but im just stressing a little.

thank you so much! (link)
I highly doubt you are. No need to worry sweetie. =)


if you are a good kisser or a bad kisser?
or can you tell? (link)
I suppose you just have to ask someone. As long as you don't slobber all over their face when you're kissing them, you're probably not a bad kisser. =)


i`m a 16 year old girl and i watch porn. is that weird? i also have a boyfriend who will do whatever i want with me whenever i want, but sometimes i still like to masturbate. is that weird? (link)
No it isn't. A lot of people watch porn, I do. I have a boyfriend like that and I still masturbate and I know he does too. There's nothing weird at all, masturbation feels good therefore what is wrong with making yourself feel good? Nothing at all. =)


Okay, I'm a fourteen year old girl. There's this guy who used to live pretty close to me and I've met him a few times. A couple years ago he moved to virginia. We started talking online a year and a half ago and we've fallen in love. He's 17. We decided that he can have his girlfriends and I can have my boyfriends. Well, my boyfriend is my brother's best friend. My brother told him about Drew [guy in virginia] and he's making me chose. I've been with my brother's best friend for four months now and I'm pretty sure we're gunna last. We're really good together. But, I've loved Drew for about a year. But, my boyfriend's here and drew's not. I'm honestly clueless. I have no idea what to do. Help please? I'd reallllllyyyy appreciate it. (link)
Stay with your boyfriend especially if you think you guys will last a while. This Drew character doesn't live near you so why choose a guy who you'll barely see over a really good relationship that you have now. Don't go with Drew, it isn't worth it at all.




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