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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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ok....im 13 and pregnant i dont want to tell my family because i think they will be ashamed.I dont want to get an abortion because i think its wrong.I also dont want to give "it" up for adoption, because my friend was adopted and he doesent like it.I just really need some help.What should i do?
Well, KIDDO, what do you expect when you act like a little tramp? duh, they are going to be very ashamed. who could blame them. your 13. my god. you have all your life to be an adult. you only have so many years to be a kid. AND GUESS WHAT. you just blew it. your gonna be a mommy in 9 months. have you ever had a puppy? babies are like 5x more work. you're never gonna get to be a kid again. i hope your aware of that. your no longer going to have to worry about just you and only you, your gonna have to babysit, 24/7 wherever you go, the baby goes.
congrulations. your a slut.
hurry up and get it over with, just tell them. before they start seeing your stomach get like huge.
THere is a trend out there I guess its spelled emo. Anyways my son has been talking about it for two years but never really acted on it. Two days ago he started dressing im all black and yesterday he puts on eyeliner. I love my son very much, he has always MARCHED TO HIS OWN DRUM AND IVE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HIM. HE IS MOSTLY ANTISOCIAL AND LOVES MUSIC AND THE COMPUTER...HIS NEW FOUND LOVE IS THE CURE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING EMO. NOT TO DOWN HIM BUT TO SUPPORT HIM.....PLEASE HELP
Basically, if I was his mom, I'd support him, but I'd also try to have him make some friends. or you two need to be like super close. i remember when I was 11, i needed friends, i still do. you dont want him to be antisocial. that can end up making him depressed. he could end up like cutting himself and junk like that. so, basically, if your not like super close to him, i'd try to help him make friends, like just say stuff like.."soo, why don't you ever invite anyone over.. i'll take you guys too..[some like cool amusement park or someting]" Its good that he is himself, and isn't easily influenced. but, 'emo' kids are usually depressed, lonely, when he talked about becoming emo, it could have been a cry for help. and those kids in the future, usually end up doing pot or something.
they don't have the greats reputation in the world, so to speak. i mean i'm not saying for you to go and like change him. because sometimes my mom trys to make me do that. and its just really annoying. but like, give him ideas on other colors to wear or something like that.
if you need any more help, just leave me a message. (:
Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
It all started last month, around the beginning of March.
We've met before, but never really talked much because we don't go to the same school, but he lives in the same town as me.
We work at the same place, and that's basically how we started talking.
So over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time, every day; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
Everything was going well, and I got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. He just had bad luck with past relationships, because of the way he was treated.
The only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because I had drivers ed three times a week, basketball two times a week and work on the weekends.
This was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out, but I never had the time to.
So everything was going pretty well.
APRIL:
So he then invites me at the last minute to some semi-formal thing (on a Tuesday) and the semi was that Saturday.
I'm not able to go, because my parents don't know him and I wasn't getting great grades at the time.
Saturday comes and he's really, reallyyy sad that I can't go.
A couple of weeks go by, and everything is still going well.
Then, all of a sudden, he just starts acting wierd, and this carries on for tthree days.
I had to work one of the days and he said: "Oh, maybe I'll stop by,"
So he stops by, and we didn't talk but just smiled at each other. He stayed for about an hour.
After work I check my messages, and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
Days go by, and then it's vacation.
Since I go to a catholic school in a different state (but we live in the same state) and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacations are different.
I ended up going to florida for vacation, for a week. We texted the whole time I was down there and things seemed to be fine.
In the last two days I was down there, he didn't respond to my text messages.
I was worried something was wrong.
I got back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly lol) and then I just look on his myspace (although I'm not allowed to have my own) and it says "in a relationship".
so I'm like: "Ohh great, what the hell happened now?". Then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it won't hold the charge.
So I asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and he's all like: "What? i thought you weren't allowed on myspace? I thought it was blocked?". And I'm like: "Nooo... It's not blocked. I just can't have a myspace,"
And so then he says: "About that... I thought you were just leading me on the whole time, and we haven't even hung out yet, so I was getting tired of it." This obviously means that he now has a girlfriend.
So I say: "Okay, I told you before vacation that after I come back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with."
He says: "Well, I don't remember that, and you didn't seem like you were interested in me that much, because you never made plans to hang out."
I definitley remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didn't work because of drivers ed.
and then today at work he didnt talk to me. we made eye contact a few times, but nothing from there. like...i looked up and saw him looking at me and then i looked away and did the same.
Now he just won't talk to me or anything, and I don't know what to do.
What would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
Steph
basically, what i would say, is when your at work or whatever, whenever you see him face to face, be like..
"hey, ok so its weird not talking to you all the time and stuff, and i did like you, its just i was really really busy, but now drivers ed is over, and i have a ton of time to hang out with people now, and even if you do have a girlfriend, i still would like us to be friends. it really hurts that we arnt friends right now."
and see what he says. it sounds like he still likes you. act fast enough, and ya'll will be friends again, and most likely more.
i hope it works out. (:
I`m only 13 and my parents treat me like I`m 18 and they won't buy me ANYTHING! They make me pay for my clothes, my food when I go out to eat, staying at hotels for a family vacation, and basically everything. They won't even buy me a pack of gum! I'm only 13 and I can't really have a well-paying job and I already walk dogs but that can't pay for everything.. I can't even shop anymore because I don't have enough money for more then 2 shirts and as soon as I buy 2 shirts I have to save up for another 3 months until I have any money again.
It really annoys me because my friends always brag about how their mom took them to the mall and bought them 9 bags of clothes and they didn't have to pay. My parents haven't bought me any clothes since I was 11. My mom never takes me to the mall because she says "I don't like to drive and it's too far away." Yeah, the mall is literally 10 minutes away. I still have all winter clothes to survive in this summer because I have NO money to buy anything and my birthday has already passed.
Don't you think it's harsh to make a 13 year old pay for EVERYTHING including like gum and stuff?! The most I can do is walk dogs and it's not like they are punishing me for being a bad kid because I get straight A's and I'm never in trouble so it's not a punishment.. I think they are so harsh because clothes are a necessity and all of my friends sit on their butts and get everything handed to them and I`m trying to pay for everything and it's not going to work out.. I've already tried telling them that it's impossible to pay for my own wardrobe and food and stuff when my only way of getting money is walking dogs because my parents don't pay me for helping out around the house and stuff.. so how can I get them to lighten up and at least pay for SOME of my clothes and other stuff? because it would be helpful if they pitched in a little bit.
P.S if you think I should start babysitting to make money how do I bring this up with my parents?? and I ONLY want to babysit for my neighbors so should I tell them straight out I want to babysit or should my mom tell them?
UHM. you DEFINITLY need to have a talk with your mom. that is RIDICOLOUS. that is sooo harsh. you are 13 years old. the most work you should be doing, is concentrating on your school work, and being a kid. it doesn't last forever. that is like wrong there making you do that. and i bet there is some like law against that. like when you mean food..
do you mean like food, like grocery food? its your parents responsiblity to take of you. until your 18. then they can tell you to go get a job and stuff. but intill then, there responsible for you. i mean, i can see if they didn't want to buy you like a million clothes because it was too much. but atleast some.
oh no no no. your done with working. you tell your mom, that your only 13 once, and that is tottaly not fair, that you have to pay for everything. that your only a kid, and that when they had you, they had to make a commitment, to be responsible for you, and raise you. and they can't HONESTLY expcect you to pay for all that stuff.
i think i may be a little bit more about the whole thing then you are, lol. but seriously, thats so wrong. your only a kid once. 13 was a great year for me. you should get to enjoy it.
tell your mom that your not asking for the most expenisve clothing, you just want clothing. its not fair. like, if my mom ever did that to me, i'd like be so mad.
i hope things get a whole lot better for youu.
this is super long, sorry!
Alright, I'm 16/f, and there's a guy I like, he's almost 18. I'd think we're pretty good friends, we met at the beginning of the school year, and we were assigned to work together on a year-long project. He's totally sweet and cute, and one of my good guy friends.
He has a girlfriend (i've seen them together, and she treats him terribly, and they always fight, but apparantly now they've exchanged promise rings?), he's only mentioned her to me twice, not by name, and one time he mumbled and lowered his voice when he said it.
He's ALWAYS doing flirty things. We've talked a LOT about important things. I'll give you some examples:
-ear blowing
-leg rubbing
-back massages
-ALWAYS doing silly stuff/stuff to freak me out, like giving me a condom for christmas
-one time, he said that my shirt was interesting, and i got all confused, and he said don't worry about it and was going to pat me on the shoulder but i freaked and said, 'no, don't, i have cat hair on it,' and he said, 'oh, okay, then,' and started to walk away, ran back to me, ran his hand down my arm, and grinned.
-he's talked about how nervous he is for college, and how one time he got so stressed out that he experimented with weed.
-he's always doing favors for me.
-he asked me to do his stage makeup for him, and was teasing me about whether or not i knew what i was doing (I thought he was serious, but my friend, who i completely trust and would not lie to me told me he said it jokingly)
-but recently, he's started giving me handshakes, which are apparantly done in a jokey way as well
This is only a scratch on the surface of all of the things that have happened. Should I tell him I like him? Does he like me (my friends who've seen us together think so.) He's a senior, and so will be going to college (6 hours away, where his gf goes, too), we're friends on facebook so we can keep in touch through that. but time is running out, I need to know what I need to do. I don't want to mess up our friendship, but I feel like I'm lying to him by not telling him how I feel.
Thanks if you can help!
Well, of what you said, i think hes just afraid to break up with his girlfriend. but he secretly likes you.
Is he the type that flirts with like a ton of girls? or is it like you and only you?
if its you and only you, i'd ask him about his girlfriend. like if there really close and stuff.
if he says no not really, and stuff like that, you should tell him how you feel. your right, your running out of time, im facing like the same problem.
ahh do it. if you guys are true friends, it wont mess up the friendship. it will just make things a little awkard, if he doesnt like you back.
14/f
ok, so i have a huge crush on this guy. ive liked him since about november. we usuaully flirt and talk and normal stuff. i just cant tell if he likes me or not. well, just yesterday his girlfriend broke up with him. they had only been together for about 2 weeks. so i want to know, how should i approach him? now that he's single, should i tell him i like him? should i start flirting more? any advice is appreciated.
Well, first whern you talk to him, be like sorry about you and your girlfriend breaking up, you must have really liked her. do you still like her? or was the whole relationship kinda falling apart?
ask him stuff like that. see his answers to them, if he says he still misses her and stuff, i wouldnt tell him you like him. because he probably wont go out with you if he still likes the other girl, and if he does, hes probably just using you to make her jealous.
so i'd wait awhile.
if he says that he like hates her, and was ready to break up with her himself, then go for it.
i hope it workss outt. (:
I really want to wear it yet at the same time I don't want others laugh at me. Individuality is very important to me, but I want to be accepted too. What can I do?
I should say, just be yourself. it doesn't matter what people think. but i've had this delima before.
this is what i do..
says its like, a type of shirt or something, that is like tottaly last year, well i wear it, with like a pear of pants that are super in, and shoes that are in, and all that. like you gotta just know how to mix n match. you know what i mean?
i hope that helped a little.
Yep, so two of my friends and I were discussing the book of revelations in the bible, and from other sources aswell, we found that the world is supposed to end in 2012, with reffernces of fire of a meteor or something?
Could someone please fill me in on this, and how factually based it is, I mean.. it was found in a biblical based book..
nahh. i don't think so. 6/6/6 was the devils day. and were all still alive. so who knows. just live each day to the fullest. because the only one who knows when its the last day, is God.
Ok. so i am tired of getting up every morningg and starightening my hair and leave i want to do something with it. But i am terrible at doing hair. So with it straight i need some very cute hair styles and how to do them. Websites would be great! And i mean like easyyy. but not like a simple pony tail i know how to do that ;].
Thanks in advance.
Oh p.s my hair is to my shoulders
Noooo. Straight hair is OUT for the summer. Long wavy hair is in. I'm not sure, how you can like make your hair wavy, if it isnt naturally? But, I'm sure theres something you can do. Google it.
Like seriously, don't straighten it, you'll be out of style for summer. (:
oh, ya know whats cool though, that i do 24/7 is those sloppy buns. not the suckish queer ones, that like ballet people have. the really sloppy ones and like put it right on type of your head. If you have alot of layers, it might be hard to do that though.
I am 19, female. A friend of mine (20 years old) has just applied for a job at a massage parlour, where the masseuses are topless, but there is no sexual activity - it's more of an erotic massage experience. She will be paid $80-100 an hour, and earn $1000 a week for a day and a half's work.
As a student, I could really, really use that kind of money, and personally, I wouldn't have any problem with the work. The job sounds reputable and if she enjoys the job, it could be very tempting - however, I am not sure whether I would regret it on a moral basis or not? In theory, I have nothing against it. But something inside is telling me it's wrong? And yet, that kind of money could open up a whole lot of opportunities for me within a short space of time.
What should I do?
I don't think you should do it. Thats tottaly like no morals. Even if you have to work at mcdonalds, to earn some money, atleast you can do it with some dignity, right?
um i screwed a boy 2 weeks ago.. and he pulled out.. but im scared i maybe preg. what is the chance i am.. if i am i dont no what to do.. because if i tell him he will deny it..
get a pregancy testtt.
or wait and see if you pms.
if you don't, i'd tell an adult.
I really hate my life but my friends hold me back not my family because well my family sucks. My friends love me more then my family. I haven't cut because im not some worthless piece of crap.But i have had millions of thoughts about death or killing myself. Im wondering will they even care if im gone? My parents barely reconize me now so whats the point? I told my love one these suicidal thoughts and he yelled at me making me more depressed. I cried for 4 hours straight and I even told him. He likes me alot and he said he would jump infront of a bullet for me. I was recently in the hospital my best friend since 2nd grade (14/f now) died in my arms im now emotionally unstable. Anywho my love one yelled at me and said he needs a week off. Its been more then a week and i sent 2 apology letters he has yet to right me back. I haven't smiled ever since the accident which was April 2nd 2007. I have no emotions but sadness. My sister is majo worried about me and i can't handle it. What should i do to help myself smile? And how will i get my love one to talk to me!? Thank you.
Go to a therapist immediatly.
Don't kill yourself, there is people who care about you, and they would care if you were gone. I would care if you were gone. I may not know you, i may not know your name, your age, your favorite color, or anything like that, but i would still care. everyone has a purpose in life. and how will you ever know what it is, if you dont live your life to the fullest. try to move on. see a therapist. and you'll improve. i know its hard to lose someone like a best friend, its happened to me, and it is very sad. but, i promise it gets better. even though thats like soooo hard to believe, it really does. it takes awhile, but as time goes on, you get strength. if your religious [which i know it was very hard for me to be in anyway when i lost my friend] if you are, or were.. pray. pray for strength. it helps talking to someone, just thinking someone is listening to you.
i hope everything works outtt.
okay, well lately i've been so reserved and quiet. i dont know what to do anymore, i'm so so sad and i dont feel like living each day anymore. i feel like im loosing friends, and i feel so dead, depressed. what are the symptoms of depression? because for some reason by the end of the day, i always feel like crying. i just never fit in, its horrible. so i think i might be depressed. my head, im just so unforcused and silent.i just really need to know the symptoms, and i know you guys cant diagnose anything, but what would you think it is? please help.
How old are you?
If your going throught puberty, its most likely just a stage. I went through it. Symtomps are..loss in appetive, lose in usual activities, not wanting to go to school or, wanting to go to school. loss of sleep. unhappy. not wanting to be with friends. stuff like that.
wanna know how i fixed it? i looked at where i live, the things i do have, not the things i dont. i realized how many great things I truly have. and i never realized how lucky i was. i mean, when my mom would only buy me 3 pairs of 70 dollar sweat pants, i would be mad. i'd get sad and everything. or when, i didnt get as big as a flat screen in my room as i wanted, i'd get all depressed. i'm not saying that your the same way as me, because i am obviously spoiled, but i've deff. changed that. just point out all the things in your life you have. dont act negative about it at all.
do you watch american idol? did you see the idol gives back one on tonight? did you see all of those kids? how a kid dies every 30 seconds in africa. as i'm writing this, kids are dieing.
doesn't that make you feel lucky? i know it does me.
it seems you are going through some depression. i went through it and it was hard, i lost my dog, my best friends that i have for atleast 5 or 6 years, and i was very sick. i got through it.
i'd see a therapist or tell your mom. before it gets worse.
I'm a teenage girl and I'm always alone- i'm not kidding. I'm homeschooled so that's why.(and i'm the only dependent minor in my family) I used to go to a prep school where I was around annoying people 24/7, and i hated that. But this makes me depressed too. Never being around anyone. my problem is this:
Whenever I get tired of being completely alone and I go out in public for a rehearsal or something (i do theater), I can't stand being around unintelligent sluts who don't understand me and just ask me why i look so sad and things like that. I get panic attacks whenever I try to talk to someone (unless it's one of my 2 best friends in the whole world) and i start sweating and I turn red and my heart starts pounding. and it gets too awkward and i have to make an escape.
I'm very well-spoken and i couldn't call myself "shy" but i still feel reclusive because i just don't really get along with other people. I've thought it was because of my intelligence being significantly above average. (been professionally tested) So I "notice things that no one notices" which makes me "unusual". (that was something stated word for word in my testing document thing)
It's like everyone else is a bunch of cows in a heard that looks exactly the same and does the same thing, and I'm a completely different species, who doesn't see the need to be in that heard. (if that makes sense)
I also battle depression- and I always have. It's not from any particular event- it's just always sort of been there. and i can't change it.
What is wrong with me?
Is there anyway, you can like, go to a public school? I know prep schools suck, I went to one, I hated ittt. I switched to a public school, and I love ittt. like, seriously. i love itt. When your feeling lonely, what about family? Bond with someone in your family..
Don't be so harsh, just because someone isn't intelligent, doesn't mean you gotta get all defensive. thats a negative attitude, ya don't want that. there probably asking you why your sad, because their concerned. there not trying to be mean or anything. they most likely just dont know you very well, and are trying to help you out.
You've got to conquer your fears about being shy and everything. I know thats really hard, because I used to be like that, I'd freak out talking to people, I could hardly speak, I'd turn red, and I'd sound shaky when I talked. But, the only reason I was like that, is because I had such low confidence in myself. Maybe thats your case too. Try building up some confidence. Stand infront of a mirror, point out all of your good qualties, your strengths, good parts of your personality.
Thats good, that your unique. Which embarresses me, because I've probably made a million spelling and puncuation mistakes and such. Its good to be different. I think you should go to a school. Where theres lots and lots of people. So you can find more people who have similar interests. Where do your two best friends go to school? Can you go there?
Believe it or not, most people feel the same way, about what you said about the heard and you being in a tottaly different species. Honestly, thats how I feel right now, I'm not sure how I want to be. But, I've learned, I can't limit myself to just one type of clothing, or one type of music, or anything like that. That I should like whatever I want, and no one should tell me other wise.
You can change depression, you can make it better.. go to a therapist.
Nothing is wrong with you. You've just gotta get some confidence and let yourself relax a little more. I'm sure one day, you'll make a dramatic difference in peoples lives in the future, because of your knowledge and unsualness that you have.
hey yeah my reputation is not slutty at all. like im in the Normal group and hes like Popular. haha He was like"I want to know your real side." but he doesn't even know me. he just says " isee you around the school and i think your hot" ill ask him the questions you told me =)
i told him " why are you talking to me like this" and his answer every time is "casue your hot" and i even told him " i dont like talking to people just about sex."
Whats something i can say to him that would like make me sound not intersted yet somewhat interested? sorry thats a hard question but lol
hmm. well guys usually say that stuff to me, and it gets like annoying, yano lol, like what i usually say is like, oh take a couple minutes or whatever, to answer him to whatever he says..like, example, say he says like..
would you ever wanna bang me? or something sexual or whatever. you get it.
take a few minutes to answer him back, so it looks like your busy with something, and as he waits those few minutes, he'll most likely be thinking, what the heck is taking so long, or who is she talking to. or you know that stuff.
and then when you answer him.. just be like oh yeahh. so it kinda sounds like your kidding. but your still answering yes.
that will most likely make him want you.
personally, that method always works for me. guys like a little bit of a chase, so to speak.
i hoped that helpedd. (:
okay so Ive been talking to this guy named jake for about a week.and today is the day i want to stop. Hes a popular jock and is very hot. and hes been IMing me being a perv and saying how hot i am and like telling me to masturbate with him . He even sent PICS. He probably does think im hot, cause when i used a different SN to be other people he was just like eh. but I know he does not like me, and i obviously don't like him either.
I don't know whats wrong with me. but he gets addicting to talk to. I tell myself i dont want to , but i always end up talking to him.
He says for last few days, he's been masturbating like 20 times to my facebook picture. Does he actually think im hot?
but like when i comment him on it saying hi, he does not respond. i think he thinks that im gonna comment him back talking about the things he says to me.
He also tells me not to tell anyone that he's being perverted to me, cause he's usually not like this to everyone else. He tells me "I've never felt this way before." and when i told him, "well. people at school probably already know your really perverted." and he said "nah not really"
Im pretty sure hes embarrased that hes saying perverted things to a random girl.
but i dont know, what does this mean?
I also see him at school sometimes and i dont know how to react when I see him.
So i want to quit talking to him...or at least calm him down on the pervertedness.
What should i say to like leave him hanging? and leave him wanting to talk to me more?
thanks you dont have to answer all the questions :D
What type of reputation do you have in school? Like, do you dress like a slut or anything? Because, it sounds like he wants to get some from you. It doesn't sound like your a slut though, so hmm, i dno. maybe he just actually likes you, and is like trying to get your attention. why don't you just say like.. why do you say this stuff to me? do you like me or something? and see what happens with that. just put him on the spot.
oh anddd, don't tease him and pretend you like him or something. guys hate that. girls will do that to my brother, and he ends up like stop talking to them. I mean, dont be like all over a guy, but don't act like you dont like the person anymore or something. That sends mix signals, and no one like that. because, hes kinda sending you mixed signals, and it doesn't seem like you like it either, so be careful on what you sayy..
15/f.
how do i become more confident?
Look at yourself in the mirror, point out all of your positive looks, and then tell yourself, how either your smart, or funny, or whatever. do that everyday, and youll have a ton of confidence.
Can someone tell me something about becoming a vegiterrian. Is it hard to start? Do you loose alot of weight? What are you supposed to eat? I'm just curious because I want to become one. Kthankks. :D
How old are you?
if your not 18 or older, i strongly don't recommend you become one.
if you are younger then 18, you are not going to grow properly. and you'll be unhealthy and blah blah blah..
If your older, it is very hard. because, well.. do you like cookies. (: ?
WELL. say goodbye to those.
cookies have eggs and them, and veggiterrians can't eat them. (:
Do you like pizza?
SORRY. i hope you only like cheese pizza.
Do you like fast food?
yanoo, chiptole, mcdonalds, wendys, and so on.
well, youll have a very limited choice of food if your a veggiterrian.
WHAT ABOUT ICE CREAMM?
mm, who doesn't love ice cream?
WELL. you can't have it anymore if your a vergitterian.
it also contains eggs. (:
In fact, many delicious treats, like chocolate and so forth, contain eggs.
When most people think of vegitterians, they only think about the whole 'meat' thing. they don't realize all the tasty sugary things can't be eaten either.
And if your wondering still what to eat.
basically, no treats, no pizza, or saleds [most tasty saled have like bacon or something in it],
or fast food, or anything really.
And, it doesn't really help you lose weight. if you want to lose weight, drink plenty of water, and take some walks.
and your good to go.
So I walked up to my teacher when she was talking with another teacher but I didn't say anything because they were still talking and I didn't wan tto speak until they were finished although i didn;t know how long that would be so they talked like for five minutes longer which didn't bother me but she was gonna walk away like i wasn't standing there was i wrong for not saying anything or walking up there to start with? I didn't speak until he had left
i've done that like a million times before. but usually when it happens to me, like all of a sudden a teacher comes into the room or calls or whatever, and i'm like just standing there. but like, i don't know, i mean, your teacher had to see you standing there, i think its kinda wrong that the teacher like left you hanging there. i mean, and if it was really something like important they were talking about or something that would take long, they could have stopped, and your teacher could have been like.. what do you need? or whatever. so i wouldn't worry about if if i were you.
14/f
alright so theres this guy i like and he likes me back..but he also likes another girl (i told him i liked someone else from ohio but i dont i just wanted him to ne jealose)..okay so the other day we were walking down the halls before track and we started making out..and now in track we always mess around and he'll like feel my butt and everything. I really like him but it annoys me that he likes someone else and whenever she's around he goes up and flirts with her even though she already has a boyfriend..so this leaves me really confused im really not sure if he likes me..a friend of mine said that he really likes me he just doesnt want to ruin our friendship so he doesnt want to ask me out...so what do you guys think does he really like me or does he just want someone to mess around with???..thanks in advance
hmmm. it kinda seems he needs to straighten his feelings out. i kinda think, hes just using you. I mean, if he truly liked you, he'd ask you out. I mean, if he can makeout with you, and doesn't realize that could tottaly ruin your friendship too, then hes pretty stupid. basically, i think hes just lookin for someone to mess around with. at 14.. thats how most guys are. you should tell him how you truly feel though. i'd just say, yano do you like me or not? or do you like that other girl more? because i deserve an answer, and im not just someone for you to mess around with. if you like me, then i want it for you to only like me. if you like her more, or don't know at the moment, then you tell me when you do know.
i'd say something like that. because come on, why would you like someone, who doesn't like you as much as you like them?
i hope it works outt.
cya