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I'm 21 years old, have had my share of different types of relationships so I enjoy answering love life questions. Whether it's about getting closer emotionally or physically don't hesitate to ask, hopefully I'll be able to help. I also love the medical field and will be a registered nurse soon. If you have any questions regarding a recent medical diagnosis (don't ask for one please, not a doctor) I can help you better understand it and the treatment as well
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if i eat just breakfast like a bagel in the morning and eat like a little bag of chips 150 calories and come home and go running for like 30 mintues, would that make me lose weight faster since i didnt eat that much and am probably burning more than i ate that day?
Thats way to little too eat especially if you do any kind of workout such as sports or just running. Its ok if you eat as long as its healthy try salads, fruit, and fish. Best of luck losing weight
what are some good techno songs/artists?
here is some good artisits
The Medic Droid
Panic At The Disco
and
Paul Oakenfold
18/f
I've liked my friend for a while and at my christmas party we were talking about relationships and we'd both just come out of one. We both said that we just want to have fun cos we're young but then we ended up kissing. After we were talking on msn and he asked if i have feelings for anyone so i said him and he apologised for what happened at the party and said if he knew he wouldnt have kissed me. Then at my friends New Years party it happened again but neither of us have mentioned it to each other and we're just acting like friends. So do i carry on with the way things are or try and do something to further the relationship? But im not very confident and wouldnt feel comfortable asking him out or anything.
Thanks!
It seems like he just wants to have fun and not have someone to hold him down from it. His ex girlfriend was probably the controlling type and he doesn't want to go through that again. I think you should just keep going on the way things are but if you want... drops hints if you have a feeling that he likes you. Good luck
Someone [my sorta kinda friend] asked me if I wanted to go smoke weed in the woods with him...I was with my other friend and she is a big flirt and is all like okay! [she didn't actually smoke anything, she was just playing around] but she walked off with him and I had said no. My kinda sorta friend was like, but you need a buddy to smoke with and I said, well I'm not that buddy. [I know the repructions of doing drugs and drinking and all that, so I declined on his offer knowing I could get hooked on it and throw my life away]
So then, my friend ditched me afterwards, not even telling me she had gone and didnt even say sorry the next day! She left me alone by myself, and i felt like a loser. How could my friend ditch me and say I'm uncool? Am I uncool because I don't want to do drugs? because I know I'm not uncool for doing that, so what's her problem? She always calls me emo and a downer, and I'm not even emo, I have friends that are "emo" but I'm not. what did I do to deserve this?? Any comments and answers would be greatly appreciated because I'm completley confused.
thanks in advance for whoever read that and took the time to answer my question.
Your not a loser that was a good decision you made not to do it. Just wait in a couple of years whats life gunna be like for your 2 friends. Your life is gunna be on track and theres is gunna be mest up. As for the emo and downer thing that just means you dont do what your peers tell you to do which is a good thing.
17/f and he's 18
We've dated 2 years but took a 2 month break a year ago.
Okay.
We decided to take another break on Sunday night, he said we had nothing in common and his parents and friends dont like me. But what hurt the most was when he said "I dont really see you in my future so i dont see the point in still dating" He said how people never marry their first love and if they do that they end up getting divorced because they have never been with other people.
I feel like he would have wanted to break up right then but I convinced him to just spend some time apart. So I thought about our relationship and realized if we got back together I would be the only one trying to change things and he wouldnt want to compromise on anything. I think I would be miserable in that relationship.
So today he texted me and said "I love you" and then a few minutes later said "Lets try to fix things thats if you still want to"
Honestly I'm not sure what to do. He is my first love and I want to be with him, but he said some pretty hurtful things and I'm not sure if HE is willing to make changes.
What should I do?
He realized that he made a mistake when he told you all that stuff i think his friends and family members just got to him. You should give him a second chance. Best of luck hope everything works out
Well it going to be my 14th birthda soon and i was just going to invite a bunch of friends to the movies and then to coldrock.Well its my friends birthday is the day before and i wan't going to invite her to the movies but what if she invites me to her and i don't invite her to mine..And she can pretty bitchy and get all my friends agaginst me.What should i do should i invite her or not?
If she invites you it would be nice to do the same but if she is going to ruin your b day then dont go to hers and dont invite her to yours.
Ok, this might be a little long. It really makes me wanna cry though. Ever since I left public school to be homeschooled, I've stayed up all night, and then slept all day the next day. For instance, I'm up now. I'm about to be going to sleep because my stomach hurts really bad, but this is the usual time I go. It's 7:50 in the morning. I really don't want my boyfriend to end up breaking up with me someday due to this fucked up schedule. I've just been so used to it for so long that I can't ever get to sleep at a reasonable time. And I usually do need more than 8 hours a night, or else I can't wake up for shit. It's really upsetting me. I got sleeping pills from walgreens with my boyfriend, but these ones are chewable. I needed chewable because I can't swallow pills, but they're so nasty. I can't stand the taste of them. So now I'm wanting ones I can swallow. Has anyone ever been in this position? My parent's won't really take me to a doctor. They know that this is all because I'm just used to being up at these hours. I'm aware that I'm gradually gonna have to start going to sleep a little earlier each night, and waking up a little earlier each day. Does anyone have any really good ideas for what I could do? Keep in mind I've been homeschooled ever since I started highschool. I'm in 11th grade right now. So it's been years. I'm a damn vampire and I need help. I constantly feel sick too and this is very unhealthy. If I had better hours I think I'd feel a lot better when I wake up. Even if I was going to sleep at 2 in the morning every night I think it'd still help me. I can never fall asleep easy, someone please help me! I need good ideas. Does anyone also know what time I should shoot for to go to sleep every night, and what time I should try to wake up everyday? Right now I've been trying to wake up at 2 everyday, and I'm trying to work my way up. I think the earlier I'd ever wanna get up is like 12:00. I haven't been waking up at 2 very easily cuz I've been feeling sick due to starting my period very soon. Does anyone know how I can actually wake up to my alarms, and just hop out of bed right away? What are some things I can do to force myself to stay up? It's already 8:00 and I have an alarm set for 2:00. I'm not getting as much sleep as I wanted, but I figure if I can wake up that early tomorrow, I might be tired earlier tomorrow night. Then I'd be able to fall asleep tomorrow night. Thank you so much to anyone who answers. Please try to answer all of these questions.
I get this problem frequently whenever i get a break from school what i do is stay up for a full day so i can go to sleep early or whenever i want to so ill be ready for school. Something i do every night before i go to sleep is listen to music makes me go to sleep alot faster then just trying. Hope this helps best of luck on your relationship
There is this young lady that I am in love with and i think that she has something for me. We have stopped speaking mayby 4 times but each time we found each other. when I am out and around I can see her looking at me or when we step into a room no matter where or how many people we always spot each other. Lately thing have been rough between us.. I was talking to her and somehow no matter how hard I try someone is always around do not like that too much any.. This morning I sent the Good morning email and she responded. " FINE I DO NOT WANT TO UPSET YOU BUT I DO NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING, HAVE A GOOD DAY' I RESPONDED "ONE QESTION THOUGH, DO YOU NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING OR NOT TALKING TO ME' AM i READING TOO MUCH INTO THIS. BECASUE i FEEL BAD NOW..
Im not sure on whats your question "reading too much into this"?
Does anyone know what the shoes the people in these pictures are wearing are called, or where I can get a pair?
http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6684/2250/1600/CIMG6395%7E.jpg
http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6684/2250/1600/CIMG6398.jpg
Or, does anyone know a similar shoe that exists?
Any help is much appreciated.
I cant really tell what they are but they look like puma's
Ok whenever i have proplems at school with someone im always kinda worried or scared about whats going to happen it gets me realy nervous or somethig i cant help it, please anyone with any ideas to help me or have similar problems tell me how to get over it
I use to have that problem a while back what i did before id get to school would say to myself "whatever happens happens" i dont know if that makes much sense but it helped me alot. If it doesnt work out you can always talk to someone about what your nervous about thats what best friends are for. Hope i helped best of luck.
i am 15 and a female. Okay i have really like this kid for a long time know, and i talk to him every once in a while at school. and last weekend i stayed at my friends house and she has a twin brother and he had the kid that i like sleep over, and i was kinda shy to like talk to him and everything for a little bit. but he was trying to talk to me but and i started talking to him and he like started flirting wiht me. do you think he likes me or he was jjust flirting becasue that is what guys do.
thanks.
It depends what kind of guy he is if he is really cocky and stuck up then there is a chance that he doesn't like you. If he is more of a gentlemen considerate then he does like you. Hope i helped best of luck
i have two questions. sorry.
questions #1
do guys think its attractive/sexy when girls queef?
question #2
my boyfriend's friends told me he can't cum. why is that? p.s. he is a really horny guy.
For question 1 no it is not attractive or sexy when a girl queefs. For question 2 maybe he is too young if he is over 13/14 or older i don't know what is wrong with him.
So i am starting to like this guy i work with! He just started working at my store... I am not sure if he likes me or not.. but i was just wondering if it is weird or not to date someone you work with?? and if we ever dated should we keep it a secret from everyone we work with?
It's not weird if you date someone you work with. I know alot of relationships that start like that. And if you do start dating him it would be best if you did keep it a secret from the other workers unless they are trustworthy. Best of luck
I have huge crush on this guy. I'm in 8th grade and 13/f. He talks to me a lot and every time we get new seating arrangements he always ends up sitting behind me. He pulls me hair and jokes around a lot too. I don't know what you would consider flirting though. But he talks to me about random things. We have some stuff in common so far that I know of. I wish he would ask me out, of course almost every girl would but if he ever did I might say no because of embarrassment. What do you think I should do? And by any chance do you think he might like me? I have 3 classes with him and 2 of them he talks to me. But of course he talks to other girls to but not a lot. Thanks so much!
Ya im sure he likes you the reason for him not asking you out yet may be because you havent dropped any hints that you like him or maybe he just hasent noticed them. Try a little harder on that and if it doesnt work you can always tell him how you feel. Best of luck
Hi my names carissa. ok this is sort of a typical advice question...DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT. But i think mine might be a little bit different. So heres the storry i've like this kid Ian for almost a year now, and hes never had any idea about it. And when i first started crushing on him he was a totally difffernt person- happy in-ur-face was soo nice ALL the time. and now (i think hes starting to hit puberty or somthing) but he has changed SO much. But i still manage to love him, even thoough hes a mean "im to cool for you stuck up kid." But when i first met him i had a huge feeling he liked me back, but now that hes changed i can never tell. i mean he hangs out with a bunch of girls n stuff and talks to me almost about as much i guess. and when he does hes kinda flirty, but hes so blane on t3xt and IM I can nvr tell!. and i just need help on how to figure out if he really has liked me this whole time or not. and how do i know if he does, when he has this new personality. im hanging out with him in a few weeks, i dont know what to expect.
DOES HE?
HELP ME!
xoxo caaariiiissuhh
It sounds like the good guy thing wasent working out for him so he changed to being more cocky and stuck up there are alot of guys that do that. I think you should tell him how you feel about him try to make it in person it means more when its like that and not over the phone or internet. Make sure you tell him how long you have (when the times right) he will probably go back to his old ways now that he knows that he doesnt have to act like someone he isent. Best of luck
its my boyfriends b-day soon so i was wondering about some things. we are best friends and i love him very much. ok first do guys like wallets? like if i got him a really nice wallet would he like it? or are guys not that into wallets? i absolutely have no clue im so bad with gifts for guys i usually just buy them gift cards :P thats why my bf is so hard!
haha anyway also he really likes hockey and collects hockey cards so if i bought him a bunch as a side gift would that be good? he just gets them at Giant Eagle and the last time i went with him he bought 5 so does should i buy him some too? and please i welcome ideas!!!
i will make him a card too and write him something but i wanted to buy him something as well. and another thing would he like it if i bought him a keychain maybe engraved cause hes turning 16 and getting his permit and stuff.
hes really into sports esp hockey and football and loves Sidney Crosby and hes a strong Christian like me :] and likes video games and music and videos but he buys music off of iTunes so maybe do another side gift of a gift card?
what about if i put a bunch of gifts together for him i was thinking i would do 16 things sum bought some made some meaningful and some inside jokes. does that sound good? thanx so much!!
i will rate ALL suggestions! thanx again and oh ya im hopefully taking him to this Japanese resturaunt because they have amazing food and both he and i are 25% Japanese :] its one of those places where they cook in front of you and stuff
A Wallet is a good gift but if your gunna buy him one make sure the one he has now doesnt mean much to him (he bought it himself). What you said about the 16 things sounds really creative always good. Hope i helped best of luck
I'm aware that what I'm about to ask isn't healthy, nor is it necessarily safe.
But I would like answers.
It's my choice to endager my health,
and you don't know me,
so please don't be so quick to judge.
HOW IS A QUICK WAY/ WHAT IS THE QUICKEST
WAY TO LOSE WEIGHT? PREFERABLY 10-15 lbs.
If you know of anyway, or something
that has worked for you - please let
me know I'd love some feedback.
Thank you thank you.
Im not sure how fast you are talking about but im sure in 2 weeks you can lose 10-15 pounds by eating salad,fish and or soup (not at the same time switch off) also start running if you havent started already 3 times a week at the least. Hope this helps best of luck.
I am sixteen and I have never even been kissed or had a bf... Is that normal? I am super shy ... like once i get comfortable with someone I'm not shy around them anymore, but if I don't know you you probably think I don't talk .. at all. It is especially bad around guys... I never say anything for risk of sounding stupid. I am very insecure and such. Also, my best friend is super beautiful, smart, outgoing, ect... and it seems that guys always go for her...And people who are far more shy then me and are kind of 'less popular' than me(even tho I fealt horrible saying that) have boyfriends and such... what is wrong with me??? I was just wondering if anyone had any advice... I know.. just be more outgoing, talk to people, step outside your comfort zone... I've heard that all before, but it never helps me any! I just feel like the only one who has never been kissed or even had a boyfriend! Please Help with ANY Advice!
The reason your so shy is because you don't have confidence in yourself in the way you look and act. As far as the being kissed and never had a bf maybe you just havent meet the right guy for you most teens settle just to have someone. Best of luck
Okay so there's this guy and he's very shy. He's a nervous speaker, not just around girls but in general and I've had a crush on him for a while now.
Trouble is I'm shy too and I can't really find the courage to straight up tell him I like him. We're not friends but we've spoken before, we're in the same class, we're acquantainces basically.
He looks at me alot in class, especially when I'm not looking (we sit almost on the same row so it's easy to see him even when I'm not looking directly at him) but he used to look alot last year when he was into this other girl all year.
There's no chance he's going to talk to me cause there's a general class joke that we like each other and whenever we talk one of his friends always makes a joke and like I said he's very shy.
How the heck do I know if I've got the wrong end of the stick or not? Cause last year I thought he liked me and it turned out he was into someone else haha.
It would be best if you talked to him when he isent with anyone most guys that seem shy is because there always with a group of people and don't feel comfortable speeching in front of them. Don't be afraid of taking the chance of him not liking you everyone has to take those chances. If you don't want to do that then it would be best if you were friends at first it takes a lot longer but the 2 of you will get to find out more about each other and the chances of him liking you would increase (if he doesn't already). Best of luck
ok i am have a problem because that boy that thinks i smoke and i dont says that he has a gf but i dont really believe him because he told me b4 he just doesnt like me and all that but im really confused because I AM IN LOVE W/ HIM!
and i dont know what to do if he was to ask me to marry him i would say yes right off the bat ! asap
thank you 4 your help b4!
He says he doesnt like you? Does he even know you? If he hasent tryed to get to know you then you dont need him he is just looking for looks not for whats on the inside. Do you still like him even if he is going for that? Message me back