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What's the best chapstick?? My lips hurt badly. :( ♥ Teza (link)
Heyy lovee



Awww that sucks.
I use Blistex because chapstick really doesn't work for me for some reason.


Hope you feel better sweety


What are some ways to calm down and relax? School is making me CRAZY. I'm extremely stressed out and I just feel like giving up. HELP PleaSE. (link)
Hey love.

Ahh I know exactly how you feel.


What I do is lay down and blast my music.
Listen to something loud that will just make you want to get up and dance.
(You can drop one in my inbox if you need some song suggestions I have plenty)



Go take a walk in a park or just around your block or you can jog too.


You can never go wrong with a bubble bath.


Hope you feel better ♥


ok. i say labels should be between a soup can and its wrapper. im NOT A GOTH and im NOT PUNK! i hate labels. and i wish theyd stop. how do i get people to see im not a goth or anything,but keep my style of clothing and stuff. please dont say dont worry abt what people think. even my own friends call me emo

--thx (link)
Every one has different thoughts towards different things.

Some one may be walking down the street wearing a shirt, jeans, and a hoodie from A & F. That doesn't always mean that they are preppy. They might just be wearing the outfit because they find it comfortable.
From another person's point of view, they are going to assume that the person walking down the street is automatically a prep.


Putting a label on people is just like judging them with out getting to know them first.
No one can change what a person thinks.


So dress the way you feel comfortable with and just ignore what people think of you and/or label you as because you can't really do anything about it but just ignore it.
If you waste your time explaining to them that you are not a goth chances are they are not
going to listen to you or think differently.





ok, ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 or 9 months now and he is REALLY special to me. and he wont give me any ideas what to get him and i cant think of anything good enough to get him! he's 14 years old. i want to get him something special! PLEASE HELP ME! ill rate 5s promise. (link)
Well what does he like?

If he's into games you can get him video games, games for his PSP if he has one.


You can get him his favorite band's CD.

You can make him a scrap book full of pictures of you two and write cute little quotes everywhere and the memories you have together.
I think that is such a cute idea.


What ever you get him I'm sure he will love it.


I bought my boyfriend of two months, an Ecko tshirt, an earring, & a 10 dollar gift card @ Barnes and Nobles. I didn't want to go overboard since we've literally only known each other 2 months, but do you think that seems like enough?
Thanks. (link)
Yeah that is enough.
I'm sure he will love it.


Okay, I need your opinion. I'm writing a song and I need a title first according to my vocalist. Please pick your fave out of the choices below:
a) Hollywood Heartbreak
b) Generation Change (sounds 70's right?)
c) Beautiful Heartbreak
d) Broken change/ promise
(On d, change or promise? if you chose d.)

Any other suggestions on titles? Or anything else about songwriting in general? I'll rate high. (link)
That is so cool that you write songs.
I really like Hollywood Heartbreak.


do you think it's bad to but everyone the same thing for christmas? like all of your friends? (link)
I don't think that is a bad idea at all.


I'm 14/f. I have a dozen good friends, and I need to find cute gifts to get them all for Christmas. They're all girls, and I'd appreciate some cute ideas or something (preferably 15 bucks or under per gift). If anybody has any ideas, like how to wrap the gifts or what I should give them, then let me know. They're all normal girls who like girly things, just to give you an idea of what I'm looking for. Fives for all who respond. (link)
You can buy them each a cute little gift bag and put make up in each bag.
You can never go wrong with that.


You can buy them bracelets, rings, earings.







Does anyone know the social hierarchy (like kings and slaves, and what's in between) for Ancient Greece? I'm doing a project on Ancient Greece and I don't know the order or anything that is between the Kings and Slaves. I've been searching Google for the past 15 minutes. It's not working =/

And I'm not asking for you to do my homework, I'm just asking for a little help, because I've already tried to get it. Can anyone help me here? Thanks (link)
http://www.bergen.org/AAST/Projects/Egypt/egyptian_social.html


http://members.aol.com/TeacherNet/AncientGreece.html




So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too. (link)
I use Maybelline EverFresh Concealer.
It works really well.

For dry skin try using lotion like Dove.



I LOVE music but i need something new to listen to what are some good bands??

i like mostly rock and altenative music.

5's for anything. (link)
My favorite band right now would be "Acceptance"



Also here are a few songs that I'm really into right now:


Zeromancer - Famous Last Words

Fallout Boy - Saturday

Hellogoodbye - Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn

Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

3 Days Grace - I Hate Everything About You




Hey Guys!!
Can you give me some songs about **LOVE yea i want stuff bout like how my boyfriend is good and how i feel about him.. I wouldn`t like any mariah carey or anyting new please.. nothin about breaking up either.. Thanks (link)
1st Lady - Never be replaced

98 Degrees - You Are My Everything

112 - love you like I do

Aerosmith - I Don't Want To Miss A Thing

Andain - Beautiful Things

Amanda Perez - I Pray

Armin Van Buren - Sky Falls Down

Ashlee Simpson- Coming Back for More, Endless Summer

Aslyn - That's When I Love You

Astaire - L-L-Love

ATC - Im In Heaven When You Kiss Me

Bon Jovi - I'd Die For You, Always

Bosson - One in a Million

Britney Spears - The Answer

Candee Jay - Lose This Feeling

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

Chris Cagle - Miss Me Baby

Christina Milian - L.O.V.E.

Ciara -And I

Debelah Morgan- Dance With Me, Yesterday

Destinys Child -Cater 2 U

DJ Babyboi - By My Side

DJ Mystic - Kiss Me

Fefe Dobson - Everything

If you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥



So I got in a fight with this guy that I was basicly seeing and it was because I got jelouse when i heard he was hanging out with other girls. I really want him back cause Im head over heals for him.
What can I do to get him back? (link)
You should just talk to him and tell him how miserable you are without him.
Tell him that it was wrong of you to get jealous and you trust him.


Hope everything works out ♥


What are some really good songs? (link)
4 Strings - Fly Away, Until You Love Me, Beautiful Child

Amber - Flying Above The Clouds,

Andain - Beautiful Things

Angel City - Do You Know, Sunrise

Armin Van Buren - Sky Falls Down, Burned With Desire

ATC - Im In Heaven When You Kiss Me, My Heart Beats Like A Drum

ATB - Ecstasy

The Veronicas - 4ever

Acceptance - Bleeding Heart

Trina ft. Kelly Rowland - Here We Go Again

Yellowcard - Way Away, Lights And Sounds

Zeromancer - Famous Last Words



ill give 5's for this!

who sings this song:
im lookin for attention
not another question

a girl sings this song and thats all i know about it so ya. thanks (link)
Kelly Clarkson - Walk Away



ok so i like this guy named joe and he's really hard to figure out...so i don't know if he likes me. he flirts with me but i really don't know. there's this dance at my skool in two weeks and i don't know if he'll ask me, should i ask him to the dance or would that be wrong since guys are supposed ask...WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
Actually some guys would find it pretty cute and brave if a girl asked them out.
If you really like him and you are not sure if he likes you and you want to ask him to the dance then go right ahead.
There is nothing wrong with that.


i see my picture BIG but someone said my picture was TINY. can anyone help & tell me what they see?? juss answer this & ill give my column.

thanks!! (link)
I had the same problem a week ago only I saw the picture small and others saw it big.
What I did was that I deleted the picture and tried putting it up the next day and it was fine.


I'm pretty sure i'm a christian. But i sometimes doubt God and if he's there or not. Does this mean that, if i like... died tomorrow, i would go to hell. Am i not allowed to doubt God? It seems like the only people who are considered religious are the ones like "i'm sure he's real b/c i've read his word and i believed it" but... i'm a very doubtfull person and i can't just believe things like that. Does this mean i'm not going to Heaven? (link)
It's perfectly normal to doubt God sometimes.
Alot of people do once in a while.
I personally don't believe there is really a Hell.
I believe that no matter who you are you are still going to heaven.
But that is just my opinion.
Just because you may doubt God once in a while does not make you a bad person and does not mean you are going to Hell.


http://fashionbug.charmingshoppes.com/Shopping/product.aspx?product_id=FM002607&nav=FM

Anyone think that shirt is cute cause i want to buy it (link)
That shirt is so adorable.
You should so get it.
And it looks better in black.


well ive been a veggietarian(spelled wrong i no) for almost 2 years now and i realized that since i stopped eating meat, all i have been eating is junk food and i want to start eating healthier. does anybody know any sites that have recipes for veggitarians? or does anyone know what i can eat to replace meat? please be detailed
xoxo (link)
http://vegetarian.allrecipes.com/


http://vegetarian.about.com/


http://www.lanierbb.com/recipes/vegetarian.html


http://www.vrg.org/recipes/


http://www.ivu.org/recipes/


http://www.webvalue.net/recipes/







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