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I'm 21 years old, have had my share of different types of relationships so I enjoy answering love life questions. Whether it's about getting closer emotionally or physically don't hesitate to ask, hopefully I'll be able to help. I also love the medical field and will be a registered nurse soon. If you have any questions regarding a recent medical diagnosis (don't ask for one please, not a doctor) I can help you better understand it and the treatment as well

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. I believe that I am no virgin now. Somebody said that if being a virgin is having a hymen still then boys can never be virgins. This is making much senses to me. I have now got the doctor say my rash is herpes since I did the anal sexing. :(
(Rating: 3) My "bad habit" Would you care to elaborate on that? I appreciate your advice but I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I have never once showed interest in any other guy. I have been entirely faithful and honest. The guy I kissed was a very good friend who happens to be gay. So how can this be considered a "bad habit" ?! Would you be telling me I had a "bad habit" If I kissed a girl friend on her birthday? No you wouldn't. I have a suggestion for you, perhaps in the future you should be a bit more subjective in your advice giving and less judgmental. I can handle the truth as much as the next person but your condescending attitude is not appreciated. Nor is your ridiculous assumption that I must have a "bad habit". A habit is defined as something someone does consistently and finds hard to break. Now I ask you WHERE in my question was it suggested that I kiss other guys consistently? no where. You don't know me so don't judge me to be a horrible cheating, conniving person. The first half of your advice was sound enough and I get what you're saying but seriously the bad habit remark was offensive and completely unnecessary. Thank you for taking the time all the same. By the way it's *you're
(Rating: 3) I understand if you don't think doing it is a smart idea, but you didn't have to be rude about it; this answer would have been a 5 because it has good info, but you were rude. Sorry not sorry. Thank you though,
(Rating: 5) Thank you :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you a bunch lube helped!
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(Rating: 5) thank you hun, and sorry for the confusion, im still waiting for results at the moment and the confusing thing is its not stress, and i never skip meal i love my food to much it just comes on out of the blue
(Rating: 1) I am mature enough! And I do know what love is! You dont even know me!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for saying the exact words "If you're confused then don't do it" because I've been thinking about it all day and now I'm sure it won't be very smart if I did anything sexual right now. I have school to worry about now and a boyfriend at my age apparently isn't really a boyfriend so thank you and yes all of what you said made sense. Once again thank you for answering my question.
(Rating: 4) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SO MUCH! that really helped me a lot to know all that!
(Rating: 5) Thank you! Ever emotion you said that's exactly how i feel!(:
(Rating: 5) Thanks a bunch! Im gonna invite him to play soccer with some friends and I because he loves soccer. :D
(Rating: 5) Awww, thank you very much. I like how you were honest. :DD
(Rating: 5) Thanks! you are the only one that understood! i just like doing a bunch of different guys and not letting them know about each other but my boyfriend really loves me so i didn't knwo what to do.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for making that so easy to understand! You are right!
(Rating: 5) ummm... i want to keep my hymen because it is the only way your husband is going to know you are not a slut silly! everyone else i know has already broke theirs and all my friends lie to each guy and tell them he is the first but they broke it some fake ass way like horse riding! LOL! my best friend has tell 14 guys that she is a virging each time. why would ANY guy be stupid enough to believe you if you have no hymen? if i was a guy i sure as hell would NEVER believe her!
(Rating: 5) Thank you! It turned out to be awesome! best orgasm EVER!
(Rating: 4) Thanks. And yeah I would love to hang out with him in person more, but it's a long distance relationship. I do want more of "strong healthy loving" relationship, but you know hormones.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I will try to do what you said.(forget try.I will.) Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) damn. talk about perspective. haha thank you:)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! you really helped me.
(Rating: 5) i tried that already but thanks
(Rating: 5) i guess saying that i loved him would have been important... and at the time i thought i did. buttt im starting to think that maybe i dont really know what love is... I'm pretty young. Thank you so much for not telling me im a slut and that its my own fault im so miserable right now... cuz honestly, thats what my friends would say. i dont have any close friends on the squad, i just love to cheer. my friends are all really goody goody and theyd just look at me different cuz everyone in school sees me as this "good girl" and i guess i opened up a lot to Jack by showing him a part of me that not a lot of ppl know is there. haha well thank you for your advice, but i don't think he wants me back. he had sex with a girl last weekend but i don't think im that upset... maybe cuz the girl he had it with has about four STDs ;) hahaha. i can already tell im getting over him but it is pretty tough... alright well thanks! youve definitely given me the best advice of the bunch...
(Rating: 5) thanx for your help i think it was a infection
(Rating: 5) thankyouu, but i dont understand what you mean by em 022033?
(Rating: 5) that helped a lot, thanks! :)
(Rating: 5) Yeah but you can't put mp3s onto a cd-r you have to convert them back and that's gonna be a lot of extra work and i don't have a program for that either. :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!
(Rating: 5) Wow. There is a lot of helpful information on that page. Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Ohk. Well. Of course I wouldn't have gotten off the couch, I didn't know he was taking me to a room (it was like a computer room in the basment that we were already in) but alright, thanks.
(Rating: 5) thank you, I will follow up if necessary.
(Rating: 5) thamks that really helped:)
(Rating: 5) well i dont think im very picky. i just think he should call me ya know? and not be like this. its rude. i just want to be liked by someone.
(Rating: 5) thaaanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 1) he was over it in a few hours. and im not joking about being mad, he shoudlnt be snooping
(Rating: 5) i see what you mean about the bench ; thanks. (:
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the advice. I will definitely talk to him soon. I need to man up hahaha.
(Rating: 5) scary as in gothica and he knows i told him over phone on accident i wanted to in person. he likes to eat?
(Rating: 4) Thanks
(Rating: 5) Okay well the girl that told me bout them breaking up said that he is getting off of his medication because of those side effects...she is like a good friend with him. But thank you so much for your help!!
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks. i wasnt thinkn about their feelings too much so i realize i hav to now. thanks a bunch
(Rating: 5) thanks! your advice was great!! :)
(Rating: 4) Thanx Hun...=)
(Rating: 5) you're right, and lots of guys are way more shy when it comes to this type of stuff. thanks alot.
(Rating: 5) okay
(Rating: 5) ok
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much for you advises and suggestions. I just want to mention that my son is 18 years old. Setting up rules it's extramly hard in my house since my son broke all the rules the day he moved out a year ago for 2 months. This is the time where my team with my husband fell apart as well since I really wanted him back home where my husband wanted him to stay longer to learn more harder lesson. He came back home but my son knows that I wanted him back so now he thinks that he can play some adult role in our home and he just does what he wants sometimes. Creating a new team with my husband now it's not so easy since my husband's rules for my son now are rules like for a child 12 years old. Maybe he is right and maybe we should try that way but I also feel bad when he tells my son to be home at 11:00 pm home on the weekend or 9:00 pm during the week or the door will be locked. Another major problem in my household is that my husband and I are very clean and organized people where my son does not care about anythihg now. He just changed the day he moved back with us. I can basiclly say that my son could be very easily influance by his friends and he will do anything just to prove that to them. My husband always points out things to me about my son's room, dishes on the floor and so on but he will not talk to him himself and when I talk to my son he will say "I will do it" but then he fergets. I have threatend my son that I will kick him out but I think he knows me better than I know myself that I love him way too much and I will never do that. Thank you again.
(Rating: 5) Thanks.
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 1) that advice didnt really help me cuz i told him and now instaed we r like brother and sister type!
(Rating: 5) wow thanks alot!
(Rating: 5) Alrighty, thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thanks.
(Rating: 5) thanx
(Rating: 4) Thankyou <3
(Rating: 5) thanx!!!
(Rating: 5) okay well he will like look at me a lot but if i catch him then he looks away real quick, and if i laugh or smile then he looks at me and laughs...
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for understanding :)
(Rating: 4) Lmao. I would've rated this a 2 or 3. But it was pretty funny, so I rated you higher. I appreciate the commentary. :] And thanks for the advice! Oh, and I should take a shit on him! Haha. :D
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!
(Rating: 5) :] thankss
(Rating: 4) thnx I talked to him and he said 'Johnathan's [robably jealous.'
(Rating: 4) It's not pee, it's "female cum" but, were you refferring to "female cum" as gross, or did you think i meant i pee, and thought that was gross? sorry, i just got confused.
(Rating: 5) Thanks :) I'll do that
(Rating: 5) thanks for all the help
(Rating: 5) Thank you :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks :))
(Rating: 5) thanks:)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much<33
(Rating: 5) thanks! and ur right i will :]
(Rating: 4) Thanks, and I'll be sure to start trying that.
(Rating: 5) thank you !
(Rating: 5) thanks :))
(Rating: 5) Thanks a bunch! =D
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