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shy
I am sixteen and I have never even been kissed or had a bf... Is that normal? I am super shy ... like once i get comfortable with someone I'm not shy around them anymore, but if I don't know you you probably think I don't talk .. at all. It is especially bad around guys... I never say anything for risk of sounding stupid. I am very insecure and such. Also, my best friend is super beautiful, smart, outgoing, ect... and it seems that guys always go for her...And people who are far more shy then me and are kind of 'less popular' than me(even tho I fealt horrible saying that) have boyfriends and such... what is wrong with me??? I was just wondering if anyone had any advice... I know.. just be more outgoing, talk to people, step outside your comfort zone... I've heard that all before, but it never helps me any! I just feel like the only one who has never been kissed or even had a boyfriend! Please Help with ANY Advice!
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The reason your so shy is because you don't have confidence in yourself in the way you look and act. As far as the being kissed and never had a bf maybe you just havent meet the right guy for you most teens settle just to have someone. Best of luck
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Sweetie its normal, i have a friend who is 18 and has never had a bf or kissed a guy! also one thing don't ever change just to get a guy.. someone will like you for the shy girl you are, the only thing you gotta do is wait.. i kno it can be hard sometimes but you cannot lose hope! some guy might even like the fact that he is going to be your first bf.. i am just like you, i am shy until i get to know someone! so dont worry there is nothing wrong with you... let them come to you!!!
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hmm, well your just naturally shy its normal. But the thing that caught my eye is that you said that you dont want to say anything at the risk of sounding stupid. So I think that your afraid people will judge you on what you'll say. But honestly you could have social anxiety disorder. Dont think about what their reactions are going to be, if you have a comment speak up and if they do act like assholes then forget them
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