OK I have been going out with this guy call him bob for 2 weeks yeah I know its' not long but we're alrady having problems. He doesn't talk to me that much, and im the one who gets his and and approches him, he never says hi ok well he has but like 2 times. Im the one who has to make the first move in everything in talking and in holding hands, he doesn't hold mine, I hold his. And I walk him to 3rd period and today he just left (we stand with all the punk rockers on the wall for like 3 minutes and talk) didn't even say bye im leaving or anyhting and it's not the first time. The first time we were holding hands talking to out friends and he just let go and left not even a kiss. I don't know what to do because I really like him I have known him for a year and I didn't know he was like this...please help me I don't wanna break up with him I want this to work.
x0sn0wbabii44 answered Friday March 25 2005, 6:37 pm: Okay, that also happened to me. I thought it was going to be the end of the world because I loved my boyfriend but he just didn't seem like he loved me half as much. But i gave it time, and he started getting better. So try to give it a little time. If you don't want to do that then maybe just ask him what's going on. Talk to him, maybe he's a little shy. He could even be scared that if he does something wrong or bad that you'll break up with him. Let him know it's okay. That's all I can help you with. I hope i helped yoU!!!
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babyB answered Friday March 25 2005, 12:49 pm: Well bob is either A not into you that much or B simply shy, talk to him and see how he feels [ babyB's advice column | Ask babyB A Question ]
karenR answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:47 am: Maybe he is bashful in front of his friends.
Talk to him in private and ask him about it.Express your concerns for your relationships future.maybe you can get him straightened out.
Good luck:} [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:00 am: it doens't seem like its gonna work.... he probably doesn't like you nearly as much as you like him and my advice to you is that you should dump him or find out wats goin on. unless he's like really really shy or embarrsed, i would dump him if i were you, cause why love sumone if they dont love you back? i srry. i hope i helped [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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