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preg.
um i screwed a boy 2 weeks ago.. and he pulled out.. but im scared i maybe preg. what is the chance i am.. if i am i dont no what to do.. because if i tell him he will deny it..
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Well first you should see if you if your actually pregnat. And if you are you should tell you parents and see thier input on it. Finally if you decide to keep the baby then you try to tell the father that you are gona have a baby and you know that it's his.
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Yah. If the pull out method worked, I wouldn't have a baby sleeping in his cradle right now. But I'm a 29 year old married woman, so it wasn't an unwelcome pregnancy.
I can't tell you your chances; I can only tell you that it isn't a reliable birth control method by a far stretch. There is still sperm in his pre-cum, though not as much as what's swimming about in his semen.
I can't tell you what to do. However, I do think the boy has a right to know if you are pregnant. As well as both of your parents.
If he denies it, oh well for now. You have to accept it at this stage. Once the baby comes, he can be made to do a DNA test, of which there is NO denying it's results.
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There's a chance...wait for your period and if it doesn't come get a pregnancy test. Condom next time? Maybe a good idea. (CH)
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Wait until it's time for your period, if you're late then go buy a pregnancy test. If it's positive then go get tested because they can be inaccurate at times.
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Eesh. You're so young to be going through this. First of all, try not to worry until you have to. Give it a month and see if you have your period. If you can't stand it that long, buy a pregnancy test in Walgreens or a supermarket (not the 99 cent store, though I've seen them there). Sometimes you have to be farther along than a couple of weeks for the test to be positive. If you are pregnant, you might soon start feeling very, very tired and your breasts might hurt. In the past, it worked for men/boys to deny that the baby was theirs. Boys would even have a buddy lie and say he also slept with the girl, even if the girl was totally faithful and with one person. These days, there's proof in the form of a DNA test.
If you are pregnant, your options are to get an abortion or to carry the baby to term. If you carry the baby to term, you can choose either to parent the baby yourself (keep it) or give it up for adoption. That's something that no one here can decide for you. You are probably eligible for government help with food and medicaid if you cannot afford it for the term of your pregnancy if you don't choose to terminate.
Best wishes. Send me a message to my inbox if you want to talk.
Sabine
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get a pregancy testtt.
or wait and see if you pms.
if you don't, i'd tell an adult.
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wait until your period, if it doesn't come, tell your mom, or a female adult you trust.
they'll know what to do.
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