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14/f
alright so theres this guy i like and he likes me back..but he also likes another girl (i told him i liked someone else from ohio but i dont i just wanted him to ne jealose)..okay so the other day we were walking down the halls before track and we started making out..and now in track we always mess around and he'll like feel my butt and everything. I really like him but it annoys me that he likes someone else and whenever she's around he goes up and flirts with her even though she already has a boyfriend..so this leaves me really confused im really not sure if he likes me..a friend of mine said that he really likes me he just doesnt want to ruin our friendship so he doesnt want to ask me out...so what do you guys think does he really like me or does he just want someone to mess around with???..thanks in advance
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Lay down some rules, day that you want the truth and nthing but. Say that you want to know if he likes you or just someone to mess around with. I know what hes going to say though, hes going to say that he likes you, but don't be fooled, you should watch him. Make sure he isnt flirting with any other girls, if you find out he is, then drop him like a hot tomali. As for the other girl, tell her off, say you already bf. SO BUT OUT! That's something i would say at least. Plz keep me informed, i would be so happy to know what happens.
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hmmm. it kinda seems he needs to straighten his feelings out. i kinda think, hes just using you. I mean, if he truly liked you, he'd ask you out. I mean, if he can makeout with you, and doesn't realize that could tottaly ruin your friendship too, then hes pretty stupid. basically, i think hes just lookin for someone to mess around with. at 14.. thats how most guys are. you should tell him how you truly feel though. i'd just say, yano do you like me or not? or do you like that other girl more? because i deserve an answer, and im not just someone for you to mess around with. if you like me, then i want it for you to only like me. if you like her more, or don't know at the moment, then you tell me when you do know.
i'd say something like that. because come on, why would you like someone, who doesn't like you as much as you like them?
i hope it works outt.
cya
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Ouch, from the sounds of this, this guy isn't really looking for a relationship with you. It seems to me like he thinks of you as a hookup, nothing else. Guys are pretty blind and don't know when they are doing wrong, like flirting with someone who already has a boyfriend. He needs to learn what he wants, and how to handle his feelings for someone who is already taken. For you, I think you should stop messing around with him. It will only lead you to heartbreak since he is sending you mix signals. If it ends up that he doesn't talk to you when you guys don't mess around, then he was deffinately looking for a hookup. Just talk, have fun and be friends. Make sure this is a guy you want to be with, not just a guy to break your heart.
Good luck :]
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