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relationship help
18/f
I've liked my friend for a while and at my christmas party we were talking about relationships and we'd both just come out of one. We both said that we just want to have fun cos we're young but then we ended up kissing. After we were talking on msn and he asked if i have feelings for anyone so i said him and he apologised for what happened at the party and said if he knew he wouldnt have kissed me. Then at my friends New Years party it happened again but neither of us have mentioned it to each other and we're just acting like friends. So do i carry on with the way things are or try and do something to further the relationship? But im not very confident and wouldnt feel comfortable asking him out or anything.
Thanks!
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i think he likes you too. if he keeps kissing you then im sure thiers a spark somewhere. you should talk to him and ask him if he dont want to be with you then why dose he keep kissing you. im sure you should get and honest answer. guys are sometimes hard to read it might just have been that moment you know.
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It seems like he just wants to have fun and not have someone to hold him down from it. His ex girlfriend was probably the controlling type and he doesn't want to go through that again. I think you should just keep going on the way things are but if you want... drops hints if you have a feeling that he likes you. Good luck
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To me, it seems like he is 'yanking your chain.' He told you that if he knew that you would end up having feelings for him he wouldn't of kissed you that night but he ended up kissing you again when he knew you have feelings for him.
But, then again it really isn't his fault because you two told eachother you were just looking for fun, so you were kind of asking for it.
You can do whatever you want about this situation. If you feel that he has feelings toward you, then go for it. If not, then don't unless you are just looking for fun no strings attached sort of things. You never know he may end of having feelings for you, but you don't know until you ask him.
Hope I Helped & Good Luck !
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If you wont talk to him about this then you are shit out of luck hun.
He has made it pretty clear he isn't interested in anything but (drunken?) hook-ups. Listen to what he is saying: He is sorry to misled you. He just likes to fool around and have fun.
If there is anything more to it then that, he isn't about to tell you unless you push the subject... which you say you wont... so, there is nothing to be done.
Don't allow this to just continue if what you want is a relationship, that will only make you miserable. If you wont risk the confrontation and questions: Move on.
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