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If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx (link)
No, the world will not end because the Pope died. He was 84, people die. He lived a good life and was a great Pope.


Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
Only by mine.


I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this? (link)
If he's shy, then he didn't wanna kiss you probably because he just feels uncomfortable on a first date. I do too.He sounds ok. Go out with him next weekend and (I can't believe I'm using this word) cuddle with him. He'll get hornier then.


I am 19 and I love my boyfriend with all my heart but the thing is he is in jail so i'm not aloud to be with him because my parents found out but I just can't give him up because the love is so strong. I think about him everyday and I often start crying because I miss him so much. What should I do? (link)
Hmmmmmm, your first sentence grabs my attention. You mean allowed, not aloud first of all. Secondly, he's in jail. He's a loser. I don't care about ratings,he's in fucking jail. What did he do anyway? Love is strong huh? Get some dignity and dump the jailbird.


I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do? (link)
This isn't really a tough problem. If you're bi, that'd be really cool, at least for the boyfriend. He's saying how nasty bi girls are b/c he think you're not one and he's trying to impress you. Most girls think being bi is gross. If he really cares about you, he's not really gunna care. I wouldn't. I'd say "At least you're not getting dick anywhere else." Then I'd care.


I am a 13-year-old shy girl looking for ways to get money. My question is, does anyone know of a website for tips and ideas on how to make money for my age?
~passionate
PS. Thanks ahead of time. (link)
Not legally.


ok i have this boyfriend and his soo awesome! we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night! i've been "talking" with him since feb. but sometimes i feel like he doesn't care about me that much! and his always kind of mad at me..but i know his not cuz he got kicked outta his house 2weeks ago and he has to find a place to stay like everynight so it's not like i can talk to him...but he is pretty good about calling me and letten me know where he is staying at...that is if theres a phone around! but for some reason i'm so worried about him..i'm always woundering where is at and what his doing and who his with...he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th...so when i'm at school that is when i worry...he has the friend that i don't like to much but yet his cool i don't like my boyfriend hanging out with him because i don't trust my boyfriend with him my boyfriend knows that i don't i like him with him...because i feel like his going to cheat on me when he is with his friend! i just don't know what to do about out relationship...cuz i do like him alot ((like not love)) and he gave me a promise braclett promiseing that he would never hurt me!!
i'll rate! (link)
"we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night". There's your problem. Need I say more? I will anyway:that's not a long enough period to know somebody before you have sex with them. It's kinda slutty. Problem 2:"he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th" grade I'm assuming.A guy isn't gunna date a younger girl so they can watch Disney movies,he was using you for free sex. You're young and look up to him b/c he's older. Problem 3: "i don't trust my boyfriend" Why is that? Because you know he doesn't really care about you. It's nothing personal;guys are like that. If I were doing what hes doing, this is why I'd do it.


ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do? (link)
Guys dont keep really hott best friends. Sorry. Be scared, he probably doesn't love you, you only think he does. If you're only like 16,then no you're not in love and if this really hott girl offers him pussy,hes takin it. Sorry,life's a bitch.


Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high! (link)
Because it is our natural instinct to reproduce and to get as many girls as we can. It is in yall's to settle down. We have acheived our goal,yall haven't. We're praised,you're not. Life's a bitch huh?


so i`m getting my belly button pierced tomorrow afternoon, but i also play soccer. So after i get my belly button pierced how long will it take until i can sprint again? and also when can i take it out? (link)
Here's a thought: get it done after the season.


Hi,
I am 15 year old female and i am a freshman and for about a year now ive like a kid that is a junior. He is only 16 though. Anyway, recently he found a girlfriend, but everyone thinks they look really bad together. The worst part of all of this is,I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM. All my friends ask me how i like someone i dont even talk to. Well the answer to that is ,I have no idea. lol..... But i reall really like him..... I CANT BUILD MY COURAGE TO TALK TO HIM..........please, i need advice!! what should i do?
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It doesn't matter what everybody else thinks,it's what they think. But that's a different issue. Getting to your problem, guys aren't that tough. Talk to them and act interested in what they have to say. He wants to have sex with you if you're hott, so use that to your advantage. But be wary,if hes still goin with his gf,but seeing you, he could always do that to you in the future. Do what shake says too. He'll be interested.


Okay me and my friend have a question.. when u have a condom on a guy and when ur having sex wouldn't it like slip off or something.. Someone please write me back with details PLEASE!!!!!
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It's not supposed to. It does happen though. Gotta be careful if you use a rubber.


ive read some questions and most about sex with guys is a little making me uncomfortable. not all guys are horny lil bastards. i dont go looking for sex and all that, i just look for some1 i can relax with and have a good time with, not the first girl that is willing to give it up 4 me. trust me girl when i say this, guys are all talk. they say that with their friends, but if a girl came on to me wanting sex (im a virgin) i wouldnt have a clue what 2 do. (link)
Dude,not all guys are like that,but that's like saying all girls don't like The Notebook. If any girl comes on to me,we're not talking. Maybe as a secondary thing. It's nice when you can have sex with somebody you care about. It's better that way,but sometimes,dammit you just gotta think with the head below your belt.


Hi I'm 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m. We've been going out for 2.5 years now and like every couple, we have our share of arguments.

The problem with my boyfriend is that he's beginning to develop a short fuse. The reason I say develop is because his anger has never been this bad, not until recently. Fortunately, he doesn't get violent, but he does say a lot of mean and hurtful things that he admits that he regrets later.

When I talk to him about it, he sincerely apologizes, and tells me that when he gets angry now, it's hard to control his anger. It's really bothering me that he's like this because it seems like he gets irritable more often over the silliest of things and his hurtful words are taking its toll on me and our relationship.

We've decided long ago to keep our disagreements and conflicts civil to the best of our ability, and it was working for the most part, but now I'm the only one putting in any real effort.

I know he doesn't mean it, and my question is if there is anything I can really do to help him? I'm usually good at giving myself advice on how to handle situations like these, but I feel I've tried everything. I've confronted him about it, when we fight I hardly raise my voice and I tell him to calm down, I've proposed taking breaks, just anything you can really imagine. Some say that I should threaten to leave him or something along those lines, but trust me, it only makes him more angry.

It's like male PMS or something, he gets more irritable than me sometimes!

And no, it's not because he's sexually frustrated. How I know it's not a problem is because we are very honest and open about sex and everything for that matter; our communication and sex life are great.

So really I need advice on if there is anything I can do (that I haven't tried) and if anyone knows where this sudden bad temperment could have come from? Thanks so much! (link)
Hes stressed about SOMETHING. I know you say he isn't. But it's the root of most problems. If he's not stressed,then it could be his brain blew some kind of anger fuse lately and he may need anger management(make time,he could be angry enough to belt you one day). It could be about sports. Guys do get out of control when shit like March Madness is on.


I have had sex with about 90 guys and the oldest one being 82 i am 14 is this bad and am i a slut. i also like my best friend carolynns boyfriend names john and i really think my friend is a stuck up whore at times but i think john likes me too i really think he needs to break up with her because she cheats on him every night with a different guy one of them named harley and she always says he humps like a rabbit and she had to fake her orgasms and he doesnt deserve that she said she didnt even like him she just felt sorry for him. what should i do (link)
I call bullshit on that.To answer your feedback, yeah prove it to me.


Now.. don't think I'm a slut or anything but me and my best friend share a boyfriend... and I am attrated to her too... is that a bad thing.. I mean we have done stuff in the past but I don't know if she likes me. should I make a move on her or not. or should i just talk to her and tell her my feelings I mean she is always looking at me in that sexy way and it turns me on everytime.. am I a bi-sexual and should I go for her... please don't be mean because I really need help (link)
I wish I was that dude. You're bi if you want to have sex with other girls,yes. You gotta be careful anytime you do threesomes. Three's a crowd,remember. Someone always gets left out and it could always be you. If you wanna fuck the friend,I say do it. But just don't expect a long term relationship here.


I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way. (link)
It was prolly her wisdom teeth and yeah it really hurts.


My best friend is really sweet, but isn't so popular with the boys. I happen to be (not to me boastful) Anyway, when ever I tell her about my boyfriend or that a boy told me he likes me, she says "at least that guy likes you" SO I can't talk to her about guys. I don't know what to do


PLease help (link)
Don't talk to her about that.


I am an 18 year old male. My best friend and I have been talking on messenger and we have both realized that we have extra feelings for each other. She is coming to my college next year to be with me. The only thing is she is bringing a guy who I am pretty sure is her boyfriend. She says she wants to start something when she gets down here but now I'm afraid with this guy coming too that I wont get my chance with her. Should I confront her about this guy and see what she says? Is there anything else I can do? Thank you (link)
Yeah confront her about the guy.


Ive been going out with this boy for about 8 months, i like him alot and he quit smoking and doing drugs for me but about half way into our relationship we had to go about a month without seeing eachother and during that time he cheated on me with his ex. I thought i could forgive him and i thought i did but i keep thinking about it and it reallly hurts me. He also is very protective of me i have to tell him everything, what im wearing,who im talkin to and who im around. im not even aloud to talk to other guys even if theyre just friends. i broke up with him and now hes going to his "friends" house very pften he claims he isnt doing anything and i do beleive him but im so confused about what i should do. he wants to go back out with me and i stil like him but i dont know if its a stupid thing to do or not since he cheated on me and all of that. (link)
Once a cheater;always a cheater. He can't be trusted,move on.




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