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Shy guy.
Okay so there's this guy and he's very shy. He's a nervous speaker, not just around girls but in general and I've had a crush on him for a while now.
Trouble is I'm shy too and I can't really find the courage to straight up tell him I like him. We're not friends but we've spoken before, we're in the same class, we're acquantainces basically.
He looks at me alot in class, especially when I'm not looking (we sit almost on the same row so it's easy to see him even when I'm not looking directly at him) but he used to look alot last year when he was into this other girl all year.
There's no chance he's going to talk to me cause there's a general class joke that we like each other and whenever we talk one of his friends always makes a joke and like I said he's very shy.
How the heck do I know if I've got the wrong end of the stick or not? Cause last year I thought he liked me and it turned out he was into someone else haha.
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Best thing to make sure if he likes you or not, is get him to talk. Every now and again, ask him for help in class. Dont bombard him with questions just things you can try to get him to explain to you. This will slowly form a trust bond. Once the trust bond is set(you wont notice the bond taking affect, itll just happen) you should start to notice things like, he'll avoid eye contact or smile a lot. He'll tend to stare and listen to you more. Also he'll open up to you. These should be signs that he like you. If he pays attention else where most of the time, its most likely he like someone else. But that doesn't mean you should just stop doing what I said. Keep on going and stay friends.
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It would be best if you talked to him when he isent with anyone most guys that seem shy is because there always with a group of people and don't feel comfortable speeching in front of them. Don't be afraid of taking the chance of him not liking you everyone has to take those chances. If you don't want to do that then it would be best if you were friends at first it takes a lot longer but the 2 of you will get to find out more about each other and the chances of him liking you would increase (if he doesn't already). Best of luck
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Why don't you pass a note to him in class? that always gets things started, or find his myspace, or aim, and start talking on therre. then when u go back to class, youll have to say hello.
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