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bisexual Now.. don't think I'm a slut or anything but me and my best friend share a boyfriend... and I am attrated to her too... is that a bad thing.. I mean we have done stuff in the past but I don't know if she likes me. should I make a move on her or not. or should i just talk to her and tell her my feelings I mean she is always looking at me in that sexy way and it turns me on everytime.. am I a bi-sexual and should I go for her... please don't be mean because I really need help
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I'm bi and i believe you are. You should definately talk to her and ask her how she feels but don't go overboard. ]
I can really relate to your problem (besides the boyfriend sharing). No one should be here to judge you, and the first thing I thought of when reading this <b>was not</b> that you are a slut. Every relationship is different, and yours just happens to include more people. (Here is a LiveJournal.com group that might interest you: <b>www.livejournal.com/community/polyamory</b>. It is a community full of people that are going through the same relationship situation as you.) If you are attracted to her, then you should talk to her and see if the feelings are mutual between the two of you. I would <b>hold off</b> on any move making until you find out how she feels about you first. I know of a lot of relationships like yours (with the three of you) that work out very well. Some couple-groups have been together for years. I hope everything turns out good for you in the end. ]
yes ur bi ]
Its alright to have feelings for your bestfriend sometimes girls do. Not yet mabe you could tell her how you feel about her and that mabe there is a chance you could start a relationship, but beware it can ruin your friendship.
luv roxie ]
Girl, i know how you feel i have the same problem. I'm attracted to my best friend which is a girl and i'm a girl. But i wouldn't sleep with her boyfriend if she had one through ~he he~. Thats a big no no to me! It's nothing to worry about though. Talk to her about it and i'm sure she'll understand. It's not like your betraying her, or lieing or anything. Your telling her your straight feelings about it. And i have a feeling if you to can share her boyfriend with you and i think she'll understand you and your feelings. ]
I wish I was that dude. You're bi if you want to have sex with other girls,yes. You gotta be careful anytime you do threesomes. Three's a crowd,remember. Someone always gets left out and it could always be you. If you wanna fuck the friend,I say do it. But just don't expect a long term relationship here. ]
Get both at the same time. ]
umm i think you two shouldn't share a boy friend thats how you get disesses? and as you you two i think you should talk to her frist? ]
Well you sound pretty much bisexual to me. I wouldn't tell her right away. Try giving small hints. You could scare her off if you just go all out. So just give small hints like more touching and things.
♥ Always,
Maria ]
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