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what should i do?
alright, so me and my boyfriend have talked about making out, and today we came really close to it, and then it didn't happen.. we talked tonight, and he said that he just doesn't have enough confidence, to make the move.
he said i should.
but i don't know if i should or not.
should i make the move, or let him?
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if you think you are both ready to: and you both want to& he says that he wants you to make the first move.. i think you should. but if he decides to pull away then just let him. dont force him into anything he doesnt want to do.
best of luck!
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I say, go for it. It's obvious you're boyfriend isn't going to make a move anytime soon, so just initiate it with a kiss and then start getting yo tongue action on. :) I'm assuming this is ya'lls first time making out and this is why ya'll seem nervous? Main thing: Don't be sloppy and attack his face. Or stick your tongue down his throat. Start off gentle, please. o____o; You don't want him to think you're some kind of monster O_O
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Go for it. Someone has to or this relationship will get no where! If its your first time its might seem awkward but after the 1st time it will get better i promise!!
Good Luck!!!
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If your boyfriend prefers that you make the first move, then do it. When you kiss him, just start to make out.
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I personally like the boys making the first move, but everbody's different when it comes to that type of stuff.
Sometimes you dont even have to plan who makes the first move, at times you both can kind of want to...and then all the sudden it happens. :)
You probably dont want it all sloppy, so if you do plan to make the first move, take it nice and slow. Go from gently kissing him, then pull away, then kiss him again...and kinda work your way into his mouth, and while doing this you could actually get him to make the first move. He wont even realize what you're doing.
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